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hsarora47
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rizwan,
u only can decide. |
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HP
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That depends on your religious and cultural beliefs.
Personally I don't see the problem, but others might. Each to their own and only you can answer that for yourself. |
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monica p
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depends on person to person these days. |
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parampathu
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depends on religion, culture, any promises/oaths/chastity ring that you took/wear |
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lool
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Yes, it is absolutely okay. Actually it is not okay to be virgin when you marry. Because, if you are a virgin then you are lacking knowledge about your own body and that’s how an unhealthy relationship starts in various cultures (which requires you to be a virgin when you need to be married). Everyone should be familiar with the concept that a healthy marriage is based on a good physical relationship and a healthy/friendly mindset. So if something as insignificant as virginity comes to play an important role then the marriage is might as well down the drain.
Hope this makes sense. |
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yasten69
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only you can really answer that. do it beacuse you want to not beacuse of being pressured. i wish i wouldve waited. |
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Is that your final answer?
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Some people say that you should do it before your big night (honeymoon) because when your actually in your wedding night, you dont want it to be a hurtfull or bloody experience. I would wait if youre still a virgin, but if you know this is the man, then go for it. Good luck |
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Modest
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Nothing wrong or illegal there. |
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blueeyedbeauty637
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yes, i did and alot of people are..there is a VERY small percentage of people that do.. BUT do not just go around looking for someone to lose it too. make sure that the person that you decide to lose it to is the right person. losing it to someone else will make you regret it majorly. be VERY VERY smart about your decision, its a serious thing. |
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DaJavon D
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i think that it is not ok to lose your virginity because holding on to your pureness makes you speaical and unquie and pure. |
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ezgoin_newyorker
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Hmm, a question for the ages. I am looking at your name and I am assuming you are from the East. If you are, this may be even a tougher question to answer as I know from personal experience how strict people are over there regarding this topic. I personally do not believe in this "used" label that some people try to attach to a non-virgin. If it is okay for a male than why not a female? Sorry guys but if it is okay for you, it should be okay for her as well.....Back to the question, it is your virginity, not your husbands, not your parents, not your cousin sister's.... no one else's. Just yours.... so with that it is also your decsion. My only suggestion to you is to be careful and be sure of the person you decide to be the one.
I won't give you a holier than thou answer, but I hope you remember it is a gift that you only get to give one person in your life. I am sure you will do the right thing. |
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Lorelei
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Its entirely up to you what you do with your body. If you want to sleep with 1000 people its your right and if you want to sleep with 1 thats your right too. Just do what feels comfortable to you. |
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SubJ
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Depends on ur domicile. |
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CC Babydoll
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It is the most special gift you can give to anyone and you can only give it away once...so I would think you would want to save it for the person you are going to marry and spend the rest of your life with.
You should save that gift for marriage...men and women.
be cool... |
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terri
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yes why not |
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PP1234
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its ok if u have already lost it and if not dnt go ahead to lose it .... :-) |
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Qurious
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How would YOU like your wife when she marries you... Got the answer??? |
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Nikki
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Are there many people left that still have their virginity when they get married? |
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breanna h
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hell **** yea....lol |
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ennor
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DEFINITELY NOT |
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BOND_BOND2001
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Its OK provided you dont feel guilty about it. If you really had such intimacy with someone and were happy to present yourself and loose your virginity and do not feel guilty about it, its well and fine.
Dont bother. The sky will not fall. |
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Vada83
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why...yes...yes it is. |
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MIA24/7
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Yes. |
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Poppet
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With your screen name, I'm hesitant to say yes. There are some cultures in this world where if you aren't a virgin, then you can't get married. Or can only marry someone not very good for you.
As an American, in American society, it is okay to not be a virgin. Likewise it is okay to be a virgin. It is a personal choice, and should be respected either way. |
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celticdragon
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it go to test drive before your buy right. |
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Lady
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Everyone has their beliefs but I think that waiting for your partner (as in marriage) is the best thing that anyone could ever do. I personally believe losing your virginity before marriage is selling oneself short. Most times that person ends up not being your lifemate. |
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