Is it wrong for me to want more kids even if my husband is against it? Advise?

DC Maximus

You are pregnant. Your hormones are different due to that. Take things slowly. See how things are with the twins and how your husband reacts to them. After a year or two you and he can reassess having another child.

Shadow

Only an idiot would worry about another kid long before the first one even got here. Grow up. Your going to need to be a lot more mature for the twins sake.

â™¥Pure Evilâ™¥

I say have the 2 u got then make that decision... U have no clue what ur getting urself into so wait an see, ur mind may change.

coldrain

2 is enough and you will probably want to put them back once they came out. You will see.

yoadriannejohnson

first take care of the ones your gonna have. then maybe by then your husband will change his mind. kids are hard when they grow up. i raise 3 girls on my own.

Mr O

i agree 2 is enough...you don't even have them yet!

Angie

Once those babies are born you might change your mind, LOL.

You have another couple of years to make this decision. I think you should just focus on the ones on the way. He may change his mind later, and you may change your mind later.

Nut Funk

Why don't you wait until you have the twins and see what parenthood is all about before you decide. You may change your mind. We started with twins and now had 3 more afterwards. We didn't plan it like that, it just happened that way. But you haven't even had the babies yet. Wait and see how you feel after you have them. You both may change your minds.

Dunno

Do you even know what it's like to have one kid? How about you hold off on your statement until you have your twins.

Seth ...DILF-to-be...HaHaHa :)

Hey my wife is pregnant with twins too and we both decided that's enough for us, there's nothing wrong with having a small family, plus the 2 kids will always have eachother for company, and you won't have to buy a bigger car lol

Seth.

originata

I agree with the others, wait until these babies get here and then make a decision. Your husband may also change his mind, but right now you are living in fantasy world because the reality of children hasn't quite set in. After having twins, you may not even wants the ones you have.

chottwo

One day at a time.Get those twins here, and after night after night of no sleep, double the diapers, double the feedings..double the laundry..try your best to get some rest here and there to give your 2 little loves you'll have all your snuggles..and after about a year..you can re evaluate the thought of more..Enjoy the now.

Bibi

after you have them believe me you will change your mind unless of course your lazy a bad mom and have your kids dirty not cared for and running around the streets in dirty diapers and no shoes then you will want more because you will be careless and irresponsible

sheloves_dablues

It's not wrong of you to want anything you want.

But you haven't even given birth yet. Children are not like dolls that you play dress up with and lay down for naps when you're tired. Children are a lot of work. It's unreasonable and illogical for you to decide right now that two are not enough. Just take it as it comes.

sonia

Sure,oblige the neighbors.

Queen

Don't worry about it his mind might change after the twins are born. If not its always the possibly he will slip up and slip it in without coverage if you know what I mean. Plus, just don't tie your tubes if this is something he really wants make him go through surgery and not you. Its easier for him to reverse it than you anyways.

Enjoy this pregnancy and don't worry men change their minds quite often.

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