Is it possible to be faithful....?

nhuvi j

Yes,& No#

Kitty

Yes, it's possible if you don't have any "unfinished business".

Farmgirl

Yes. I dated a guy I have known for 10 years and we are friends and I am faithful.
Its your choice to make.

airforcewolf

Sure why not? The more friends the better, I guess, just as long as you stay friends and nothing more.

MamaBear

Of course it is possible. One must make a deliberate choice to BE faithful, though. Do not make the assumption that those who are faithful do so because they lack temptation. They are faithful because they care about someone other than themselves, and see themselves as a person of honor and integrity, not an animal in heat.

Anthony L

it depends on why you broke up
if you cheated no
i didn't
i am friendishy with my ex

Brianna W

yes it is possible to be friend's with an ex. Depending on how close you were when together and how you actually feel after splitting will depend on how your relationship will be as friends.

I have two guy friends that are both exes. One of them used to be my best friend and we hung out alot even when my husband wasnt around. There was no cheating and my husband didnt mind us hanging out. The other one was a bit more tricky, we could be long distance friends but couldnt really hang out because we couldnt trust ourselves around each other.

If you are in a relationship now and want to be friends with an ex it will be up to your significant other. If they trust you and you trust yourself then yes, it is possible.

Good luck

112

Only if you are really not attracted to them anymore. I didnt think it was possibal untill I became friends with one of my really nasty looking Ex's. I still cant believe I ever dated him!

coamrocks

Yeah. Rarely, but yeah.

Barkditch

Honestly I don't think it is appropriate for a married person to have a friendship with their exes, unless there is a good reason, ie children etc.

But in saying this, of course it is possible to be faithful. Fidelity is a choice.

smokeorfire

Yes, many of my friends are still friends with their exes. My mother is still friends with her ex-husband, and it's been, what, 30 years since they divorced? I think it depends a lot on the reasons for the breakup, and how messy the breakup was.

lucylocket7258

In my opinion....NO....but just because it wouldn't have worked for me, doesn't necessarily mean it won't work for others. Just my way of thinking but if there was ever any LOVE between the two of you, it is so hard to just forget that. Sooner or later you have be in a situation that you won't be able to turn away from. It is really up to you as to what you think you can handle when it comes to your X.. Ask yourself if you still have feelings for them...if so...no, you can't be just friends and if you have gotten over those feelings, sure....why not? You are the only one that can truly answer the question you are asking us. Good luck, I hope things work out for you...

jackielafemme

Yes
yes,,,

bree_bree_shreddedwheat

no... ex's are evil, and you dont want anything to do with them.

jtease

No, just remember the ex is the has been, done that thing, leave it in the past.

helpinghand

Ofcourse. You just need a little faith. :)

patty

yes it is possible to be faithful. and not all exes have to be enemies. some can be great friends. seriously they can.

hkjl_118

No,i do not think so

ms attitude

yes, why not. But you must be willing for your new partner to be friends with their ex also.

Dookie Legs

Not for American women...

scott_v1963

Possible but difficult. If you wan't to keep it "faithful" don't meet privately and limit mind-influencing chemicals.

Otherwise, be safe and don't get caught.

Simply Lovely

Not with me. If I am done with you, then I am really done with you and your friendship is the last thing I want.

_MamaJ

yes it is possible to faithful.. it is all about choice.. and you can be friends with your ex.. I am...

catwoman

Yes. We were married for 20 years, went through the most accrimonious divorce but managed to brings things full circle and now are best pals. There is no way either of us would take it any further but are always there to give support and after all we still share a huge number of friends.

Steven M

no, its not... if you have a new girlfriend ex's are history.. it ruins relationships, FAST

Wintergirl

Yes, I KNOW it's possible to be just friends with an ex, because I stayed very good friends with 2 of mine. I even helped one of them find his new wife. The trick was that neither one of us was attracted to the other anymore, and we'd become like brother & sister. If one of you is attracted it won't work.

frozenfreebird9

Yes it is possible!! If you have good self control and both of you have an understanding that it is a platonic relationship.

philosophy

I am friends with an ex-bf of mine and his wife. I have absolutely no feelings for him. And anytime we talk, his wife is always present so there is no room for her to ever worry. Her feelings come first so if she were to ever tell me she was uncomfortable with us talking, I would respect that and leave them alone.

They come over to watch football games with us, out to eat dinner, etc.

musicman47

Yes.. but you have to want be faithful... There is alot of temptation out in this world!

logical believer

yes although it is proving very hard for me. im still friends with her my ex that is

4 strings

Thats 2 questions
no. 1 ,,Yes
no. 2 ,,No

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