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Lochlain
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It cracks me up that men go to places like this. Why do you want to pay a cover, overpay for drinks, and throw money at women in the ONE PLACE THAT YOU'LL NEVER GET SOME!
Terribly funny.
I'd be more ticked that he spent all that money on lap dances.
Maybe you should offer to dance for him if he just gives you the money instead next time. ;-) |
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♥Pure Evil♥
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I would be hurt more then anything. It would make me think he was not satisfied w/ me and the way I looked! Why pay for it when u can have it at home for free?! |
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mischievous
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He is less likely to do this if he is happy AND content at home. |
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brkshandilya
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Most men who go there is for some kind of work.If you don't mind then it's fine,but have his visits rationed.There is always a limit for every thing and that includes being BROAD MINDED also. |
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bebitas1978
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as long as it didn't go further than a lap dance, girl it's fine, better that he tells you than you never find out, but make sure you let him know where you stand...remember that the more you tie them down the more they will be willing to try different things and not necesarily with you, so give him freedom but make sure it's reasonable, good luck...have you tried giving him a lap dance yourself? try it he'll be more enticed to go to you instead of other places |
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Gemma S
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i trust my partner, but i would be mortified if he went to a lap dancing club!
i would be worried he found those skinny girls in skimpy outfits more attractive than me =( |
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Best of British
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Ask Father Christmas for a pole... Then he need not go out ? |
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mrs zone78
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tricky one- if he did not touch or have anything else i think i would be ok as long as he was honest with me |
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Kaankaan
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Not at all unless if he doesn,t go every night |
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little devil
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You can go in the bars and just have a drink. I dont mind that but if he had a one on one dance then I wouldnt be very happy!! |
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gorgeousfluffpot
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It's admirable that he told you ... he obviously sees that it could be something that offended or worried you, particularly if you heard it from someone else. Relax. It was a works do, he was probably under pressure to be 'one of the boys' and would have had endless teasing if he hadn't gone. He probably enjoyed it too. Men like looking at naked women - fact of life. But you're the one he came home to, you're the one he told as he knew you'd have mixed feelings. He sounds like a good guy, relax. No worse that looking at page 3 in the papers. It's all a kind of male bonding thing. |
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jayne beal
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i find it very odd that he didn't tell you BEFORE he went!! you might want to ak him about that............ |
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*cAn'T hOLd ME dOwn*
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you know, its funny that most of the population in the strip club are married men. hmmm. |
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xp2c
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Normal or not, if it bothers you, it is wrong. He should be more in focus with what keeps his relationship with you intact. I would much rather watch my wife get dressed in the morning, than have a lap dance. It would bother my wife if I were to go to a club, without her, and have a strange girl rub her scantily clad, or nude body on me. It isn't worth doing it if my wife is uncomfortable with it. |
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Allen B
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Ask him if he would mind terribly if you [or his daughter ] get a job in a lap dancing club !
If he objects he is a hypocrite! |
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sparkey
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if you trust them its not a problem is it |
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Champagne
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I don't think theres anything wrong with it |
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whyme
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It's not terrible if you don't mind another woman grinding her crotch against your husbands wet crotch. |
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davetherave
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Should not be a worry to you. Most men get pleasure,at see-ing lovely females (with-in reason),flaunt their assets. And of course all return,to where they belong,at home with wife and family. Come on,we only go to look! Have a nice day. |
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Katy S
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If he likes it and thinks it is a good way to spend an evening, then that's a bad thing. If he got dragged along by friends and though the whole thing was ridiculous, then that is fine. |
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unlucky_mrs
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Dont worry about it if it was a one of,if it happends again, then kill him! |
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Liz
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If it was a work do and he got "dragged" (however willingly) there by his colleagues and this is not something they do regularly I wouldn't worry about it. He told you about it so that's a good thing. If it was me, this situation wouldn't bother me either.
On the other hand, if it was like he went there on his own initiative, regularly or tried to keep it a secret - then Yes, I would be bothered. Since this is not the case, I don't see a problem.
Merry Christmas! |
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bella
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Its what men do and I wouldnt worry about it.Let it go. |
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charlieshepp
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of course. your man should be fantasizing about your body. you allowing him the pleasure of viewing your flesh should be his ultimate turn on. |
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YahooGuru2u
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It sounds like he want/needs you to think it is a problem. Your lack of concern may make him feel insecure. Maybe he wants you to "fight for him". Remember limits can feel like hugs if you want them around you. Go ahead, get a little mad about it. Making up is fun |
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John M
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it doesn't matter where he gets his appetite, as long as always comes home to eat! |
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Edders
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At least he told you, I would probably be more concerned if he tried to keep it a secret. Boys will be boys so no point in getting upset about it. Sounds like you have a good stable relationship. |
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Philip H ©
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Seems fine, Act a bit miffed you might get an expensive prezzie if he feels guilty |
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prahlad d
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Its normal,Don't nag him for that, give him some freedom in life and he will care more for u. |
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