Is it wrong to still love her?

heartofglass

no. love is an emotion that we cant seem to control. if you really loved her it just wont go away you gave her a place in your heart and thats real some people can not live together but can be happy in all other areas. loving someone is like grieving you cant just stop there's no time limit as to how long you will feel this way. you both shared a bond that will last . maybe this will help would you rather be happy and remain friends or be married and miserable at least she is still in your life and you havent lost her keep trying she's a lucky lady to have someone care that much most people will never find what you have with her even if it is friends

zlee

Depends on how you define "love". One extreme is the platonic love, in which case the answer is "no", and the other extreme is the stalker, I'm-going-to-get-you-back kind of "love", in which case, yes, there would be something very wrong about it. You probably fall somewhere in the middle of the spectrum.

Sorry to hear you've apparently had so much pain in your life -- hope things go better for you soon!

Prudent World

Its never wrong to love someone. I think its safe to say though that what you did to make her leave you twice was wrong....

Find yourself and fix it.

pirrannah

yes
it is completely wrong

youve been bitten by the same woman twice, and you still luv her

get a life man

if she doesnt want you then leave her alone too,

Just Wondering

I've been divorced for almost 2 years now, and sometimes those old feelings come back. When they do, I have a reality check and remind myself of all the reasons the divorce happened. Then I'm able to move on. If your divorce is still fresh, it's going to take some time. Hang in there. I'll be praying for you.

moveplease

No, you will probably always love her and certainly love the memories that you've shared. But she has made her choice and you need to accept it and move on. You will find someone more deserving of you.

tooyoung2bagrannybabe

Absolutely not.

rickyzboo

love her but be careful not to get too untimate you would be setting up yourself for another heart break

GRUMPY

I would say NO, it is not wrong to still love her. But if she isn't even remotely interested then I would say your wasting your time. Find another woman and move on. Good Luck either way.

kalina_ca

No, it is not wrong that you still love her. You have shared parts of your lives together, but at the same time, you might have to realize that it is over.

Strawberry

If she doesnt care, if she doesnt even have a little respect to your feelings, then why do you still want to love her, I like to call this self destruction. Please move on..someone with your kind heart and warm feelings could find someone who really deserve him.

Midnight Lace

It is if it keeps you moving on with life and being able to love another woman.

The love you feel for her should be different now,more of a friend or family member than as a woman or Wife or g/f.

So ask yourself do you secretly harbor hopes of getting back together??Cuz if you do then yes it is WRONG

crazylady1193

no! love her, but also get on with your life.

cstinkerbell6969

Its not wrong for you to still love her. You shared your life, dreams, hopes, and wishes with this woman. She was a HUGE part of your life for a long time. You shared alot of good times together. OF COURSE YOU STILL LOVE HER! Even if you r divorced now you will always remember her with a special place in your heart. She was your LIFE MATE! Time will lessesn the pain for u. Surround yourself with friends and family and get out in this world and have a great time! Please do not allow yourself to live in the past in a huge puddle of regret! Good luck to u!

brooklynbornson

NO it's not wrong for you to still love her.
She was your wife, someone you thought you would spend eternity with.

ponygirl

No,it's ok but if it's not to be,then I hope you can love someone else eventually.

foxxxyjank

no, we usually love those who hurt us the most

qte39

Seerin

Yes it is.. technically, it is wrong and the seperation means you should stop it. But saying it and actually doing it are two different things. My mother and father have been seperated and divorced for over 15 years and I know they still have love for each other, but they also see that they are better apart, and are leading happier lives. You may never lose the love, but just as you ove her, letting her move on and be happy is showing that you truly love her

smile

definitely not...= )

Joy-Bells

no it's not wrong to still love her...sometimes the love never stops...I think people are just wired that way.

mande11

Not at all. It is very possible to be in love and not have a commitment. Sorry it didn't work out.

Bonapartess

You will still love her no matter what happens, just don't let that love cloud your judgement when deciding where to go after this

tatmomx11

No, I think it's normal to love her. Part of you always will and that is ok. What you need to remember is that you can love her and still know that you are not right for each other.

Best wishes.

Dando

That you can get along is a big bonus. The feelings will eventually fade. Keep it friendly....get on with your life.

jachooz

No. It's not wrong. But just because you love someone doesn't mean that they are the best person for you.

suthern gal

no. its the same thing as my mother and father, in fact, they never married but had me and lived together and then seperated. when they were together things use to get really bad with arguments and stuff and then my dad started seeing other women and it just escaladed. now my parents are both good friends and my mother has recently remarried. and i know for a fact that there isnt a day that goes by, that either of them can say; i dont love (her or him). because once you have something...its there, stuck in you heart and it will never go away. you can make the love grown smaller but never gone. hope all works out!

missthing_21176

i don't think it's wrong to love her, maybe you'll always gonna have feelings for her for the rest of your life. But if she left you you might have to move on. I mean she was your wife so you married her because you love her it just not working out so maybe you have to let go. But it's not wrong to still love her!

comfykitty2003

No its not like we can just click our feelings on and off , but You cant let her drag your heart Through the mud. Loving someone and not letting them hurt you is different from loving someone and being a fool . so if you both are OK with the on and off again situation then great but if it is only you with those feelings then you need to let go (still care but open yourself up to meeting someone who will return your love)

ataglance007

"loving is never wrong"! how you incorporate it in your life is what really matters. how you let it affect your essence as a human being is what should be questioned.

ilaerblue

why did she left you second time she should have a good reason think about it and then you will find the answer Ä±think she loves you to try to

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