Is it ok for married men to go to strip clubs?

hack_ace

You can go to strip clubs if you take your wife with you. If she does not want to go, then drop it.

Grow up. If you were grown up enough to get married, you should be grown up enough to stop going to t!tt!e bars.

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I don't know...Is it okay for their wives to be the strippers..?

organizedcookie

Even if a wife says she's okay with it, she probably isn't. When a guy goes to a strip club it's telling his wife that a) she doesn't turn him on enough (even if he tells her otherwise) and b) it's okay that some women strip for men (would you want your wife or daughter to do that?).

Would you be okay with your wife going to a strip club featuring male dancers doing lap dances and the like?

Lying makes it 100 times worse.

Lisa

if a man goes to a stripclub for the intentions of looking at another woman and getting aroused by another woman.....isn't that the same as cheating? And a married couple should never lie to one another.

suzukichick650

I like to go with my husband. It is something we both enjoy. I think if a man is going behind his womens back then it is wrong, if she is ok with it, or she goes then it can be great fun.

yoohoosusie

Not for me it isn't...My Hubby used to go all the time before we met, he says he did it to put down women cause of his previous relationship. But I don't go for it, never have, never will...I tell him he can still go, but don't come home afterwards...

Ashley

Its not ok if hes my husband. If he lied to me, Id throw him out, hes not my partner if he can look into my eyes & lie.

honey_bear_21_1999

I don't think I'd have a problem with it......as long as I could occasionally go with him.......I expect him to be flirty and all, like the other men there, but I also expect him NOT to buy himself a lap dance........unless I'm with him.....(in which case I'D buy it for him)

stacey711

sure, he can go look. As long as I can go to a male review.

But, if he thinks he is going to come home and get some from me the same night....He must be crazy!!!

man2190

is the first time i've heard about this things in man

julesl68

Yes, occasionally, as long as he doesn't become "obsessed". I don't want to know all the details about what goes on when he's there. We've talked about it and we agreed on what line not to cross, and I leave it at that. If he ever lied to me about going, I would ask him why he lied when I don't really care that he went in the first place. Then, I would make him take me with him. ;)

Mary W

I don't see why not! I go to them and I could care less if my husband went to one. I am not the jealous type, I know my stuff is good enough for him so I don't worry about him cheating

bu eng kim jiu

I think it is a OK as long as there is trust and openness in the marriage.Woman maybe have to go shopping or anything that will spoil herself while man go to the strip club.

J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0

no it is not ok i wouldn't let my huband when i get one

jerome l

go have a good time but go home to your old ladie

Instant_Karma_Oats

Of course its ok.

Heather b

OHH its no big deal..I would rather my husband go there then a singles bar...the women in strip clubs want the money not your man...and yes men act like kids in a candy store...go with him..

Annie's World

Nope!!!

Lucille

I think its ok. See I tell my husband that he can go. I guess that makes it less intresting for him, Cuz he wont go. HE ask's me if he can, I say yes, then he says that I took the fun out of it.

Masood

It is not where they go that matters, but what they do while they are in there.

daveinsurprise

Personally I think its immaturity. I would rather have my girlfriend strip for me and I know for sure im getting some.

Melissa R

I'm ok with it. I tell him, "Go ahead and look at all that fake stuff and come home to the real thing." He tells me what he did( really he does.) He told me about how this one girl could pick up $1 bills with her butt cheeks. So I tried it, OMG, I have never laughed so much in my life. If you are open about it, then he will have no reason to lie to you.

thadish32

this is just intertainment. Just a show. then you go home and beat your wife stuff up!

bleed_black_11

I don't think it's okay.
You gata wife @ home who can give you more than they can, and if she can't well then you gatta let her know how you want it!

Lindsay

I woudln't like it because it would degrade me. I would like him to be honest with me, most importantly. Hey some wives don't even mind going with you as long as you are honest with them and if they say know have a little common sense and don't go. You should have enough action with your wife. If not spice it up. However, devaluing her and goingto a strip club or even thinking about another woman stripping kinda hurts. Just think about your wife stripping! You both win. You get someone to strip but it's the one person you love and you are not hurting her.

Twidle de dee twidle de dum
He just likes to look at her bum

college_chamrock

yes it is very much ok.....but u gotta know not to go all the time

dreamer662

My husband went to one on his b-day...got to lap dances. Came home late and lied to me where he was at. Then he went back a few days later..he dissapeared all night. Did I mention I was 9mos pregnant?? Well..I found a number in his wallet & he lied about it too...so I contacted the #..turned out it was the stripper he saw. He was trying to hook up with her...I was so mad...we ended up getting into a fight when I told him I found out about what he was doing. Its been a lil over 5weeks..I gave birth to our daugther (our 3rd) 2weeks ago. I'm so torn becuz I told him if he went to one i'd divorce him...we've been together almost 8yrs. And married almost 5yrs. I can't afford to leave if I wanted to.... I love him & wanna work things out for us & our kids...but how can I move past his lies & the fact he almost cheated on me? He wanted to file a divorce but now he's confused...what should I do? I don't wanna be lied to or hurt by him anymore...does anyone think we can b saved?

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