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Trini~Gurl
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y not......... |
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Zaferus
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It's your life and you deserve to be happy. Make your own choices whether that is re-marriage or not and so long as you are happy do you really care what other people think?
Look in the mirror and say "Life is good, I'm happy and I'm a beautiful woman", and go live your life your way! |
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crappiekat1
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Yes. why would you want to spend the rest of your life alone? |
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Joy
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Man or woman, it's certainly okay. 41 is not old. If that person meets someone special, go for it! |
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back2future
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yes. why not..he can still be very happy some day... |
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texas rose
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Of course, When my husband and I got married he was 41and has two sons. I was 36 and also have 2 sons. We are still married, the hard part(yet fun) was having 4 boys, ages 15, 13,12, and 10. (when we married). I would say go for it, if this will make you happy. |
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fancy
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I have 2 grown kids and a grandchild i am 39 and i just married for a3 time YES it is fine |
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Wendy
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Uh...yes. |
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Hope it works
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If he is in love , why not? |
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SongMaker
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Yes, it is okay.
Men that have been married usually get married again after a divorce, with or without children. It's different with women, though. |
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canucklehead1951
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NO!! It is not OK. There are already too many people on the Earth and bringing more children into the world at this time is simply irresponsible. Sure, find love and get re-married. But please do not make things worse by having more children. |
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TABBY
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I think it is a wonderful thing for you to be happy. Everyone deserves that! Good Luck |
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teriwilburn
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If he finds someone worthy enough to go down the aisle w/ again. |
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kathyw
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No! No, it is NOT OK! NO, NO, NO!
(Jeez, do you think a 41 year old man needs permission to get married again? I don't think so...) |
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Melody J
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Absolutely, if she makes that person that happy and they are ready to make that trip down the aisle then I say go for it. |
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Nikki M
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Of course!! What are your justifications for why not?? That would help us answe the question better.
Is the 41 y/o responsible for the divorce due to being unfaithful? If so they may want to evaluate why they couldn't be fauthful and trusted in one relationship before jumping into another! Otherwise...go for it! |
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RPrincess
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Why would you even ask that, of course its alright. Who wants to be alone and who gives a **** about what others think? |
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Barbi T
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But of course. As long as he was in love, and she was in love, and she would be good to & accept that he has kids.
No one should have to face life alone after a divorce, unless they WANT to.
Life's too short...be happy! |
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tnsupermomwhit
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sure,everyone deserves to be happy, no matter if divorced with kids or not,regardless what the age is |
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cinnyluhoo
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is it ok?
by who's standards?
I would love to see a good dad fall in love again after a divorce. |
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flyfish_777
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yes, i am 40ish have 3 kids and I got married again. IT IS OK!! :-) |
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asg_is_chillin
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of course it is, why wouldnt it be. everyone has the right to be happy and people make mistakes. maybe he knows better now what he needs in a partner. |
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WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE
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why would it not be ok for him to find a wonderful woman and give her a good life and lots of love? |
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Barbi R
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Why would it not be? If he has found someone to accept him for who he is. Does the person accept that he is divorced, has kids,and that he will be apart of the kids life's. Which means being in contact with the mother..If the person loves him accepts him and the childern. Treats him and the kids good , why not? Maybe seek counseling it can shed light on his choices....Good luck...... |
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demie_ole
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life begun at 40...he's very young! |
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islandgirl06
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Sweetie it doesn't matter how old he or she is,as long as that person is happy. And remember age does not matter when it comes to loving someone, our age is only a number that we carry each year,that's all..............I'll be happy for that man who wants to get married again, it just shows you that he doesn't give up easily... |
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T
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of course!! |
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My Three
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Is there something bigger going on because I don't see it being a problem. Is there more to the story |
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Funeeegurl
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He's not dead is he? |
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sash
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Yes of course it is. Why would u think otherwise? |
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midnightblue
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Yes. Goodluck. |
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