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shdwtalker2002
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If you are capable of thinking about marriage in such simplistic terms, then you are not emotionally ready to be married. Marriage is too complex a relationship to boil down so tritely. |
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initial man
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No it is a relationship based on understanding luv and most impotantly trust.u should enjoy it and not crib for a true partner is God's gift |
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Charlene
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Marry must definitely be better as long as both parties are faithful. |
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lilbitt_637
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If the person you are with makes you happy and you want to spend the rest of your life with them then marriage is for you. It's not something someone else can tell you about because every relationship is different. Married or single is really up to you but remember.. If you love something, then you will let it go. If it comes back then it's yours. |
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Waterdragon
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marriage is not a trap --- it is a sharing of your life with someone else --- a chance to be totally vulnerable to someone and have them respect that and not abuse it ---- what you do is up to you and your partner --- you dont have to marry --- marriage is about commitment and you can give that without a piece of paper |
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georgiarose_01
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I've been married and divorced and can honestly say it is what you make it. I don't look at it as a trap even when it doesn't work. Marriage is a wonderful thing when shared by two people in love with the same wants out of life. |
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elite_women_rule_the_rock
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well after being married once and spending tons of money to get into it and out of it i will never do it again
yrs ago you had to be married to get a joint account at the bank or on ins or even get a mortgage but now you dont
i have been happily unmarried for yrs and yrs we own a house together trucks together even on ins together we wear rings and even took his name legally
you dont need that paper for someone to tell you they want you forever and will care for you and spend their life with you |
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HELEN LOOKING4
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Marriage is a trap if you haven't discussed EVERYTHING
together before you wed.Sort out if you want children and if you do,when.Finances are the second cause of trouble.Find somewhere to live...not with in-laws.Religion,find out if you are
compatable.A big don't is trying to change the person whom
you are to marry.After all that is the one you chose! |
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starlet108
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If you are a selfish person it may be a trap. If you are loving and giving then its a loving partnership for life xxxxxxxxx |
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content26
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Marriage is like a pair of handcuffs, they're either fur lined and fun or spiked and confining. As long as you are single, you will always have a key to unlock them. |
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dsclimb1
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unless you are religious why marry. that is what is meant to about. |
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wrfab
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only you can answer that question ive been married 28 yrs |
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Starman
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For the moment you should remain single, because by posting this question you have doubts. If/when you're with the right person, you won't! |
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Jessie P
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Those who think marriage is a trap have a very negative view of the world. I guess it's a trap in that you can't just "walk away" like you could if you were just dating. But I have a fantastic marriage and I wouldn't want to walk away anyway. You just have to find the right person and take the plunge! |
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papadoc528
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it's a trap----Plesae stay single |
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Stephanie G
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It's a life sentence !!! |
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Leah
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If you are confused about getting married then I assume you have not found "the one" yet. I think when you find your true love you know marriage is the next step and you don't think twice about it. Good luck finding that true love! |
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kitoffbeardon69
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yep it's a trap ..what they dont tell you is that as you walk down the aisle, just lurking near the altar where you'd expect to make you solemn vows, there is a bear pit trap under the carpet... all pointy spikes and no ladder to get out... then evilly they make you beg for your life when you fall into and agree to all types of life sapping contractual promises... do not do it FEAR the church fear it. |
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Barbara Doll to you
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Its also the rock that the family is built on. |
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keefy
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when you get married you enter a contract. All contracts are traps that's why we have them, they are there to make things binding & difficult to get out off. |
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CHRISTINE H
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marriage is not a trap if you work hard and have a good friendship, i have been married for 19 years 20 this year and my husband still makes me laugh he has helped me grow in strength, we share lots of interests but are also able to give each other space to be are selfs. PS i still get goosebumps when we kisse me xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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♫ Mad Luv ♫
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it's simple
Why are you getting married?
are you getting married to spend the rest of your life with someone you love and will love until you die (trap) umm seems like commentment to me!!! but i can see how that could be a trap for someone who has not found the right partner!
If you can live with someone and be with them at their worse and still lvoe them then it's cool!
marrie someone who you can talk to openly and un judgmentally!
If you feel like YOU are being trapped then chances are you have a fear of commentment or he/she isn't the right one for you!
You need to find out what marrage means to YOU not your friends! This choice should be maid by only you and you should sit in a room alone and figure it out! ALONE not with your best friend or mom or dad or sister or brother it NEEDS TO BE YOU
i mean you are the one who will have to live that life not your best friend your sister mother or brother! so YOU need to make that choice! not them!
Best of wishes! |
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Tasha
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Do you have a girlfriend? If you do and she wants to get married then she ain't going to stay with you if you're against marriage, no matter how much she loves you.
I don't think marriage is a trap. Especially when you're married to someone who loves you as much as you love her. |
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Shortstuff13
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Those who are obviously unhappy, will say that marriage is a trap. I disagree with that, because if you enter into a marriage with both eyes wide open, how could it be a trap? Marriage is the right thing to do when two people really love each other & want to spend the rest of their lives together. If you're confused right now, then marriage is not for you because it's a lifelong commitment that you enter into when the right lady comes along. Don't listen to what others say when they knock marriage. Make up your own mind. |
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Specsy
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Only marry if you can find the right person. Otherwise it really is a dreadful way to live. I have been married and I've been single, and until I met my partner, I was ALWAYS happiest when I was single. Marriage sent my blood pressure sky high but that was because of my husband who was one of those who's never happy, constantly carped and complained and was totally unreasonable. My friends were so happy when I dumped him! Now he's making some other poor woman miserable. I feel sorry for her.
Stay single unless you can be with someone that you really get along with "swimmingly", as they used to say. |
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CC Babydoll
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marriage is a union between two people who are in love and best friends...
a trap? NO, a decision you make on how you feel about someone who feels the same way about you
sounds like some of your friends have married the wrong person to say it is a trap
be cool... |
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Daisy Roots
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You have to do what you feel is right for you. |
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Inez
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Only you know what makes you happy. I am married and I love my husband. I don't feel trapped. I feel like I married the right person. This is my second marriage and in my first marriage I felt trapped and I was losing myself. He wasn't the right person for me. It took me awhile to remarried because I wanted to be sure that I was doing the right thing. If there are red flags before marring a person there will be hardship during the marriage. I had so many red flags with my 1st husband and I ignored them all. That relationship was indeed a trap. With my current husband, I would have been a fool not to marry him. So it all depends on if it's the right person for you and if you're ready for marriage. |
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bette69
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well for some its a good life and some not.you just have to be sure that is what you want in life. |
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marilyn_l_kirkland
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Marriage is only a trap if you feel it is one. The purpose of a marriage is to say to each other and the world-You are the only person i want to be with for the rest of my life. I want you there when i go to sleep at night and when I wake up in the morning. I want to share my life with you. I want to have children and grandchildren with you. I want you and no one else. So do you want that with another person or not? |
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athina68
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never listen to others in relation to "feelings" ... let ur heart guide u and at the end u will find out urself ...whatever outcome u will have collect ur own experiences and they can only make u a better and wiser person !!!
good luck in the journey of life ;-) |
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