Is it ok to have a crush on a married man if I feel we were meant to be together?

Liam Smith

It's worth fighting for him if you definitely know he loves you back. If you fight for him and he doesn't feel the same way, you can cause a lot of problems in his relationship, and then there's a lot less chance you'll ever be together.

shinigami922

roflmao... ima go ahead and call u a little girl ok.. cause seriously this is the most immature question ive EVER heard on here..

however ill still give u advice..... HE IS NOT FOR YOU...... HE IS MARRIED if u dont know what that meens than look it up... NOTHING CAN AND WILL COME FROM YOU MESSING AROUND IN THIS DUDES LIFE...

2Westies

Yes, "why are people so ignorant these days"?. A married man is off limits to you, he has a wife.

Shanna Rulez d00d

I'd leave it alone.
There's a reason he's married.

USMC wife <3 Due in June

No. Home wrecker. You're too late.

Tanya

You are asking for trouble girl!!

Nicky J

not even going to tell you the whole married part because everyone seems to have that covered! My only thing I feel I need to say is:
If he cheats on his wife what makes you think he will not cheat on you!!!

Your shiny and new right now but wont be forever...something always comes along that's shiny and tends to attract the ones with short attention spans

ALLEN VANBURG

BACK OFF HOME WRECKER!!!

marheather

Don't be so stupid. The man is married. Leave him alone

T's world

woman always disrespect each other. and you are exactly what i am talking about. take her man and ruin that family. she found him first. he asked her to marry him. leave them alone. just hope when you get married that no other woman takes your man and leave you with two kids and alone. you are a selfish b****. crush on a single man.

Lisa M

No. it is not ok at all.

klgtx04

leave him alone. if any woman came between me and my husband i would kill a b*t*h

redkat

no it is not ok at all know matter how you see it in your point of view and the way he would see it in his point of view and that really includes on how and what his wife would say and think about the situation.. trying to steal somebody else's significant other of any kind is very wrong and heartless

Bigdada63

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!When he gets single,then see how you feel..If you still feel the same,no problem& no fighting,,Win Win.

Jessie

Nabo don't be a marriage wrecker

Anthony C

stop dreaming for him
his wife will hate you forever if you cause their divorce

tinkerbell

HMMM....lets see...Its k if you think this is ok....

Lets say he leaves his wife..you get married...about a year maybe two into your marriage and all of a sudden he realizes he wasn't meant to be with you, but some other women...
Would YOU understand?? Being his wife and all would YOU think it was ok for him to be in love with someone else? Im sorry for sounding mean but I dont think that cheating(emotionally, or physically) is right. Find someone who will love you that doesn't have a wife..someone you will trust in the future.

jd ma

Trust me. I've been there. It feels VERY RIGHT to be there. But he's married to someone else for a reason. Back off for a bit, and see where you two stand. And by saying "back off for a bit," I mean, BACK OFF! For 6 months or so. If it were TRULY meant to be between you 2, it will happen. So back off and let it!

Elle

He's married. Leave the man alone.

He has a ring on his finger for a reason, and you don't want to be a home-wrecker.

I am Japanese

No it is not. He is married and is playing with you. He is running this game and you are falling for it. At the end of the day, he will always run back to his wife especially if he has a child with her. You will just be a jump off, a woman on the side, his nobody. Why would you want to degrade yourself?

Leon B

There IS no "meant to be". Some people are mutually compatible. Some are more mutually compatible than others, and sometimes that crosses marital bounds, but when it does, it of course introduces complications. Sometimes those complications are very bad. It all depends on the three (or more) people involved, of course.

I should mention that, statistically, a fairly high number of women who get involved in affairs hope their love interest will leave his wife but are disappointed. I don't know what the exact proportion is though.

TraceeCole

No, because if it were true love then he would leave her. See, the truth of the matter is that women don't realize that married men are NOT going to leave their wives for you. There are things married and live-in couples share, and things that woman does for him that you cannot. You cannot take the place of his wife. He can tell you whatever he wants to, but go ahead and try to break the ice with the wife and see how he flips on you...Don't waste your time.

raidergirl1965

No he is married if felt the same for you he would be getting a divorce. He is not getting a divorce, he will never get a divorce, he is using you. If you want to be sure tell him that he knows where he can find you and to call you when he has filed for divorce and can show you the papers. I can bet you will never hear from him again.

no...leave him. you are interfering in their marriage.

Bubuh

But you just don't mind destroying someone else's life? Like the WIFE? Then, yea. I guess its ok.

Ashley S

Leave him alone. Trust me, I mean... I know you'll do what you want anyway, but do you think that moving forward with him is going to make your life better, it's not gonna happen. You're going to have to deal with his ex-wife forever. And, do they have kids? It's only okay if it doesn't work out with the two of them, and getting a divorce on their own terms, but not because of you interferring with their marriage. Besides, if he's going to cheat with her, he'll cheat with you too. Trust me honey, been there done that and when she found out,he didn't even admit to KNOWING me. Save yourself some time girl and move on, BE SMART.

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