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holyoke
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look at it this way:
anything that has an infitite supply will automatically lose value.
Are you cheered and grateful when water comes out of the tap? No.
If you give someone constant attention, they'll value your attention less. |
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Kenton C
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I don't do that. I know guys who have done that. But not every guy is like that |
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no one
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yeah that's right...? |
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Jonathan S
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Men are very complicated, they want you to call them / text them then they want you to stop talking to them so much and stop texting so much. We're just weird, sorry. lol |
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enochville
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It is not that they get a big ego, they start thinking you are clingy and needy and that is not attractive because it belies an insecurity. |
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tha_masha_redux
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It is definitely true. Whenever a woman calls me a lot I tend to lose interest. I have talked to friends and they have the same reaction, whether they are male or female. Occasionally calling, and acting a little disinterested works way better than calling a lot and acting overly enthusiastic. |
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tucker
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um, as a male, i would consider it an annoyance.
Hope it helps! :D |
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MemyselfandI
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no. i would never ignore a sincere girl. just dumb ones with orangey-skin who hang out at the bars/clubs every friday and saturday night... and don't know basic things like the capital of Sweden. |
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tiredofitall
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No, but it works that way with women... |
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snorkeling_llama
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It's not so much the ego... It's that they think you're creepy, and are trying to distance themselves.
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AlessioIbrahim
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Thats funny...Its the same thing we think about you Girls!! If we call you too often or Over shower you with gifts romantic things and loving jestures!!
To tell you the truth if I truly loved the woman no I wouldnt feel this way at all. Im so sorry your left all alone pls call him less often I hope the Idiot comes back to you and his son! |
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Court
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Aw im sorry thats terrible, if hes ignoring you, you deserve better. I think this is why girls try to play hard to get, but if you play too long boys get uninterested and lazy. its so hard to win :/ |
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Revoevo
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well im a guy and i dont think we do that unless were u no like spoiled or really stupid :P hopefully im not 1 and its not really true |
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tfblechris
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No, you can't cover every guy with the same blanket statement like that. Every guy is different, I wouldn't mind being called often, just not at work. Hope that you and your son are ok. |
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Hammurabi
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The guy might not realize it if he is doing it. Tell him...thats the only way it'll get solved. |
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Sarah;Sasquatch;*;
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if you call him to much hes gonna ignor you because hes getting annoyed by your calls |
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I love me :]
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yea MOST guys are just like that.
its just that we live in a male-dominant world so when we give a guy too much attention, they think they can just do what ever and we'll still be loyal to them -_-'' |
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volkgal
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It is true...if you have the wrong guy. |
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o0mg_thats_rad
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no, they don't start ignoring.
you just seem to be REALLY annoying to them.
that's what i've learned. |
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ஜQueenBஜ
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Plain and Simple He's seeing someone else....or has plans to....been there done that.
P.S. Men like a challenge |
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feeso
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Yeah...too much attention = crowding their space |
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nenee305
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look if he lives with you than if that's going on than hes cheating on you and if he doesn't live with you than your appeased with him and hes tiered of you and just give him a little space not that much just a Little bit |
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J J
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I think it depends on the guy, some guys would have the " whatever" thing going with to much attention. And yes, us males do get a little "big headed".......but if he is "thee one" he will take EVERY ounce of what you give him and turn it back into everything you need and want in a man, if not.......hell with it, PLAY GAMES!.....lol wtf is the diff, his time is limited anyway. |
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Jim
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Let me see if I have your story right. You like this guy enough to have a baby with him but now he is ignoring you. The rest of my answer is based on this assumption.
First, you have to sort out your feelings about this guy. Do you still love him even though he seems not to care about you or his child?
Second, get angry. You should not let him get away with ignoring his son. He can ignore you all that he wants, but he should be interested in his son. Take him to court to make him at least pay child support. |
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The Cutting Edge
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I reflected on your question for a few moments and I thought better to do my usual style of answering with off the cuff response. When taken for granted that is what they do. Getting back to you on their own is perfectly at their leisure and when they seem to have nothing better to do. Sad to say the younger males live in a world of their own. Games, and waiting you (everyone in their life esp. parents) is their MO. (mode of operation) So I covered the groundwork of males in the 21st century especially those under 30 or unmarried until ?. Some do drift over that line of age but as maturity and other priorities get in their life that changes. (I hope)..... |
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Kat
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its true sometimes if the guy isn't that interested...some guys and girls do that..when you call them alot ..they act like you are bothering them..and when you back off..they call but don't count on that happening..instead I would just stop calling him and see what happens..if he doesn't call you back ..then you know he's not interested..if he does..don't start over doing it again...try not to be too needy (not trying to be mean either..) just try to be more confident and get your self esteem going . You don't need to chase a guy.. |
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Pain_of_Unhappiness2
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He is probably super busy working hard for the big money! Everybody is super busy now a days to make that extra dollar.
People out there are super busy. They have lots and lots of things on their minds.
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Regular guy
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Wow, tough call. If you have a child together perhaps you guys should really make some serious decisions. If your going to be together and raise this child then both of you need to make a serious comitment if not move on and raise the child 100% to the best of your ability. You owe it to the child no matter what happens with you and the father.
Good luck and God bless you and your child. |
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Jean B
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yeah, im guilty of doin that too a guy in hs. |
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