Is it fair to keep your password a secret from your spouse?

Trollhair

yes. You are a grown person. You don't have to tell him everything. What if you get a divorce. He has access to everything.

Valerie C

i keep mine from my spouse..lol

?????????????????

My wife gave me hers a long time ago and recently was acting really shady when we returned from a trip. As it turns out she was e-mailing with a guy that she met on the trip. The e-mails were very interesting to read....good thing that I knew the pass word. She was all but throwing herself at him. So, unless there is something to hide, I am all for sharing the password.

Ellyn

yes, of course. That is respect for their privacy.

pimpa1949

yes.....password is the personal thing....just the same as women's handbags that the husband...lover...boyfriend are not suppose to look in side without the permission.

c.arsenault

Of course! Never share your password. I don;t even make my kids share their passwords. Of course I totally trust my family.

greenbaypackers1920

nope not fair I always give my wife my password of everything on computer if we are married it about trust and knowing what going on... I rather my wife see for herself than later she found out before me. smiling.

bfm

I do and I don't feel guilty for it. Everyone needs their privacy.

bluesie

I don't see the big deal. I don't see why people would think that you're hiding something by not sharing said password with your spouse.

My hubby doesn't know my password and he hasn't asked to have it either.

Jeannine

In some cases it could be acceptable. For example, my sister already tries to get into her boyfriends myspace account because she knows that he's been talking to an ex, but he keeps changng it. In some cases it could be really important to share passwords with your spouse, but probably nothing like that, only for something major. Hope that helps a little.

y_r_all_men_insane

absolutelY!! just becasue your married doesnt mean u have no privacy rights

SuzieQ

yes. u still have to have privacy. doesnt mean ur guilty of anything just means u dont want any1 snoopin and bein nosey

Anjanette A

ah....yeah!!

red head

no,i wont let my husband have my pass word either.....its mine i feel that if he trust me then he trust me then he dont need to snoop....

Why not me

i have the same password for everything if my spouse knows one she knows them all, i fill if i can trust her with my kids, money and cooking me a special dinner without putting rat poisoning in it. them i can trust her with my email,cellphone are what ever else password. i hear people talking about privacy, yeah from the guy in the cubicle next to you, @ the bank ATM even the check out line in grocery store. why @ home if you are doing it there then there's a problem. just my opinion.

bridgy

Talk to your spouse...if it makes them feel insecure you really shouldn't ...because after all thats kind of giving them a reason to
mistrust... if they are cool with it ..keep it secret...maybe they are hiding things from u too.

bibus73

Every body need private space, where he can be alone for a while. Your e-mail maybe such a space. But a protection of the privacy comes with the price. The price are being suspicions of the spouse. I guess that the spouse acts because of her own fears but you must answer yourself if the peace in the family is more important then your privacy.

Katsumi

I think it depends on what the passwords for..I personally would keep it from my spouse, I like to have privacy. Besides, if they truely love you, then they'll trust you enough to not do anything that's harmful to your relationship. You're required to some privacy!!

Nicki

It's just according to what you going on in yor life, everyone needs privacy but do you have her password.?

Catherinefaith

I don't know if it's fair or not...I do...if he was interested in seeing what I'm doing I would open up and let him look..I've got nothing to hide...

Raineybaby

password to what?? Depends

cd love

it can be but if its a deep secret no only if they keep secrets from you

steelypen

I don't know if it is. My husband and I know eachother's, it's more convenient. I know what I would think of a person who kept his password secret...I think I'd be suspicious! I think it's also kinda weird, what does anyone have to hide? or think they need that kind of privacy for? It doesn't much imply trust, of course, neither does looking when you're not asked to...Good question.

Shiraz the Stud

yes its their right

blondeqtwitanicebooty

I don't keep anything from my husband I know his password and he knows mine we have nothing to hide so why not

krm

those who claim respect for privacy are always the ones who leave just a little crack open for a little fun on the side, or have even a small detail that always leads to putting ones self in situations where options are always just that an option. It lets emotional cheating happen, it lets those secret emails turn into affairs of cheating either physical, or emotional sometimes both.

I gurantess that unless it is secret service, cia business in which that email is needed to be as a sercurity clearance, there's something being hidden.

Rachel G

You would have to ask yourself why your keeping it a secret

tabby_24_2000_2000

It is indeed fair with one condition. The condition is that if it bothers or hurts the spouse then yes it's unfair. Some people feel that in marriages you should share everything and others do not. Personally, I don't feel that you have to; I feel that being married is about sharing and trust. So my answer is: if it is hurting or bugging your spouse, talk about it, because in a way it is unfair.

loladoreen

I think if it is for the right reasons. I dont have anyting to hide from my husband, if he asked I would tell him. But I show him everything anyhow. I don't know why you would want to keep it from him, IF he asked

tttpsunshine

i think not...

sephoroths

I dont know try talking with your spouse.

Enter Your Message or Comment

User Name:
User Email:
Post a comment: