Is it okay for my wife to flirt with someone?

Dj_db4night

NO NO NO

~!~K~!~

no. if she's committed to you then she shouldn't be flirting with anyone else.

Danny K

No...very disrespectful to you and your marriage.

A real mermaid

No!! Where does she think it will lead? It might lead to his bed, but it will lead to the end of your marriage as well.

dog_lover_214

I'd say not!

LEAVE BULLS ALONE

Absolutely not. A person who is faithful and has morals should not do that.

Mrs.BeenThereTwice

I think flirting (of course, depending upon the situation) is harmless unless there is cheating or trust issues in a relationship.

No. If she wanted to flirt, she shouldn't have gotten married.

Dsheg

Not at all that is cheating!!

Steve J

NO NO NO NO NO!!! The height of disrespect! I couldn't trust her after that.

BLI

Is it ok for YOU to do it?...

This is a rhetorical question right?

Bob

maybe if it's with someone she knows and isn't physically attracted to.

otherwise, why would that be okay?

James W

ya flirting is fine. As i always say, "you can look, you just cant order."

Breesygirl9

Hell No...

DEBBY'S BABY

That depends on how you feel about it.

As long as it stops with flirting I think it's harmless. But if it bothers you have a talk with her and explain how you feel.

(My husband is a shameless flirt.)

openminded

People need to protect the relationship not allow bad into it. So NO it isnt a good idea and it is disrespectful and makes the other person she is flirting with think that she is unhappy being married to you.

iga

i dont think so

sinned

it is up to you.

Sea G

looking at the menu and sampling the food are too completely different issues. Suppose it depends on how much you trust her in the first place and how solid the relationship is.

PENATRATOR

Hell No ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Why dont you flirt with another female in front of her and ask her .....how does it feel !!!

Javier169

I think u knew the answer before you posted this question....my answer is an astounding no! She is nt happy wiht you if she is doing this bro...sorry to say. Get to the bttom if this problem befre it gets worse and she falls into the grass is greener type thinking

christianmom

I'm thinking no.

**Loving Me**

yes as long as it is flirtn and nothing else it's a way some women know they still got it y dont u try it

so_tail

absolutely not. talk to someone close to you about it... they probably know both of you better and can give you some good advice on what to do.

KingAndrew

What is wrong with harmless flirting? It makes one or two people feel special and fills the need of feeling attractive. My wife flirts with everyone male and female, I enjoy the looks she gets and it makes her feel special. If your secure in your marriage you need not worry. Good luck.

Chris G

Sure, if you trust her, then you shouldn't have a problem with it.

insane

i was flirtatious at one point and my husband and i taught in was just innocent until after 9yrs of marriage one got too serious and i ended up having an affair.

YellowBone24

I think NOT because she is a married woman if y'all where just still dating then that is a different story, but once you get married you suppose to draw the line right there.

Must be Elmo

yes as long as she isnt planning on cheating... if you trust her and know that she won't play you, then it is alright. She probably isnt flirting, shes just being friendly, its just some guys think that when your gf or wife is being nice to another guy, they think he is cheating. As long as she is staying commited, its ok.

gosub33

I think I am the dissenting opinion here in that it has more to do with who your wife is and how long you have been together. Also, how solid is your relationship?

If she is open and lively by nature, it's probably nothing. Has she done this before? Is it part of who she is?

I also think if you have been together a long time a little flirting makes women feel young and desirable again. If she ain't going anywhere, what's the harm?

Also, were you standing there? In the same room? If that's the case, I'd let it slide. She knows you were there and could see her actions.

However, if she normally doesn't do something like that or you weren't around, than I would wonder myself.

#2 is a GIRL!!!

No it is not ok! People who flirt should be single.

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