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FuegoAzul
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No woman is worth killing yourself over. Be strong and you will find happiness again. I did. |
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.good girl gone bad.
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seek god |
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Concerned Citizen
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Other peoples action are by no means a reason to kill yourself. Please just file for divorce and move on, you will be a better person because of it. |
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Will I'm Not
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F*ck that sh*t...that would make her feel too important. Go get a young girl for yourself to p*ss her off. |
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joelafata
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yes its stupid.. so your wife is a lieing tramp why should it kill you? women and men who cheat only care about them self so go find a nice women and be thankfull she is not with you anymore |
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SimpleGirl
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It would hurt terribly.
However, a person can't truly experience blissful happiness until they have experienced the depths of emotional despair.
And whatever doesn't kill you will only make you stranger .. i mean stronger ;) |
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edthespartan
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1. No one, no matter how badly they screw you over, is worth killing yourself for.
2. Living well is the best revenge.
3. Killing yourself would be unimaginably painful to the people who care about you -- think of how bad she made you feel. Do you really want to make the people you love feel a pain even worse than that?
4. That which does not kill you (and no, that didn't kill you) makes you stronger. Move on with your life armed with this new wisdom. |
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Chris S
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yes it is, it is punishing yourself for her actions. It is backward logic. Although you are only thinking of doing to hurt her.
It ain't worth it. You will heal |
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Gabriela V
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She is sooo not worth ending your life over. If your a good guy stay strong move on there will be someone out there some day who will appreciate you:) Stay strong! as far as for your friend just delete him out of your life, what goes around comes around!
Good Luck! take a vascation or something, treat yourself:) |
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kenbgray
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Yes it is real dumb. Just get a new friend and a new wife. Do you think either one of them care? |
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*!AILEENYi*
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Oh wow. Oh man. Wow i feel so sorry for you but suicide is never the answer. EVER!! Trust me. I almost tried it. It was horrible. You think alot. and then when you're about to do it you cry and feel like an even more idiot. so just divorce and live single, Thats what im doing now. So yea. Hope i helped. |
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niteangel2283
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First of all, no matter how painful it is for anyone to cheat or betray you, you should not consider killing yourself. As for your best friend betraying you, I understand that is very painful and just plain deceitful on his part.
If your wife cheated on you, clearly she was not the one who was meant for you and there is someone out there who is better for you.
What I would do though if you are having thoughts of suicide is talk to someone. There are people out there that care and that can help you through this difficult time. These these happen and its very unfortunate that this happened to you. You have my sympathies.
I totally can understand the pain you must be feeling. You need to try and sort out your feelings, and think about whats best for yourself which is not to kill yourself but to go on and live for the person who could be out there waiting for you. But to move on to the next step you have to definitely get some help with your emotions and get through the baby steps to get back on your feet again.
It may take a little time but your life is a valuable gift not meant to waste and you do have a chance at happiness again even after all that has happened. Please talk to someone and let them help you get through this difficult time. |
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HEY HEY HEY!
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Well she or he isn't worth the aggravation! Move on dude. |
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acmeraven
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I have always thought it was better to drive the other person into doing that as it is sort of like cutting your own throat to spite your nose or something. Move on with your life and look for a newer more faithful model. Try to be a little more selective of "best friends", too. |
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petcatisland
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This happens very often, it proves that something was wrong to start with. TALK! & decide if this was just a passing thing & either forgive & forget or move on, but don't waste your life in bitterness, I hope you can resolve this and find happiness again. |
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Rays Bride
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My mom had an affair with a woman and when my dad found out about it, he attempted suicide. I was upset with my mom because when she originally told me what my dad had done, she said he tried to kill himself because he felt we would all be better without him because of mistakes HE had made in the past. A year later, my mom told me the truth about it and I was angry that she turned it around on him and mad him look bad instead of owning up to what she had done. |
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Tara P
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its gonna be hard but she just wasn't for you. you'll find the one person who loves you and will never in a million years do such a thing to you. she wasn't the one, and neither was the best friend. move on, take some time to yourself, get in church and you'll find her. |
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Sgt.Green
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Don't be a *****...MAN UP |
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Future Mrs T
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Don't end your life coz of her stupidity.....end hers!!!! Just kidding. Move on. You will find happiness with someone else. |
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Heather R
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I feel that way right now too and it hurts so bad that I would consider that if I didn't have children I know it is very wrong but I totally understand it. |
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♥ (:
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Ouch man. I'm so sorry. Your wife is a total player. I would be totally crushed and maybe depressed, but it's not your fault. Go divorce her and take a vacation. Life is precious and you only have it once. My mom always told me "We get our hearts broken so we can find the ones who can fix it."
Just keep holding on. |
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VillageGirl
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It would be the worst pain I have ever felt or will ever fell (other than possibly losing him to death or maybe a child when we have kids).
I would not be able to deal with it. I would want to immediately move out (or kick him out) and just sever the ties. Start over. Try and forget the hurt and the pain. I can't imagine my husband ever doing that...he is my everything and I plan to be with him until we grow old. |
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Poppy
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It happens every day. I've been there myself except it wasn't my best friend. Just the neighbor. So now this chapter has closed on your life. You never know but what the next one is better. Just take some time and get over it. |
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quito718
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I would be piss and mad but its not worth doing anything stupid...if your in jail or gone shes still going to sleep with someone else so whats the point..... |
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*****
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Thats stinks ,but hey they will end up meeting again in hell |
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oogabooga37
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It happened to a coworker of mine. I didn't know him well, but he seemed like a nice person I'd like. It was tragic. I guess you never know how badly someone will take something. The one thing to remember is that the pedestal on which you've placed your wife is broken and she's proven to you that she's not the person you believed she was. That said, you've been freed to find a woman who will truly love you, so it's kind of liberating actually. I know it's hard for now, but it gets better. Trust me! |
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katydid
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I would feel disgusted and betrayed. You have every right to be hurt but I promise, time will heal this. You will realize your "friend" wasn't a friend at all and your wife was a low-life skank. My husband cheated on me with one of my friends too. It took some time to get over it but I have gained my self-respect and life back. It wasn't easy but it was worth it. I'm now married to a kind, loving, FAITHFUL man. Trust me, things will get better. You just have to be patient. |
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benitocanadian
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YES, I would never kill myself over your wife cheating on you. In fact I am pretty sure I wouldnt care if your wife cheated on you. |
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jackthlad3009
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I'd be a bit cheesed of bud, but you need to move on with your life. There are lots of wonderful things to see and do in life, get out and experience them. Take a nice relaxing holiday or have a weekend away. Do something you've always wanted to do (as long as you can afford it) realise that life is for living. Nobody should pin all their hopes and dreams on one person. Dont make one person your whole life cos when they are gone, you will have nothing. Thats why you are probably feeling suicidal |
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Francesca V
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your better than her cause u were faithful, u dont need to kill yourself, thats really stupid@!!! ur a good person u deserve to live and live a happy life |
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ninja blood
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Don't kill yourself. Get a shotgun and kill the bitch instead and plead to insanity.
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