Is it wrong to still have feeling for your ex after you left her?

jnice

Take the bull by the horn and talk to her, tell her how you feel. If she is feeling the same then good luck to you both, if not, well at least you can get on with the rest of your life and learn to put her out of your mind.

Q T Pie

no because you are human

lcamel2000

Of course. I don't understand why you would see someone else when you still love your ex. that is not FAIR to the new person you are seeing. People seem to jump from relationship to relationship, looking for that new, exciting feeling, but real love endures the boring and angry and poor times. Obviously, you know NOTHING about real love yet.

Bre

No. Its natural. Think things out next time before you decide to leave someone. Make sure that there is no regrets. Still having feelings is normal. But u'll be ok. U'll get over it.

Good Luck ; )

spriege

no its not wrong, but now its making you think how dumb you were to let her go.. if you can still repair it .. go for.. it..

kimpierce76

It would not be morally so if you didn't. Feelings can still be there for a long time but it is the relationship that doesn't work!

Mocha81

yes it is normal but soon the feelings will fade and will be replace by someone else

rvogelpohl2001

Most of us do :-)
You were, after all, married and in love at one point.

mysterious101

I dont think is wrong...and if you are with someone else, i think you should make sure about what you real feel, and perhaps get in contact with your ex to see if she feels the same. Why? Because i thought I was never going to hear from my ex, and I got married still having feelings for my ex ( i know it was a big mistake), and later found that he did have mutual feelings....hope this doesn't happen to you. I am still married and have fallen in love w/ my hubby again...so good luck. Every case is different.

melissa_anne_maison

It is normal, however I think if it is causing you to not be able to give your all in the new relationship then it may need some examining and maybe you are not ready for a new relationship yet.

dam_i_give

it's natural to still have feelings but if you two are still sleeping together and in relationships with other ppl that would be wrong and not only that suppose you two got back together since you still love her..would you trust her, and believe that it's impossible for her to sleep with her other exes?? after all isn't she cheating with you on her boyfriend?

vinay_talks

there is nothing wrong in it, People never forget their first love( i hope its ur first love) u see when we truly love someone...we actually make them a part of us and somewhere they occupy a small place in our heart.. thats why u still have feeling for her.

Chill it happens...Life goes on, u can still be a good friend to her

nimo22

No, it's normal.
By the way, it's kind of dumb to break up with someone because things aren't the same anymore. That's just a fact of life, relationships can't always feel how they do when you first start out. You are going to go through a lot of heartbreak and cause it in others if you leave every time the dynamics of a relationship change.

kcalB-Label

Its really hard to just forget old love or the hurt from a bad breakup, I know cuz i'm going through this thing with my girl cuz she thinks i'm not over my ex cuz I still have alittle anger towards her.

Big Daddy

nope if u truely loved her then you should miss her....u r only a man.

one_sera_phim

of course not.

neels_2007

the feeelings never go away have left my bf for 7 months and some days I stillwonder where he is and what he is doing we both have movedon but onlytime will tell

dbmerchandise@sbcglobal.net

I think you weren't ready to be with some one elese cause that takes the attn away from the one you are with now....It's not good to have some one on the rebound.

niekita1964

no it is not wrong. It is only natural that you would still have feelings for her seeing you have been together for some time and now you may be remembering why you married her in the first place and why you fell in love with her.

ajay mehra

never

lovejkangel1025896

Its perfectly right to still feel for a person you have been with for a long time. Ask if they feel the same way........but make small talk first.

wonderwoman

no, it's not wrong. Studies show that what ever amount of years you were married then it takes about half of that time to really get over you ex. Maybe you can rekindle that love, is this an option? Why is she your ex, what happened?
I know of 2 couples who were previously married and divorced and are now together and happier than ever. They say they used the time away from each other to figure out what it was they had in their partner. Sometimes we don't know what we have until we lose it. They now seem to work out any problems they might have together, they laugh more and appreciate each other more. Good Luck !!

minerva

you've got to push away your feelings for your ex because you are with someone else now. You will mess up everything for yourself if you keep holding on even in your mind. It will take time for the feelings to fade but don't feed them. Keep away and focus on your future.. it may be with someone else again but the past is done. It's not about right or wrong it's about being emotionally healthy. What attracted you will always attract you but remember it wasn't enough to keep you together so move on and let your feelings for her die naturally.

Give yourself some time, it's normal to still have feelings for someone you loved. Some people take longer than others to really get out of a relationship. Especially when you are the one who broke up (maybe you feel guilty, still?)

When you will meet the right person, those feelings will go away and maybe you will still think about her but your feelings for her will change...

sillydingybitch

no its natural to still have feelings for someone that was a big part of your life.

tinkerbell

no, because u have great memories with that person. i have an ex. and we still care for ea. other. we had a easy divorce so that helped. we go out to eat & things. talk on the phone & i think it is better to be friends than enemies

Kris

Of course not when relationships break up it is only natural to still have feelings. Because whether it was good or not we did invest alot of time and effort into it not to mention we let someone get close to us, so we don't want to see them go. I can imagine that it wasn't an easy decision for you. Just remember it was the right one.

Amanda

Yes. If your new girlfriend is picky don't tell her or you can tell her and she should understand if she doesn't maybe she's not a very good girlfriend but you don't have to tell her. You go out with anyone you like.

mrjmbrown

It's perfectly normal. You will always have some feelings for that person. Just listen to your heart.

lady J

if your seeing someone then you need to let her go!

RX-8man

No its not wrong to still care for her.. if you didnt have feelings for her you wouldnt have been together in the first place... you guys have history, nothing can change that. Feelings dont just switch on/off like a lightbulb. Be thankful for the good times you shared together and move on.

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