Is kissing another guy cheating?

harleygirl

It sounds like you are confused and of course unhappy in your marriage. If you want your marriage to work, you need to stay away from this other guy and work out your problems in an adult manner. You really need to speak with this other person and ask him to stay away, until you have decided what you want to do with the relationship you are already in. There are lots of problems in marriage, but it is always worth working them out. IT IS NOT GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE! I have been there and it is so much nicer if you work it out and stay where you are at!

Booger Butt

if it was a passionate kiss..yes..if it was a peck on the cheek,,,no

towriteloveonherarms

yep. its cheating.

Danny S

If you have any bit of doubt, you're cheating.

Erica Ewen

That's cheating.

Brant

It's a grey area but I think if it continues possibly yes.

Rynosauraus

Absolutely.

dap

yep, unless you two are really good friends, and he kisses you in front of your husband, I would say it is cheating...

*So Confused*

yea i would say so.

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basmusiq

Treat your husband how you want to be treated - if you would be upset most likely he will as well.

And this whole "were having problems" crap - it's just an excuse to not feel guilty.

LeSand Shibas Leslie Anderson

Yes, it is cheating because a kiss is a social exchange of emotion and that level of emotion is to be shared with your significant other. The way you describe the kiss it sounds like more than a greeting kiss it is an exchange of emotions.

JMT

EvyChampagne

Its cheating!!! Why would you want a guy friend like that who would put you in such a predicament? He just added to your troubles, doesnt sound like a friend to me..

James O

OOOhhhh. that cheating.

Advice::: If you are having problems, and he's having problems... What makes you think that either of you has anything to offer the other.

Blind leading the blind..

cuttie91730

your a cheater, and you always will be. so be a woman and let your husband decide if he wants to be with someone he can never trust again.

I'm sorry Dave.â™¥

Yes...

ultrason_5

You're tipping on loose ground. Maybe he though that you might just go further, since the both of you are having marriage problems. I think that he crossed the line knowing that you're married and so is he.

Christine

anything you feel you must hide from your spouse constitutes cheating...i'm gonna say this is a big fat yes!

bride's mom

You know it is. You are well on your way to a full-blown affair! The first step was confiding in a male friend. The second step was letting him come over to your place one night..obviously when your husband was not around. The third step was letting him kiss you -- and I assume from your writing that you responded or at least did NOT push him away. Now you're on step 4 - thinking about the kiss & wondering what comes next. Do you see where this is leading? You could literally be in the midst of a full-blown physical & emotional affair before you even know how you really feel about anything here!

You need to step away from this friend & go away somewhere alone with your husband to try to resolve your issues. If you don't think you can do this alone, seek counseling. At the very least you need time to think through all of this - maybe even away from everyone. Take your time here - you don't need to decide overnight. But you do need to stop putting yourself in situations where you could get even deeper into trouble. Good luck! Be strong and patient!

Bones

This is where it starts. If you are looking to save your marriage, then I would suggest seeing a counselor and being open about what happened with your husband. I would also end ties with the friend that kissed you. However if you don't see your marriage the very least you can do is tell your husband, take the steps to get divorced and then see if there is anything with this guy, granted he is not in a relationship either. Everyone has problems in there relationship, it is how you handle that either strenghthens or destorys your relationship. It is all about choices

inomostuff

Well I dont know how you feel but Kissing is cheating. You really need to just analyze your life an figure out what you want at this point. Did you want it to be more than a kiss? I understand where you are and you really need to figure out if you want to fix your marriage or move on, that way you both have the opportunity to move forward in your lives.

carolina girl

If your husband had the same problem would you think it was cheating? Yes I think soo. It all starts with a kiss.

Monie

This is just my opinion but yes I think that what you did was considered cheating. Your married and no matter what problems that your having you shouldnt have to result to kissing anybody else except your husband

hellahnervous

Some people would say it's just as bad, for it proves you can't be entirely faithful

â™¥Shelbyyy(:

yes thats cheatin!!!!

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