Is it ok that I bought a Cubic Zirconia engagement ring?

Hill Topper

That's horrible. You think your bike is less important than your wife. Horrible.

Stephanie P

You are kidding, right? I hope she takes it to get appraised then dumps your cheap bootie---one who would rather hang with the guys? That's a little twisted. Good luck with that one!

*Moni* VOTE 08!

loser

ann s

it's only ok if you're truthful about it

it's gonna be cold sleepin with the harley

Sandi H

If you are happy to build a marriage around lies and sneakiness, go right ahead.

Michael N

No.

A reason to smile...

You need to tell her it's fake before she finds out by herself.
Tell her for your 1 year or 5 year anni, you'll buy her a real one. She might be ok with it.

trial and error

you'd be better off just getting her a gold ring with no stone on it at all.

HORSY

It is okay you got a cubic zirconia ring. But the fact you got it to buy yourself a harley davidson(You can't even spell it) means your pretty selfish.

Looseygoosey

You stink like a pig, so you must be one.

super sweet, sheila

Lame. Harley over wifey. You rock.

It makes sense if you genuinely couldn't afford a ring and just wanted to propose. But if you had the money and spent it on something for yourself, that's just lame.

jennifer

thats the dumbest thing i have EVER heard. so beyond not okay and thats the worse excuse ever!

la buena bruja

It's only ok if you tell her the truth up front. Otherwise, you're just another selfish scumbag who is trying to justify his own indulgences.

nerfy

if you must do this to your unsuspecting wife to be at least get a white saphhire or a white topaz- cubic zirconia is tacky- and yes she may find out!

Lunaeclipz

Its OK with me but I'm glad you aren't my fiance-LOL

eld13

No, it's not okay. Her engagement ring is something she is going to keep forever and may pass down. If I were you I'd save some money, tell her the truth and replace it with a real diamond that she picks out herself so she can see how much you are really spending.

Amy

no it is not ok. especially if you tell her its a diamond.

doktrgroove

Dude, they can tell the difference!!!

I wouldn't even try. She'll be insulted.

I'll add this after your addition.

You are a FOOL to think that she won't know without having it appraised. I'm TELLING YOU......THEY KNOW!

Go ahead and do it. You'll find out!

Atoja

It's something fishy with this question. Is this truth?
Remember, you cheat now and you cannot be trusted ever.

Nobody

Uh, if you don't think she's worth it, then yes go and buy a CZ ring and lie to her that it's a diamond.

Rayhana

It's not important where you have spend your money on. If she truely loves you she should not even care on what kind of ring (the value) you are giving her. The more important thing is the efford you take to find her a nice ring and the attention. Is she does care then i guess she is not the right one for you. then she probably won't support you in hard times. Good luck, wish you best in life.

Shelley

I think you should have been honest with your wife, a Cubic Zirconia is OK if you are saving money towards a deposit on a house or something more important for the both of you...but really a Harley to fit in at the club.

This is so phony, people should be accepted how they are not make out to be someone you are not.

With all that time spent at the club with the rich fellas...there won't be any wife to afford a real diamond for some day as she will have shot though from neglect.

Studley Von Longshlong

A good woman would be happy as a pig in Sh#$ to get any kind of ring. She should be jumping through hoops. I hope she has dinner on the table for you when you get home.

6@5^&%

I think it's ok. You two love each other and that's all what matter. . .Don't listen to these people that ring will be fine. Good Luck and Enjoy your special day.

Gossip Girlâ„¢

That is one of the worst excuses I've ever heard. Good strategy? Right? WRONG!

autumn

I think that you are starting your marriage out badly by being dishonest. The way you talk sounds as though you don't really respect your wife. Even if you couldn't afford a real diamond and were honest about it, most women would understand and wouldn't mind. Like you said, you could buy a real diamond later on, but she would always cherish the first ring. The way you're going about it is very wrong.

lauren

If she has an idea you are going to propose and wants to marry you, discussing it shouldn't be a problem. If she knows you plan on getting her a real one, its one thing, if she thinks you're just being cheap its another. Marriage is about communication and if you don't have good communication now and lie about this you can prepare for a divorce before the wedding,.

lina blue

that is not a decent excuse at all. and everyone can tell a diamond from a cubic zirconia. your strategy doesnt carry much weight, you had to buy your way into a club. where is your integrity? where is your talent? what's going to happen when the Harley Davidson isn't enough anymore? Will you sell your finance?

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