Is it right to read my husband's text messages, or for him to be annoyed about it??

can u â™¥ moi?

wats he got to hide???

berry

I read my husband's text messages all the time. He doesn't get many. He is not a cheater.

Jia

if he hides what hes typing or starts in about privacy and needing it then something is up.....trust is one thing and I never invaded my ex husbands privacy until he started purposefully hiding and insisting on privacy. Thats when I knew something was up. He was cheating with his secretary.

Vara

husband & wife are equal, souls are different.i think there would'nt be any problem in doing so.
All the best.

babyohc

There's nothing wrong to read your husband messages. Unless he is doing anything wrong, if not he won't be feel annoy.

Laura B

My boyfriend gets annoyed by it... he thinks its a privacy issue, and I agree, but then there is always this nagging... "if you have nothing to hide..." in the back of my head

mommy_n_ga

Depends on if he has something to hide. If there is something to hide, then sounds like you shouldn't be there.

If there is nothing to hide, then why should it matter if you read text messages?

omycarrasquillo

IF HE BOTHERED IT IS BECAUSE HE HAS SOMETHING TO HIDE. I DON'T CARE IF MY HUSBAND READ OR LISTEN MY MESSAGES BECAUSE I'M HONEST WITH HIM

New Rule Tomorrow

It's not right for you to read them, and it is right for him to be annoyed.

Why are you reading them? Do you suspect him of something? Is he annoyed because you are exhibiting a lack of trust, or is he annoyed because he truly wants to hide his messages from you?

Sounds like you two need to do some talking. Good luck.

Tarotangel

I read my partner's text and he reads mine it depends on what you consider is private and what it not.

onottopilot

Don't you trust him? That's the real issue here!

SubJ

Wud u permit him to do the same? Be honest and do not spy.

june clever

I wouldn't mind if my husband read my messages, because I have absolutely nothing to hide. Perhaps he feels you don't trust him. Do you? Why else would you be reading them.

godly

it is all based on the level of trust,understanding & mutual connection between the two of you.reading his text messages in his presence is quite different from 'stealing' as most women do.but i tell you,men are better actors than us women.now he knows the length you can go,he would use another medium to do the foul things you suspect.do not let him into the secret of your investigation next time.

NIC

I don't know if its right or not, but I do know if he didn't have anything to hide then he shouldn't mind.

grumpcookie

read them and dont tell him thats what i do..i suppose its wrong really, cos its like you dont trust him.

ltlchk_2

This could be answered both ways. One, if u trust him, why read them, by reading them, he may be thinking that u don't trust him and that could hurt. Or he could be annoyed b/c he has something to hide. OR, 2, why shouldn't you read them. There should be nothing to hide or kept secret in a marriage. You should ask him why he gets annoyed, maybe it's just the trust issue and then you can ask him sometimes if you can read the text msgs. Or maybe you two can be on the net together and you can both input the text msgs or whatever. If you are reading them b/c of lack of trust, then you need to talk to him about why u r having this problem and maybe then he will opt to ask you if u want to read them.

bodinibold

No and yes. Everyone deserves some privacy, even among married couples. Why are you reading his messages? do you not trust him? If not, then you'd better talk about that because reading his messages when there's no need to will only create resentment in him. Even though he's married to you, he has a right to some privacy. Would you like him to have total access to everything you write, your phone list, journal, etc.?

Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl!

You know most girls on here would say no that ur in the wrong,but they know if they had even the slightest bit of thought that they're guy was cheating they would be doing everything in they're power to catch him in the act.I personally say yea, if i was you and i thought that my guy was cheating or getting TOO friendly with another chick i would read his text.And if hes not doing anything behind your back then he shouldn't have any reason to get mad.

steelersfan512

Is he texting an ex? A girl in general? If its something that really concerns you why not talk with him about it?

Jen (G cup UK)

No it's not - respect his privacy and he will respect yours. break this trust and there's nothing left :)

Stranger in a Strangeland

It shows you don't trust him, he should be annoyed, but he should also have nothing to hide.

Back Off Jack !

If you trust him you wouldn't have to .

yru1too

It should be just fine, he should have no reason for you not to read them, you are a couple and there should be no secrets, if there are then he is hiding something

Have a GREAT day

Sassy

If there is a trust issue going on here... I suggest not reading the messages if you trust him.

Bert

How would you feel? It makes him feel like you don't trust him. You always have to keep your eyes open but you run the risk of creating a problem if you snoop and he finds out.

snnz

hey, can you give me some more details. Your not wrong if you had reason to read his texts

starlet108

Hmmm............ whats he hiding ???? I read my husbands texts and he reads mine - we also open each others mail - but then we have no secrets from each other. Ask him why ???

porsha226

its not right and thats why he is annoyed.

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