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Butterfly Princess
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No. The 30 year old must be really immature. |
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Walking on Sunshine
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physically, yes. emotionally, probably not. |
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Nena S
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Perhaps he likes to control people...and an immature 18-year-old can be very pliable.
I think it's not healthy. |
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YUMMY1
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An 18 yr old is only good for 1 thing!! |
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Mama Mia
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It is normal to be attracted but it is not right to act on it. You have too much baggage at 30 to be with a kid who is just starting into adulthood. |
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lady31
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No that is not normal. That is nasty! |
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banks
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Yes. Not many 18 year olds are truly women - still children these days. |
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cynthia h
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sure, it reminds the 30 year old of what his dates were like in high school! as for following up on it? rather unfair on the 18 year old. after all, they aren't old enough to drink, or get into clubs, or bars....so what exactly are you going to do on a date? and as to generation differences in music and movies and slang? I would think it would make the 30 year old feel OLD to hang out with the 18 year old's friends. or used- and if you supply them with booze and they get hurt, arrested etc, then you are totally screwed. Jail time where I live. Fresh was the word. young and naive and untroubled by life...but you can't recapture it by dating someone. |
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lex
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It's not really normal and I dont even think its very good. Seriously if you were talking about a 12 year age gap between a 30 year old and a 42 year old, Id think otherwise, but this 30 year old sounds a little weird to be going after an 18 year old... although it does happen and it can sometimes work out. |
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John W
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i think it is really odd, and YUCKK!!!!!, but if it is true love then go ahead. |
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Codynova
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I'm 32 and the physical attraction will definitely be there. Personally, even when I was 24, in college, and working at a restaurant I though the 17 year old hostesses were hot and an easy target. Although, I couldn't deal with the young girls attitude and naivete. There was one I actually felt like I had a connection with, but I couldn't imagine dating a teenager. I think there could be a genuine physical and emotional connection but the chances are about 1 and 100 it will work. If you have a 30 year old chasing you down don't do it for your sake. |
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Tano A
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I'm sure especially because women peak in their 30's and men peak in their teens and 20's. It may just be the libido :P and also those 18 year olds are more attractive than older men lol. |
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FxckYou
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uhh maybe |
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enigma
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It is not 'abnormal' but I would not go there. Find someone of your own age. He is still a teenager. |
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Heidi62
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Nope, just lusty and horny. Every thirty old should ralize that a real relationship would not work. An 18 year still has a look of growing up to do. Now 28 and 40 - yes that would work. |
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Rosessis
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yes |
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Honesty
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It's normal for some fun in the sun, but for a long-term relationship, I don't think so.
Look at the ages. When an 18 year old looks back 5 years...How much have they changed?
Now think about the 30 year old.
Does that put it into perspective?
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pdoubleu
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is it normal? sure. you can help who you're attracted to or want to be with |
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xXkaylanXx
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yes. |
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blondie
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not for him to be attracted but to act on it he is a pervert. |
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tjnstlouismo
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Attracted to, maybe. Doing something about it involves a character that is willing to take advantage of someone else and who has no self esteem. Otherwise he would know he nothing whatsoever in common. |
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jemmae
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Normal to be attracted, but not OK to act on it. |
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john.6551
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yes of course once legal age has been obtained age is but a number |
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Missie
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The attraction isn't abnormal, but acting on it would be. Leave it alone!!! |
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brendacott
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Yes.
For just a fling, OK.
But if you are looking for commitment then no. Your age difference would be too much of a barrier. |
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*smile*
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Well, I think there is a HUGE difference in 30 and 18. At 30 he should be mature and responsible and she couldn't possible be if she is fresh out of high school. They wouldn't be on the same wave length. I think it would seem more *real* in terms of attraction if she were say... 20 or 21 to at least add a couple years of being an adult. |
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remoserjr107
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It seems to be more closer to parent-child relationship; 30 yr. old should stay closer to his/her age group...!! |
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Tommy
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How immature are you?? Find a woman closer to your age, or are you a paedophile? |
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BBNsaga
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My cousin was 14 and dating a 26 year old. I told her, if you think it's ok then that is your choice. But if you saw a gay couple doing the same thing, wouldn't you think it was a little weird. So, find someone your own age and stop being so gay? |
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Israel's Angel
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their legal that's all that matters....have fun;) |
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