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Is it wrong to cheat on your wife if she's cheating on you, eventhough we have 2 kids?
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Is it wrong to cheat on your wife if she's cheating on you, eventhough we have 2 kids?



    




rapid57702
What??? Dont mess your kids up if you know she is cheating get away from her then move on kids pick up on alot more then you know... Then when they get older they think its the right thing to do


Stryker
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Yes. Why would you want to lower yourself to her level? You are better than that! You need to step back and think this one through before you make any decisions.


preciousmoments1962
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Two wrongs don't make a right..Make it or get a divorce kids or no kids...I hate cheaters!!


dropped_skittles
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two wrongs dont make a right

and if u feel like ur doing something wrong then u are


askaway
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2 wrongs dont make a right.....if your wife is cheating sort that out you doing the same will only make the situation worse.
decide whether you can be forgiving of her mistakes if not leave her and then do as you please....that would be the more honorable thing to do


silentstorm025
Yes, what good would it do? Either work it out with her or end it. Why corrupt it (the marriage) even further? That will just make it messier which will just hurt the kids more. Don't do it. P.S. If this is your situation I am sorry!!!!


Tiffany
You are no better than the scum of the earth that she is. Your a typical male...always believe in revenge....congrats you 2 have become something your kids won't be able to be proud of.


mighty_power7
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yes. getting her back for cheating on you by cheating on someone else is just going to make things worse. even if you're not getting her back for cheating on you, things are still going to get worse.


KnowhereMan
Regardless of the children, it is ALWAYS wrong to cheat on your spouse...!
God said so.


?
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I wouldnt stoop too her level get a divorce and find someone worthy of you best of luck too you


deby k
two wrongs dont make one right.


mickeymaz
You 2 need to split. I feel sorry for your kids.


Female
YES! its totally wrong. gosh why is she cheating on you? not very nice. i mean NOT NICE AT ALL!!


TR
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yea don t cheat. cheating is the symptom not the problem. talk fix your issues or end it . be the bigger person show your kids how to end a relationship like an adult not how to be vengeful. give them the chance to have a healthier view of relationships then that of 2 people cheating and fighting. and don't make her out to be the bad guy . what she did is wrong but the kids don't need to see that. good luck


NONAME
2 wrongs don't make a right.


david k
Love is a commitment not a moral obligation. There is no right and wrong just two hurt kids.


CHASE_ME
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YEP...IF YOU'RE CHEATING AND SHE'S CHEATING THEN WHO'S GOING TO BE THE ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR KIDS? THINK ABOUT YOUR KIDS FIRST. THEY DESERVE TO HAVE IF NOT BOTH PARENTS, AT LEAST ONE PARENT WHO KNOWS HOW TO MAKE SOUND DECISIONS AND HAS SOME KIND OF MORALS AND VALUES ABOUT THEMSELVES.

TELL YOUR WIFE TO GO AND DRINK DONKEY'S VOMIT AND ROT IN HER OWN MISERY! WOMEN LIKE THAT MAKE IT HARD FOR WOMEN WHO HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS AND ACTUALLY WANT TO BE A GOOD WIFE TO THEIR HUSBAND AND A GOOD MOTHER TO THEIR KIDS.


babyblue
No. But my advice is to get a divorce, this type of relationship is not healthy for your kids. Being divorced at least you can date without that awkward, "Oh, I'm sort-a-kind-a married" thing.


jessa♥
yes....u r both wrong....
2 wrong dont make a right


an_immortal_angel
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Yeah, it's wrong. You might want to consider marriage counseling...


Lisa
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UGH! Cheating is wrong, period. Find another way to deal, please. Especially with kids involved!!!


joyceeleann
Wrong-Only if you are hiding it.

Works for me-if both are aware and sharing


Bill
2 wrongs don't make a right.


mnterryd
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Two wrongs will never make a right is too trite of an answer but it is the one best answer.
You could go for it but why?
If you cheat with someone you could never marry her because she already has proven she cheats.
I suggest facing the reality of the situation and either accept it or get a divorce. Stay on the high road and don't become like your wife. Your honesty now will get you better visitation rights


kevin_p0
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Of course it's wrong! Two wrongs don't make a right, and you're not going to feel any better after you do that then you did before. If anything, you'll feel worse because you stooped to her level.


mustanglady
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Yes as this is wrong for the kids too!!!! Both need to grow up!!


CreoleGirl
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TWO wrongs do not make a right. you both will just end up miserable anyway. if the relationship is over, solve that problem first for the best interest of the children. good luck


TheButrfly
if you want to stay together dont cheat on her too and iniciate healing. start councling. But if you want to sperate hell yeah go for it. But keep it on the down low because being unfaithful is a big no no in divorce court.


good-for-all
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Don't love because you're loved. don't hate because you're hated. Don't shout because you're shouted at. Don't cheat because you're cheated on. Just be yourself, that makes you an individual. Your question should go this way " is it right to cheat........" It's always wrong to cheat


dianne
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Hey, one of you needs to be a decent person...Try marriage couseling, but she needs to stop this now. Your kids will be the one who ultimately suffer the most if you get divorced. Anyway, how does anyone have time to cheat with two kids....


Untitled
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Yes. But seriously, why would you stay with her if she cheats on you. I certainly would not want someone else's leftovers. That's just some Jerry Springer s*** right there.





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