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stormy
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tell him it's either you or her,that's it!!!! |
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Yes stop it there is no excuse for that ! |
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doclakewrite
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Now.... and tell him to make the choice.....he sounds like a player, you had better be careful.... |
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beaches
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Depends on how much you trust your husband and his ex. I never stopped my husband from having communication with his ex's. Even knowing that they wanted him back. I know though also my husband would not flirt with them or start any conversation. They would have to start. But thankfully my husband wanted nothing to do with his exs. If your man had any consideration he wouldn't be doing it. I wouldn't say no you can't because it might make him do it more, but let him know that your not happy about it, that he should be giving you all of his attention, not his ex. But if it is just talk about famlilies and whats going on in the world then I wouldn't worry about it. |
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Random Precision
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That behavior is very destructive to a relationship. He should stop. |
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janejane
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Does he ever act on anything? Remember that flirting with others is just practice for flirting with you.
As long as he comes home to you and "saves all his love for you", I wouldn't worry about it.
Just don't ever give him a reason to go outside your marriage for what he should be getting inside it! |
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I love America♥♥♥
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yes you should! my husband and i made a deal if i wont talk to my ex's neither will he and we both have been less mad at eachother. who knows what there talking about? definetly stop that. good luck |
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CNT
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YES PUT A STOP TO IT NOW. THAT IS CRAZY. I WOULD NEVER LET MY HUSBAND DO THAT. HE MIGHT STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER. I HOPE NOT. GOOD LUCK. |
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mxn
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Talking is one thing. Flirting is another thing all together............
However, 'putting a stop' to it may play you into the situation that you are trying to avoid.
Maybe you could ask how is -------- and what is she up to these days. You could even mention that you came across ---------- [an ex of yours :)] and he is not doing so badly............
Use your head to beat the situation, try not to get too emotional.
Good luck! |
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Gen•X•er (I love zombies!)
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No, it's not ok. Yes, you should put a stop to it. |
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yawhosucs
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hahhaa....one thing leads to another....come on now, you know better than this..and you know the answer too! |
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vanhammer
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I don't think it's fair to you and it is disrespectful of your marriage to flirt and talk with his ex. He needs to remember his wedding vows. He's not single anymore and the time he's spending talking to her should be time spent with you. Put a stop to it now! |
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Only Me
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Nip It!! (not literally). |
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marisela g
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um duh honey wht the hell stop while ur ahead |
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Betty B
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You nip that **** in the butt! NOW!!... No it's not ok!!!! |
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ricketyoldbat
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You can't put a stop to this. or you would have stopped it already. So get a good copy of all the emails for a month and store them with a back up copy at a lawyers office for that divorce you'll be fileing for soon.
If you have been married three years and he's still into girlfriends on the net, he's still into girlfriends in the car, in their apartments, in the motel by the hour.. etc. |
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The Wraith of God is coming
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Yeah pretty much it is not such a good idea. |
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unknown
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If my husband or just boyfriend 'll flirt with his ex girlfriends I'll stop it cuz it's ridiculous! If I'm his wife and he married me , I'm special in his eyes - why he's trying to flirt with someone else?
But the real problem is how to stop it?
If you'll scream and swear it'll be only concussion of air and he'll think that you're hysterical & uncertain.
Use your woman cunning and you'll win
Advise: be provident
♫♪♥♫ - nayacanna |
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p34nu7bu773rj3lly7im3
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yes, thats so rude
or u can just flirt with the waiter
then when he yells @ u in the car after dinner, explain that when he flirts via email u feel the same way |
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520
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She is his EX for a reason, Don't put too much into them emailing each other. if you know they are emailing each other, then he is not hiding it from you. I have Ex Boyfriends that I also email, but we were friends, classmates and family friends, before boyfriend & girlfriend, HE IS MY EX for a GOOD REASON, And I have no other feelings for him, but we are still friends, I moved out of state and he keeps me informed about our shared friends, my boyfriend knows we call and email each other.( I don't know what trust factor the two of you deal with) |
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aussiebug3000
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its better for him to stay in contact with them, then having them go to your house and vandalizing all of your property that you own and have her ruining your life! yes. |
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♥Deziree's Mommy♥
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Hell yeah you should put a stop to this. He is flirting with an ex! What more do you need?? What else do this sleaze ball do behind your back? Would he mind if you were just flirting with your ex? |
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Vernita B
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I am married and if I found out that he was still talking to them AND flirting with them I would have to insist that he put a stop to it. If he continues to do something that is unacceptable within the boundaries of your marriage then he needs to at the very least be shaken up.
Let him know that you aren't happy with his behavior and tell him that you won't stand for it (and mean it).
I wish you luck! |
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#1 Baby Girl Due this summer
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Uh, yes. |
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Alyssa
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Im married too and I do talk to my exes; actually 2 of them are 2 of my best freinds now. So I wouldnt mind if my husband had a freindship with his exes either. I do NOT agree with the flirting part though. Just an honest and clan friendship is OK. |
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lily
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It is absolutely not ok. They don't sound very ex to me. |
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kitkat
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PUT A STOP TO HIS CHEATING A@@ NOW!!!!!! |
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cashis
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Yes, you should. but if it doesnt bother you that your husband is flirting with his ex than dont worry about it. |
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Just Me
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Where's his committment, devotion and respect for you??? I wouldn't put up with it. If he values you he should not do that imo. |
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Lady Hewitt
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No he should not be doing this at all. You need to ask him to please stop and that this is really bothering you. Yes you should ask him to stop and if he does not then leave him and move on with your life. If your husband really loves you he will stop. |
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rea
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I think that's its a big NO NO for a husband to flirt with his ex, even making way for a communication for both of them. Ex is already part of the past and should be never be a part of the present relationship. And take note...what is the purpose of connecting once again to a previous relationship? The important thing that the husband should think is that he's married and there's no other woman beyond his eyes but only his own wife. Every wife needs an assurance from her own husband, so the husband must not do anything that could put doubts on her wife's mind. It is a form of disrespect in the part of the wife |
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