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Is it possible to love again?

i had a pretty bad divorce. she meant alot to me but she found someone new while i was overseas. im finding it very difficult to find a female that i can trust or even get close to emotionally. is this permanent or will i finally open up a little


    




lili l
Of course you will.
It may take a little while but then, when she's out of your system, you'll meet someone attractive and you will trust her because that kind of thing happens that way.
You may not trust your judgment for a while and that's ok too, its a learning process, not to jump into a relationship too soon, not to ignore the signs...but you will also make the same mistakes.

It would be wonderful if we all could learn from our first fall. But its not like this.
As a toddler you fell many times and yet now you do cross many streets without wondering if you'll fall right?

Same with love.
you fall again and again and you master your steps relation ship by relation ships. Without blaming each street for the one that had a huge gap in the middle.




(Someone who s been badly burned but found love again, and again, and Thank God for that)


Star
Yes. You'll find love again. Humans have an amazing way of adapting to whatever hardships, emotionally or physically, that comes our way.

I know you don't believe that you will be able to love again, but you will.

What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger, and it takes a strong person to truly be able to love and receive love in return.

I'm sorry about the divorce :/


••○ PitBuLL ○••
Aw thats terrible. I can not believe that someone could do that to ANTONE especially a soldier. Dumb, sorry BlTCH

You will love again and she will treat you like the man you deserve to be treated


Sarah
yes thats a normal feeling you can find someone who will care and love you just as much i promise


I Saw You Look Away!
I'm feeling the exact same way as you right now :( :(


Joe C
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yes it possible to love again, it happen to me,just give it time and dont jump into it.


Pretty Baby
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This is not permanent. You just need to learn how to trust again. But don't a divorce stop you from loving again. Love is a wonderful feeling; you'll find someone special.


John M
Nick, if you're a veteran, first, thank you for your service. I think you can, I'm confident you can, but I think you first have to be willing to try.
Based on you're summary, you're not ready. Take it slow, get some counseling (not a bad thing) if you wish, and remember: "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."


john k
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Yes it will pass with time. I have just gone through a similiar experience and was surprised that after 5 months i don't feel the same for her.
It isn't always one persons fault that a marriage dissolves and some people aare in it for life where others aren't.
try and relax and talk to friends and they will help you through it.


terrell
yes it'll happen i was in love with my first daughters' mom and i went to prison and by the time i got out she was married and my daughter was calling him dad but after time i have a beautiful wife and to lovely daughters and my daughters and i have an awesome relationship i wouldn't change nothing so your situation may be for the best mine was GOOD LUCK


camafala
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I don't know your age but If you were overseas, you probably leave her for a long period of time. You have to understand that we are humans and we have feelings. She probably knew somebody that said to her that you maybe have another women in different places, while you are waiting for him. It is your fault, married are for be together otherwise divorce come in.
Yes is possible love again, you have experience now.
Remember the experience is the best teacher but the school very spence.
Good luck, I wish the best for you.


MissE
My husband went through a bad separation. Lost all trust in women. Took 8 years for him to even come close again. Now he loves me to bits and is happy again


ICAME
love always comes again


Anne S
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Been there hun, you will trust again and open up... it takes time and a patient partner, but someone with so much heart as you will find her... good luck


T4S
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I feel you your pain MAN.....I am suffering at the moment but I am getting there. try to be with your friends and family trust me when you by yourself the evil will play with your head. so avoid being alone. ohhh man life isn't fair you know! every time I tried to move on and see another girls it just feel weird and awkward. but trust me my friend we don't give them the pleasure let we move on be strong I am sure there some one out there we really genuine. just be strong we will succeed eventually.
best luck mate


Jaquelyn H
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You'll find love agian. It will take a long time, but that normal because its hard to love agian after your heart was broken. But you will find love again.


Spunky
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In time you will get passed this. It's always possible to love again though. Take some time to be on your own.


Jennifer.
You know that stupid cliche about how, with time, everything gets easier?
With every cliche there is usually a little bit of truth hidden at the bottom.
Especially in this case. Eventually you will meet a girl worth opening up to. Any woman who cheats on her husband had no business getting married in the first place.

Take care. :)


ABmusicbaby28
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It will take time before you can fully trust someone again, but trust me...when you find the right person it will come naturally. I'm really sorry to hear about ur divorce. I hope everything works out!


punisher b
human can love twice only


ranger_co_1_75
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No, you will never have the trust and strong love you once felt. Every break up lowers your ability to love and trust. Sometimes greatly, sometimes a little bit.

In time you may try again, but you will be more reserved and not expect as much out of your relationship.





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