Is it right to love someone and marry someone else?

Discovery

why???

don Quijote

no, it isn't, but it is some this.

words from the heart

No it's not right and you will find out why doing your marriage to someone else.

I just don't believe you can (truly ) and I emphasize (truly) love two people at the same time because love should mean honesty, trust, and respect for another.

Marrying someone else knowing you love another is a recipe for
lying, cheating, and eventually a possible divorce.

When you love another but marry another your going down the path of infidelity because your heart is truly with someone else other than your spouse.

cowboy

no you are on then ice

lhee

would this mean that the one you love doesn't love you? marryng someone else would be worth a try. you will come to love him if both of you will work on it. just my thoughts.

americangirl_11501

r u ****** crazy?!? u CAN love someone ..but y would u want to marry someone else?? . . which loser does that ??/

[if its you.. no offense]

mrsjatice

only if you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life or until you get a divorce,,,

closed

Absolutely Not.......Now go marry the one you love......

abi_sweetgirl23

I guess most people would say no, but when it comes to affairs of the heart there are no rules. you could love someone but if you know they are unstable and unreliable, then logically you would let them go, because you don't the aggro for the rest of your life.
It's up to you really, as long as you can live with yourself.

Esa

No, cause you're not being honest w/yourself and the one you married.

Beronna M

No!!!!!!!!!!!

butterfly

If by marrying the one you love will give you many problems, then it's okay to marry someone else who you don't really love but can learn to love provided he really loves you. You must have your own reasons for not wanting to marry the one you love. Is it because you think he doesn't love you? There is no right or wrong answer.

crystalscandies2005

Your marriage would end up in divorce.Marry the one you are in Love with.And if you are in Love with both of them marry neither of them.

Noadonis

I think you really know the answer to that question!

cassandra b

thats a tricky question, it depends on the reasons behind you anting to make that decision, I know that its best to marry someone you love but sometimes its just not possible, that does not mean that you'll be doomed to unhappiness for the rest of your life, its a question you need to ask yourself!! besides you owe it to the person that you are about to marry!!!!

hoffjob64

No its not fair on anyone to do this, this will only course hurt.

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doent make any sense to me

bluzephyra

Wow, tough choice. Are you being logical about your marriage, or is it one that is chosen for you? I am in love with someone and married to someone else, so I feel you..and hope that your heart can point you to the truth. See, I know that deep down inside of us lies the answers to all of our life's questions...we just have to stop, get away from the 'problem' and then find the answer. And, truly, this is not easy, as most of the time our 'problem' is the thing that is around us most. My advice, then, is to stop, get away from the 'problem' and then listen to your soul, heart, and body. CAN you legitimately marry someone and profess to love another? That is a choice ultimatly YOU have to make, it is not right or wrong, whether you love another...what is right or wrong is whether your heart is telling you to marry someone else, and you marry the other person out of duty or fear.

Yissel s

no because you're marriage is destined to fail

msthinkpositive

Why would you want to do that? It sounds like setting yourself up for misery up front. Is there a special reason for this occurring? If not you need to work this out before getting any deeper by not being with the one you love. Hopefully, that person loves you back.

gorf79

no. I dont think anyone on this planet would say yes to that question.

Me and my shadow

Why would you want too?

helping_hand_only_4_u

CAN YOU MARRY SOMEONE WHOM YOU DONT LOVE????IF YES THEN GO AHEAD......LOVE MR. X AND MARRYMR.Y........

usmchawkeye

might be a big mistake

nikki

There's a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. You can love someone but not want to be with them. You know, care a lot about them. But if you think that you're in love with the both of them, you need to just think about what you're doing. Make sure you're marrying the one you truly love. Don't guess on it, marriage is something forever. The both of you can end up hurt in the end, if you make the wrong decision.

jodi M

no, it is not fair to the person you are marrying or yourself.

k0005kat@btinternet.com

Absolutely not; you get one true love in your life, honey, grab him and run. If you dont love the other man, this will turn to resentment and bring you nothing but misery; if theres no love, dont marry. Think how this will be if the other man doesnt love you and you marry him????You will have thrown away any chance of happiness; imagine having to sleep with a man you dont love, and feed him, and keep his house clean, and bear his children.....dont do it- follow your heart. Good luck and god b less you

TinkerBell

No,ok 1st of all why do you want to marry someone you don't love? If you don't love the person you marry then you will end up in a divorce.

sweetgentle650

this can happen u can love two men at once but knowing u can only have one,one is lacking what the other is and one have what the other gives

FLT_RIDER

That's what happens when you marry for money and love the pauper. You're just another gold diggin' loser. !!!

Marry who you love. That's not an original idea.

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