Is it wrong to let my fiance go to strip clubs?

SHOCKWAVE

Yes.

daddyjohndeer

Good for you! YOU GO GIRL!

YES WE DID!!!

nope not at all. i let mine go all the time. i go too

kaylasmommyrocks

buy a pole, put it in ur bedroom, and YOU play the stripper--he might not ever want to go to a strip club agin

Cake17

If you're happy about it, then why are you asking?

georgewarren93

Love your attitude , although you should go with him, it is really neat when the guy and gal go to the ----- bar together

skizzie72

he's going to a strip club,not a dance club where he could take someone home. go with him if you want,although you might not be comfy with getting that much attention

Wine and Window Guy

A strip club is one of those places where you know your guy isn't cheating. "Touch an go!" is usually the rule.
As long as he's bringing the wood home, why should you care?

Don't worry, Be happy.

If you're okay with it, and you don't care what she thinks, it's not wrong.

Mike

Wrong is up to you and your views.

personally, i would believe it to be wrong to go to a strip club. That is my view

As far as your relationship with him. i would say that would depend on how much you trust him. will he want to be with the stripper, will he get lap dances. does he sit and stare at him or desire them more than you?

if he does this now, he will do it when u get married.

I look at wemon in passing, but i dont desire any of them. I love my wife and desire her only.

biblically speaking, for a man to simply Lust after a girl, or in other words desire, he has committed adultry with the woman already in his heart, in the view of God.

Its really dependant upon your view.

Silly World

You respect his honesty and trust him, thats a good thing
The ones who should worry are the ones that would never admit to it

sounds like you are having a hard time convincing yourself that you are really ok with it......

rickinnocal

Go with him every time.... not much turns a guy on more than watching his lady get a lap dance from a stripper :-)

Richard

Becca

its not wrong>hes only looking
: /

No. My husband went to them before we got married, I even went along with him a couple times. And I would still let him go if he wanted to. Who cares what your friends say, he still needs his "Time with the guys". Just like you need your "Time with the girls" go out and have fun. Enjoy life and be young! As long as you can trust each other, I don't find anything wrong with it!

Stuck in the middle of nowhere

No, that isn't wrong. My husband goes to see them and have a few beers with his friends once in a blue moon. I couldn't care less. Why would somebody care? I don't get it. Who would be jealous of a stripper?

Hedu A

you have this amazing trust with your fiancee. that's amazing but.. honey!
you're allowing him to see some other woman get naked!!
if he wants to see a naked woman - it should be you.

Kirk Rose

When friends ask friends to go out to the clubs and one guy can't because his girlfriend might get mad he is set up for a non-stop barage of gay jokes. Do the math.

ninja_noodle

thats wrong. its good that you
let him hang out with friends.
just i dont like that they would go there.
why would he pay money to see
something when he could
be at home getting it for free?

tiffany

I'm w/ you. I "let" my husband go too. If we don't agree when they ask or tell. they'll go anyways. He does his own thing, I do mine and we do ours together.
AND THAT'S WHY YOU AND YOUR SOON TO BE HUBBY WILL LAST FOREVER AND EVER...

kyliekissesx

As long as you and your fiance are happy with the situation, sure its okay! Whatever works for you two is what matters.

D B

You are doing the right thing by allowing him to go. Just think about it he is going to the strip club letting some other chick turn him on and he goes home to you all horny and you get to benefit.

jamiehord1997

If you that fexable (CAN I BE YOUR FIANCE) LOL i Just kidden.
My mom and step dad has been marryed for about 14 or 15 years and she use to let hem go with me to the strip clubs. She even told hem to tack me "her pleans" to the strip clubs for my 21st, birthday. (Thrday I will be 28)

Isaiah

If you guys are Christian then you are woefully ignorant of God's Word. If not, then do whatever you will. It is all that you will ever have.

Plain simple truth

alwayslivn

If he is being honest with you about when he goes and if you can go whenever you want to then you should have nothing to worry about. Most men will lie and go behind your back if you lay down the law and say NO. Try surprising him with a strip tease of your own when he comes home or send him to bed and enter the bedroom shortly thereafter and put the best damn strip show on he's ever seen. Chances are he will frequent the clubs less and less!!!!!

that judi

Anytime someone uses the word "let" in reference to a spouse or s.o. - I cringe!! 7 year engagement is long enough to know that you are two separate ADULT individuals, free to do as you please.

fugazi48

it is a sign that he is not respecting the relationship. If he went once ever 2 years or something it is not a big deal, but his friends are apparently a bad influance. Next thing you know they will be headed for Tiajuana (sp?)

catwoman

if you have no problems with it, then what's the problem?

Wishing on a Dream

I don't think it's wrong as long as you are okay with it. Since you are okay with it, then I don't see a problem. Oh and as long as it's not effecting your relationship and it's strictly look but don't touch, then there's no problem.

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