Is it possible to stay in love after a long time?

Robert

YES/

notyochic

it can don't worry about it if he is giving you such a big commitment than he might just be thinking forever!!

Brittop

Yes but you need to work at it a bit keep it fresh...

MANC & PROUD

Yes if your with the right person you have to work at relationships.

Miss k

It is possible to stay in love but it takes two. Talk to him not random people on the internet for advice.

longneck242002

It does last if you truly love each other and work together to make it good. Good luck.

Owlwings

Yes, it can and does work! It doesn't happen, though, if you are careless with it: you both have to enjoy it, be excited by it and watch it grow (and change). It does change, but if it's good and well looked after, it grows. If it's neglected then it can shrivel up and die. It's up to you both!

Sadie

Of course it lasts and can work. Not that it isn't hard some times, but there has to be a committment. If your love is deep, he will look forward to coming home to you every single night. That's why poeple have 50, 60, even 70 year wedding anniversaries!!!

vomissie

it might get boring but if you love each other it will stay once in a while spice it up with a new toy or nightie light candals but love is not always happy soemtimes bad happens but in reality it can last forever.good luck honey

clicky j

Yes of course it will work, have faith my dear. But you need to definetly meet in the middle , none of this 80/20 or 40/60 it has to be equal. Ihave been married coming up for 7 years and i couldnt be any happier.We are based in Germany, my husband is in the army!!!!1 Best of lucky and stop worrying, everything will be fine, wait you'll see!!!.xxx

lost

yes as long as u dont always imagine every moment will be as great as the first ones.....work at it and it will!

Caroline

My parents were married for 67 and together as a couple for over 70 years. They met when my mother was only 17. The morning after he died in the night my sister and i had to tell her, and she said 'Oh has he gone, i haven't talked to him enough'...... They were in love til the end.

Don't be fooled its easy. A relationship needs working at.

crystal

it's possible but rare

T K

I felt that way at one point. I've been with my hubby of 4 years and things are still wonderful. If you have doubt then I would not make that move. It could just cause trouble. You will have to trust him that is one of the things that keeps the relationship together. If you to love each other then make that move. I wish you the best of luck! Tarsha

angel

me and my husband were the same age as yous when we got together. we lived very smitten for nearly 15 years and 3 children later. sadly my husband died a few months ago he was only 37, i miss him very much and am so sad, but very thankful i had an amazing time just being near him, it does take some work though to keep the flame burning . keep a hold of that, if its real love yous will always be in love xx good luck!!

SevenZulu

My wife and I have been married for 22 years and lived together for a year before that. If anything we are deeper in love now than we ever were.

If both partners really try love grows. Being married is a tough job and you have to work at it 24/7. As you grow to know someone you love should deepen. If it does not then it might not have been love to start with.

I know a couple that recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary and they are more in love now than when they got married. Another couple recently celebrated their 45th and they say the same thing.

If it is truly love to start with and if you work side-by-side 24/7 you can make love grow and make it last forever.

babz!!

ofcourse if i wasn't u wouldnt b born none of us wud. love can be shown in loads of different ways, love of a friend, family, boyfriends/girlfriends, husbands/wifes. if u love him have faith in him and believe that even if some loves don't last forever your's will!!!!!!! hope this helped you hun!!!!

peris

actually love does last if you guys really love each ather!!!
but you know what i feel that yo'll are both too young to be living with each ather but if you want to,go for it girl HE'S ALL YOURS!!

grumpcookie

true love will last forever.if its right it will last.

K B

i have been with my hubby sixteen years and married fourteen we still love each other even though we have had ups and downs and two kids make time for each other and you can still love each other as well as having time for yourself. Its getting a happy balance

piraterachel

For most there is a point at which the "in love" feeling is replaced by a different kind of love for that person. But you are wise to be worried, alot of men do get bored and look for a thrill after a while. Not all of them, though. Good luck.

mipieta

WELL I THING YOU ARE NOT SURE ABOUT YOUR LOVE, THING ABOUT IT LIVING TOGETHER ITS NOT EASY ,

tequila_girl98

Love lasts - trust me. Just keep in mind that it is like a living thing, you have to tend to it to keep it flourishing. Communication, respect and a lot of laughter help!

richie

no thats why we have the word devorce

monkeyface

Love can last forever. The part that changes is the "in love" part of the feeling. As you become more comfortable with one another & get used to things the initial passion changes into a more
calm, relaxed sort of feeling. Still love just different.

blueflowerscs

well me and my husband have been together for 18teen years we met in high school .. i am 33 and he is 37 , I love him more and more every day .. there is no limit to love .. you just have to know that there will be good days and bad days .. love him for who he is not what you want hi to be .. stand beside him ..it will but you both have to want it to work

Starla_C

27 years and love more today than when we met. I'm 41 and he's 47. That's more than half my life and I wouldn't trade a single day of it.

flagger

Here is a novel concept. Get married before signing a mortgage.
There are some legalities which make marriage a good idea. These have nothing to do with love. First, presumably niether of you have all the money for the house. Therefore you are both putting money into the mix. If for some reason you split up later how do you get your money back. If you entered the mortgage as friends the courts will treat you as such and turn it over to civil juristiction. That is a slow process and it could take a long time to recover. Divorce court can force a sale for you to recover your money. Secondly, if married you can write joint survivorship provisions into the deed so the house stays out of probate in the untimely event of a death. A very short time in the real estate business taught me that you would be foolish to enter into a real estate deal with a guy to whom you were not married. It is a recipe for disaster. If you are making that kind of monetary commitment why not the emotional one as well?
You are already questioning whether it can last. The answer is yes. 30yr.s+ marriage says it can. The divorce rate says that is rare today.
Protect your input and investment. Get married. This will also confirm the total commitment to stay together till the very end.

jagannath_kr

Certainly, definitely, it is possible.
But nothing is permanent.

Graeme C

Of course true love lasts. But only time will tell. One of the main things never to do when moving in together is become complacent with each other and start taking each other for granted. If you are to have a truly loving relationship you should be able to talk freely and truly to each other about any subject and without preconceived ideas or judgements.

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