Is my girl controlling??

Sophiesmom

I say find a new girl or just tell her no sometimes and wear what you want.

Yes. Very manipulative and controlling. Turn her loose.

By the way, it's one thing to be able to GET a new boyfriend; the challenge is actually KEEPING one. That is something she has yet to master.

Let her bounce from guy to guy. She's certainly not ready for the give and take of an emotionally balanced relationship. She might figure it out someday, but time is too precious to put up with her garbage.

Do yourself a huge favor and move on.

livn4themin

Yes, she is what I call "high maintenance" She always needs your reassurance of love and is trying to make you jealous by her petty "can have any man I choose" the question is, will they choose her?
She is controlling you yes.

Ravenberri

She's controlling and cruel, if she's threatening to break up with you for not being at her beck and call.

Tell her this behavior is not what you signed up for, if she wants a slave she can call someone else.

Goodluck!! I'm sure all those guys that are lined up for her will find out soon enough it's not worth it as you are finding now. Hopefully this can be resolved, but I'm going to take a wild guess and say it won't.

Beveled Edge

She's got issues and this is coming from a girl. GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN!!!! If you were to get that broad pregnant, it would be the end of your life as you knew it! GET OUT!

Zelda

Yeah. Next time she says she can get a new boyfriend anytime, tell her to go for it.

paradisemtn

way too controlling

luger

yep, and it only gets worse with time, let me tell ya

Winterwonderland.

sorry. i know its hard especially after being with her for that long..but yes it does. That is ridiculous especially if you can't hang out with your friends or even wear the shirts you want?? You deserve someone better.

JayJay

Run Forest Run.....

I was in that relationship, it does NOT get better, it explodes in your face...

AMBA!

dump that bi-itch

BIKER DUDE

she is a beeeaach..get rid of her. dump her like the leftover thanksgiving turkey and see how she likes that.

Naomi

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dump her
you may love her
but DO IT

Brookee

DUMP HER!!!! don't deal with a bi*ch

smiles11

Oh gosh, break up with her.
she is needy and mean. If she ever says she can have a new boyfriend, then tell her to go ahead and get one because you're finished being treated like ****! if you are finding that your kisses are just to appease her and that she is tapping her foot in anticipation for you to THRILL her, i say lose her. If it's this bad now, it will not get better with time.

It's beyond controlling, she has things to work through personally, she is impatient, irrational, proud, and needy all at once. This must be draining.

In all your attempts to please her- is she all you want in a girlfriend? (I doubt it)

hotpinkmasala405

ya shes really controling

Toots

uuhhhh...YES....fatal attraction! You better get a handle on this situation and let her know where you stand before she goes WAY TOO FAR--she's almost there now!

Maya

Of course she is, never let someone be like that with you...
Not matter how much you love her, don't let her control you and your life.... A gf or bf should understand, let you be who you are and trust you whenever and mostly had a good relationship and respect to each other...

Laura :]

yea she is def controling u

viloveua

well she is over possesive and that too is bad ....................

Chasefx8

is her name by any chance sarah....

snakeeyedbarbie5

It sounds unhealthy to me. It almost sounds as if she is trying to drive you away. If she keeps mentioning that other guys want to be with her, maybe she is considering the idea and treating you badly in the process. She is trying to weigh your "devotion" (more like willingness to do whatever she says) against her desire to date other men.

While it is important to respect your woman and show her loyalty, you are not her puppy dog and you can where what you want and be who you are. If your girl doesn't love you just the way you are and respect you for it, she's a lemon. Time to trade her in.

Raekoi

well.. shes very possessive, controlling, and kinda mental disorder. what makes her unable to trust u? she sounds as if she cant trust u and u dont give her that secure-ness that she need. but well not allowing u to wear ya polo shirts and flip flops... and texting u those sounds psychotic...
Maybe u should let her go find a better boyfriend and u have to be wary of her..

ChocolateCupcake

Yes, she is. Offer to call one of the guys she can have 'immediately' for her. Maybe he'll come and take her off of your hands.

siamesedharma

Just the fact that she won't "let" you wear polo shirts or flip-flops is a big red flag. She sounds emotionally abusive. You should tell her to go ahead and find someone else, and you will do the same.

mellocello391

You can call it controlling and seems to be very immature. She uses the break up thing to get what she wants. She could just be using you in that way too. Girls can be really terrible like that...

Cool Chic

run like hell

marcia f

Of course she is controlling. What else could you call it? She is needy and controlling. A deadly combination. Better get out now and save yourself a lot of pain and heart ache.
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Next time she tells you that she can get another guy immediately, tell her to go ahead and mean it. The more she text you the less you answer her. You can either play the game or just unload her.

~*~SUNSHINE~*~

YEA JUST A LITTLE

livelaughlove1608

UH yeah thats quite ridiuclous, you have to tell her how much "you" can't live without her? Yeah its controlling and I think that you should let her find that "new" boyfriend immediately, you need to find a girl who appreciates you and you can do the same to her.

You should be allowed to talk to anyone you want to, hang out with who you want to, and you don't need to call her every 5 minutes. I think you should tell her that she either needs to cool down and relax, or move on. It may be hard becase that messing with feelings right there, but honestly you don't deserve to be treated like that. Good luck.

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