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accountingmajor
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Yes I think if she is already 20, that's fine. Peoples maturity levels can vary dramatically.
She can possibly keep you young, so to speak.
And maybe you have a lot to teach her through all of your life experiences. |
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Jacea :)
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i dont think so that is gross! most girls marry a guy for their money if the guy is that much older than the girl! |
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Benji F
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Think about this:
Are you from a stable financial country?
Is she?
She might just want your visa to your country (U$A)
Some people will upto $50,000 for it.
Others do it for free and get heart broken.
The both of you are in 2 different worlds,
You are in a responsible future thinking zone,
She just basically finished high school, and has all the time in the world with ZERO responsibilities.
Think think think, |
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USAMOM
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NO! She was a TEENAGER less than a year ago. Seriously, you two are on different playing fields. Put your ego in check and find a WOMAN in her 30's. Geez! |
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rosie
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age has nothing to do with love so the answer is yes me and my husband are 26 years apart we have been together for 18 years and have been married for 13 my parents where also 26 years apart and where married happy for 36 years. as long as its true love its great by the way i didn't marry my husband for his money because he actually had many debts so that answers the one persons stupid answer.. |
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kristen
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i wouldn't b/c young marriages never end up good!!!!!!!!!!
but if you love her.... go for it ! |
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サスケæ‹äºº
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You can marry anyone you want to, all that matters is that you guys love each other. |
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TheAfrican
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as long as she's over 18, its fine |
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Twinkie Thief
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it is a bit of a stretch... but if you both are happy enjoy... |
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cupidgirl
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can she really even relate to you?
maybe you should do whats good for her & wait awhile..
I mean, HOW can she really know at 20??? |
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soozemusic
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If it is truly love, then I would say yes. If a 40 year old married a 60 year old, it somehow does not seem so bad. It's just that 20 is so young and generally a 20 year old would have little in common with a 40 year old. But, people of all ages marry for all kinds of reasons. |
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girlfriend
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If you want to... |
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A M
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Yes. |
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StarShine
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If she makes you Happy, why not! |
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effyoudude
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Yeah...love is love homie |
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Petunia
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Yes! She will make you feel younger than life. |
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joe r
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just make sure its love
How are the conversations going
I dated a girl 20 years younger then me
(i was 43) and I could not stand her mental status
sooner or later you have to talk to them
40 and 20 I think its to much of a difference
80 and 60 would work
but the maturity factor is what I'm looking at
But hey I don't know either of you |
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Ziegler
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yeah. love is love. you cant age love. haha
just as long as your not marrying her for her body and such. |
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Bandaloop Doctor
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if you guys are in love sure. |
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jjc927
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If you two both truly love each other, then yes. It is completely legal. With true love, age is nothing but numbers. |
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eatmy.peaches
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Sure! What do you care if people laugh behind your backs? |
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two_eight_six_foo
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I would advise against it. This is a generational gap.
There is differences in values, opinions, priorities, desires, needs, wants. All of these differences will eventually eat away
whatever initial infatuation you got going. |
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reez
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absolutely not ok. it may seem sweet at the begining, however, it will be disastrous after a few years. this comes from personal experiences. |
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mrs.jonas
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If you are really in love, then it is fine. Nothing can come between true love... not even 20 years. [= |
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@llison
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Age matters not - if you love eachother, then don't let something like that be an obsticle. |
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SS
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of course not.. she's like a daughter to you... not wife.. she's a child compared to you. |
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codymothergray
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I think that's fine...Although when your 90 she will be 70 and taking care of you and everything. I don't know but if you guys care about each other enough then what the hell right? |
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Pyar
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If it works for you ... go ahead . |
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mstsarees
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If you both are in love with, you should and can marry a girl like that.
Very Very good Luck To You |
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