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Kino
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You will need more then just love. Unless your spouse loves you so deeply they can overlook it and move on. You will need them to have tremendous faith, and forgiveness. Remember you will be asking your spouse to put faith in you once again after you have already abused it. |
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Ananke402
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Why did you cheat? Was love not enough to keep you faithful? To be quite honest, if you cheated, keep it to yourself. You regret it? GOOD. Never hurt your partner by burdening them with your problem. If you love them, truly, you will learn from your mistake and suffer in silence. Because you love them, you won't tell them. And if you do tell them, I hope you love them enough to let them go. No one wants to hear that they were not enough for you! No one wants to feel unwanted, disgusting, second best. If you cheated, you live with it. YOU. Not them. They didn't do anything wrong and you should NEVER relieve your guilt with their pain. You regret it? You should. FOREVER. |
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once a cheater always a cheater...thats what i always say. And someone that cheated really doenst love the person they cheated on. |
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Barbara A
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NO love is not enough unless you define love as ACTION..
the cheater must ACT in a way that tells the spouse he or she wants to EARN the trust back. That means being HONEST, coming home on time, saying what you mean and meaning what you say and dealing with whatever led you astray to begin with. There are plenty of marriages which have survived infidelity and yours can be one, too. Do the next right thing and if she gets cranky and seems not to trust, remember YOU EARNED that lack of trust and it will take time to rebuild. The ball is in your court. |
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SAMANTHA D
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no because cheating is wrong and u shouldnt put someone through this!!!!!!!!!!! |
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DAVE_IS_CRA_ZE
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i guess if the other forgives u it will be easier, just dont do it again ...prove your love to them that you are faithful, and if you dont you deserve your own conscious to be eating at you |
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love
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My ex-husband cheated on me and love wasn't enough to keep me in a relationship where I was lied to. |
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sunbun
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nope---toss the cheater to the curb!!!! and find someone who really loves you....obviously the cheater didn't or they would not have crossed the line |
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Mister-E-Man
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that question has way to many variables to be asking about it on here. there are so many factors that go into a decision like that. but if you cheated there is the problem of trust that will take time to fix if it even can be fixed. |
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C>/
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Only if you BOTH want it to work. |
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shorte716
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I don't think so. |
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Tehseen B
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I don't understand it ...where was your love when u cheated...now its up to your spouse how much he loves you, if he can for get it.....if you really feel sorry and it was only your emotional slip of a time then God forgive you.....better give more strength to your love...LOL |
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BabeHeart
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Probably not...someone who would cheat on me doesn't love me, and I sure would have a tough time loving someone who would betray and disrespect me in that way.
Cheating has nothing to do with love (other than the self love of the cheater). |
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Ellyn
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yes, if you believe it will. |
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Shugamomma
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"once a cheater always a cheater" is not true because I cheated on my boyfriend and we got back together because he loves me and now that i regret what i did to him and realize how much he loves me I don't want to cheat anymore. So to answer your question is love enuf? Yes it is enough because there is nothing else above love, it is only if that other person wants to accept that gift of love. |
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Curtis W
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yes if you cold get some one to love. |
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Sweetdoll
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You wernt regretin it when you were doin it, no point now! Love is just a feelin, no point giving it any worth now. |
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Nikki
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It can be, it depends on the couple and if both people are willing to work together. If the person that was cheated on is willing to forgive and try to rebuild the relationship and if the person that cheated is willing to be honest and realize that it's going to take time to regain the other person's trust. I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater. People make mistakes. I believe if they cheat twice, they shouldn't be trusted again. It takes a lot of work but can be done. There has to be honesty and open communication. |
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onist
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Hello this is Onist.
The question is very complicated.
Go to http://www.onistsense.com and under the category Onist Love read "Love is Shared Agony" and "why people cheat".
This will help you answer that question yourself. GOOD LUCK |
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arklatexrat
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No love isn't enough---after all it was spreading the love so to speak that caused the problem.
The problem is about earning trust back--this takes true heartfelt remorse and acknowledging and respecting your spouse's feelings of hurt and mistrust.
It takes time and possibly some marriage counseling to get to the issues that caused the infidelity in the first place. It takes swallowing your pride and understanding the ramifications of your actions that won't go away overnight.
It takes recommitting to the relationship and making a pledge to your spouse and yourself that you will never put the relationship in jeopardy or dishonor your vows this way again, and proving that from here on out one day at a time.
It takes finding ways to put boundaries in place and putting a hedge of protection around you and your spouse so that you won't be vulnerable to temptation in the future. (Embrace the shorter leash he/she has every right to put you on and "walk the line".)
My ex wasn't willing to do this--I hope you are. I have heard of many marriages that actually came through something like this and emerged stronger. Love is a good place to start, and if you have true love you will be willing to work on the rest. |
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Nini
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Yes, because love also means that you are willing to forgive yourself for doing that and move on to become a better person for the good of your family and your spouse. And if your spouse really loves you, she/he is willing to forgive you and move on as well. Love is always fresh everyday. |
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LEO GIRL
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My husband cheated on me and i still cant forget it after 4 yrs and is love enough? hmm yes if you wanna work it out |
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PYT
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Trust will probably be an issue. It will have to be earned all over again. Love isn't always enough because you can say I love you and mean it, but actions speak louder than words. |
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rpetch007
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it takes time but it will if you want it to.. good luck .. |
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360°
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Yes, I think your marriage can survive through any kind of problems if you really love your soul mate.
Go to a therapist, or seek some help from your own family members (parents, brothers and sisters).
Good luck! |
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pictureshygirl
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It will be extremely hard for a marriage to survive after cheating has occurred, but it has be known to happen. You need to really have a true remorse, take all the blame, and really come to an understanding on how cheating has damaged any trust in the marriage. Seek professional help to help you and your spouse deal with the devastation cheating creates and hopefully you both will be able to save the marriage. Best of luck! |
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Srrivatsan G
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Its Natural for a human to cave in to his feelings....
It is fate that you had cheated your life patner.....
But it is good that you deeply regret it.....
The point where you regret for ur mistake you have been reborn and given another chance...
So refresh your life and devote it to the person who loves you the most....
Yes LOVE is enough for a hapy life...
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chillum
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yes love is enough to weather any storm in life, depends how deep your love is, how long can u sustain the rejection from your partner before he/she starts trusting u again, if u r genuinely sorry and want to redeem your sins then u should take whatever is meted out to u as gods love for u and a means for u to purify yourself |
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the_orc_1
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can be if you are strong enough and work hard enough and willing to sacrifice enough to win back the trust you took for your few moments of pleasure at someone elses expense love should have been enough to stop you to start with but everone has to learn the hardest way the thing is will you repeat your mistakes? |
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Tink
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Alot of work and a lot of forgiveness!
Forgetting is an impossibility! |
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Jgarcia
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Yes if you work at it its always enough if you want it bad enough |
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