Is my bf having second thoughts about moving in together.pls be a judge of this short story?

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It's been a very difficult month for me and my bf. my landlord (now ex landlord thanx god) has managed to create so much hustle from refurbishing house while im Still in there to demand money that don't belong to her..i was so stressed and clearly it did reflect on my boyfriend too. at one point i was on the edge of going mental i swear./anyway, after long flat hunting we have found a gorgeous place yesterday.i was all over the place, it has massive garden with lake views...it's just that my bf did not seem so excited, it almost feels as if he doesn't want to move in with me after all or maybe guys just don't feel like women do when they find a new place to live? we are moving in together first time although he used to spend every day at mine.
do you think it's just a guy thing (not to be so excited about moving in and new gorgeous place) or is he having second thoughts?

GUY bein' a GUY

No one likes to move.

No one likes to move to keep you from going mental.

Don't overthink this.

Legandivori

change is hard for some people. IO think he is overwhelmed, and if you have been acting nuts he;s probably having Second thoughts about you and the relationship as well...

sodienye t

don't read too much into it.
guys are very shy about total commitment but that does not mean he does not want to move in it might just scare him slightly especially when you are so excited about the flat to him he might think you are seeing more into it than he is . he might not be ready for marraige and your excitement might be passing the wrong message so talk to him openly and honestly, moving in together is a big deal.

don't panic it's normal, just reassure him that this isn't a semi marraige

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