Is it me who is too sensitive or is it my husband who is not respecting me and care for my feelings?

I was extremly fat when I started to date my current husband who is European after I had broken up with my ex because he had made fun of my fat body. After that I started to get very bad feelings about my body and I felt low. I started to diet and spend lots of money in my home country in middle east to lose weight while I had contact with my husband only on internet and I lost 100 pounds and then moved to his country. Even though I lost weight I stayed extremly sensitive about my body and weight and when my husband watched movies with naked thin actresses in it I always cried and begged him not to watch. But he says its normal and he keeps watching and tells me that I am sick if I am too sensitive. I must mention that in last months I got some hormonal problems that I went up in weight all of a sudden and it hurts me like hell and I suffer even more than before. Am I too sensitive or is it my husband who should respect me and not watch these kind of movies?

morbidlybeautiful

you are being entirely too sensitive!! You may need to seek some professional mental help and I am not saying that to be mean, but you obviously have some serious issues.

Samantha E

Your being to sensitive - everyone in hollywood is 10 million times thinner than everyone else. I think you should see a therapist about your problems its not good to think about yourself in that kind of way. How can your husband love you if you don't love yourself?

Mark K

so are you saying he should only watch fat naked actresses? Well tell that to Hollywood because there are not many, I don't think anyone wants to see Rosie O'donnell nude

Mr Math

There is nothing wrong with a person body, be it small to tall or skinny to overweight, it is only how you feel about yourself if your mate does anything other than encourage you to be the best that you could than they are usually in the wrong. Do what makes you happy and yes I feel for ya getting that extra weight off is a real pain in the backside but if that is what you want good luck!

pisces1932

You're too sensitive. There is a naked girl in almost every movie. Plus girls are almost naked everytime people go out. You need to realize that your husband is yours. Who cares what he looks at? NON Middle-Eastern men are so used to naked women, it really doesn't phase them. They like what they see and move on. No one dwells on it. It's like if you see a beautiful painting or tree. It just is beautiful - there's no hiding it or denying it. It is a fact of life. Women are beautiful. I even think so and I am a woman. I don't care if my husband sees naked or beautiful women on tv, as long as he is not being gross or rude and oogling at them. I think crying and begging is extreme. We Non Middle-Easterners LOVE tv, so he is not likely to give it up. It has nothing to do with women. It has to do with tv shows & movies. It's fun and relaxing to watch. Never beg your husband. NEVER!!! Just be the hotty you are and who cares if these women are skinnier than you? You have the man!!!

Allie

You have mental-problems with your weight. That isn't saying you're crazy, but you may need to get some help (psychiatric) if those anorexic actresses make you cry. At the same time, your husband should respect you and your needs and try to help you rather than hurt you.

ghosai

although i understand your predicament and your feelings, you are being a little bit more sensitive than usual. your husband watching movies with thin women on them and you getting upset over it is a little more than ridiculous. you should work on boosting up your self-confidence, your self-worth that way you will be able to look upon these other women and not compare yourself to them.

As for your husband, he needs to be a little more sympathetic to your situation, he knows what you went through, and how you feel, he should give you encouragement, but the self-esteem building you must do on your own..

you can't rely on him to become your confidence builder, he can help but you must do it yourself or else, if there was ever a time when he is not there, you will flail like a baby bird trying to fly...

i know im sounding a little harsh, but i had to learn on my own too, i went through a similiar situation as you did.

good luck sweetie

â–ºâ—„â–ºâ—„Egyptian Princessâ–ºâ—„â–ºâ—„

Your to sensitive and your husband should respect you it's like a win win situation

Lolz

He should respect you

freakboynv2008

you are WAY to sensitive about this.

k2k

its normal to watch these movies, your hormonal problems are probably making it worse.

I feel weird seeing really skinny women naked on the screen when im not of the tiny persuasion. its normal but not something you want to get overly sensitive about, which no offense but i think you are.

i feel the same way, like oh hes going to think shes hotter than me. But just remember, those girls are on the screen. your the one sitting next to him.

Satanic Brainsmasher

Let him watch it. This way it will help him get off when he is with you.

Protege'

I recommend inositol which is a b vitamin from Trophic. There are dozens of way to reduce fat in the body and become thin. It must be a sore spot sensitive spot. Your husband doesn't love you he is only living with you. You need to be bioengineered.

*havin fun in the sun*

your husband should respect your wishes and respect your feelings. he should be enjoying your body, not the ones on the tv

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