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Jackie
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First of all a married man has no reason to have a female friend who he cannot talk to in front of his wife. Second of all a married man has no right talking to a female friend late at night, while his wife is in bed, nor should he be receiving pictures of her. And third of all, from life experiences, usually when someone accuses someone of cheating, that mean either they are doing it them selves, or thinking about it.
You need to lay down the law. HE needs to respect you and your wishes. He needs to make this friendship vanish or at least make it more like a hello from time to time. You have every right to be jealous. He needs to realize what this is doing to your relationship, and get rid of the friend. If he says no, then you have bigger things to be worried about than phone calls. Good luck |
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Marianne T
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Whoa! First of all, if you have a husband that accusing you of cheating. He is cheating. Somehow the person doing wrong always tries to blame the other for the same behavior. He is jealous of you talking to a man from work because he is doing more than just talking with this female friend of his. In his heart, he knows you are not doing anything wrong. It makes him feel in control to accuse you. This way, you will be so busy defending your own actions that you won't dare accuse him of cheating on you. Maybe you should consider leaving him because maybe he's not worth keeping. Let her have him and the same will happen to her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. |
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lorraine
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You didn't say how long you've been together, but he is being very unfair.Make sure you know where all the financial assets are (bank accounts, deed etc). If I were you I would be stashing every cent I could for my rainy day fund, looks like a storm is heading your way. |
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chelebeee
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I think you guys need some counseling. Why does he have to hide his relationship with this "friend"? You have a right to be suspicious, and he shows signs of control issues. |
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kitkat
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He is cheating and is insecure,. Dump him......... |
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KRIS
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for instance, the next time your mother calls, start whispering and leave the room.
if you have a cell, delete your call list.
turn around is fair play, see how much he likes it. |
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sweetgranny06
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he's a *** hole and a cheater no its not fair to you |
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Yaya
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Why is she sending him pictures? He is a married man that is ridiculous. My fiancé had a “friend” who would call like every other day just to talk and the way she talked to him really made me uncomfortable. So I told him I felt it was wrong and right away he said so she will not call me anymore. That day he told her you can’t call me any more. No other women should be put before you. Does this girl know he is married if she was a ream women (with any kind of decency) she would never send pictures or talk late at night to your husband. There is n reason for that. Its one thing to say hi how is you, what’s new? Ok take care every now and then (that is if she is a real "friend") but what he is doing is totally wrong and unfair to you. If I were in your shoes I would sit him down, not to argue or yell but to talk. Tell him how unfair he is being that you feel she is more important then you. Remind him who is his wife. Also if it were I I would do some investigating. Try and get his voicemail and email password. Check his credit card statements for places you haven't been to and check his text messages. They both sound sleazy and I don't even know them. Good luck |
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trouble13d
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MAY BE HE ACCUSES YOU BECAUSE HE MAY BE DOING IT HIMSELF,I WOULD NT DO ANYTHING I WOULD WANT MY WIFE TO DOING |
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destine4_69
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I would call the girl and tell her to stop calling my husband! If she needs to talk to your man--she needs to talk to you first. The two of them have an affair going on--if not--why can he not talk to her in front of you. She would not be talking to my man in private anyway. Whatever she needs to say the both of you should be able to hear. |
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berry
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It's an affair. Warn him or divorce him. |
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Nena S
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I'm sorry if this sounds rude...But what are you thinking about????
This has been going on for some time now....and you ask what to do?!? HELLOOO??
(You cannot expect anyone to love or respect you if you don't love and respect yourself first, honey. ) |
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Vegas
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No, demand that this stop, or do exactly what he is doing and not care what he is doing. Tell him that he is insecure and jealous if he says anything to you! Also call this supposed friend of his and tell her that you don't agree with the relationship that she has with your husband and that she back off!!!!!! |
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Larry M
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That sure is not fair. |
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Zuri
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its definitely not fair for him to accuse you |
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tehabwa
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Well, I hate to say it, but, the fact that 1) his conversations are private (1b) pictures? what kinds of pictures?),
2) He's accusing you when you talk to males,
put together sound like he's very bad news.
You're insecure and jealous of his secretive relationship, but he's not with your above-board relationships?
If you can't get him to agree to couple's counseling, leave. |
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Kaja
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he's accusing you because of his own guilt.
he's having an emotional affair, and you should take action before it becomes physical. |
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Kat G
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Your husband is interested in this other woman. It would be more to his advantage to keep you in the dark and start to accuse you of things he is doing. I would not walk around with blinders. You have 2 choices. Let him continue as he has and ignore it. 2. Start having a little respect for yourself and tell him this is going to stop or your leaving. Sorry to say he is making a fool out of you. |
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I am woman
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Oh my I think he is having an affair with her. I am sorry but knowone spends that much Energy to communicate with each other unless they are in some type of relationship other than friendship. I would call her and comfront her about it. Tell her to leave your husband alone. Let her know if she needs a friend to confide in her own husband.
GOOD LUCK!!! :) |
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Lady M
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My ex was behaving in the exact way down to every last detail, and you'll notice he is my ex. He was wanting to be with this other women, but didn't want to leave me because she was married. He didn't want to have to be alone, you see, because she couldn't be with him and make a home, he wanted to keep me there to keep his home. (even though... he didn't want to be with me.) |
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kca_cheercoach
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no he's not being fair at all, a lot of the times when someone is constintly accussing you of something it's because they are doing it themselves. i would really keep a close eye or try to listen in on their convo's |
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momof3
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He's not man enough to admit to you that he is the cheater. It's easier for him to release his guilt and blame you...Get rid of him.... |
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hdoyle1967
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Only a cheater would accuse you of cheating. I think he is having an affair or working on it. If he is so secretive then why can't you listen. When you find out it won't be pretty. Take care Heather |
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NQS
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handle with care the apple cart of your life and your family.
Show some kindness,courtesy,sympathy and empahty to the feelings of your husband,his girlfriend and also some consideration to your own life w/o affecting anyone.
you have a difficult job to handle but you can manage to the real life situations with your own will power. |
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dogma21375
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It does sound like he is blaming you for what he is doing. That is why he is so touchy about it. It hits too close to home for him. |
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Marbts
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No he is not being fair at all. And why is she calling him, im, sending pictures. Have you question him why he has so much communication with her. If i was in your situation i would think he cheating, and he might accuse you of it you.because of his own insecurity, because he know that talking to her SO much is not right even if they are close friends, Well dint she cheat on her husband before with a good friends of her husband? Now what does that say to you. You should ask him why he likes talking to her and why doesn't he have the same communication with you. |
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Dreamangel
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OMG! honey that's so unfair! no he's not thinking of you cos he's thinking of her. dump his sorry little ***! You know deep down in your heart what needs to be done sweetheart. find the courage and move on. you can do so so so much better than this looser. Good luck my dear and do it move on. |
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donna_honeycutt47
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Girl, read the writing on the wall. These two are having an affair and it is being thrown right in your face. You need to put you foot down and stop allowing this nonsense to go on, or kick his a** out the door. He is not respecting you at all by doing these things to you and if it were me, I would call that B**** up and tell her to F*** off. |
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Candice P
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Your husband is taking advantage your your stupidity just because he can I mean wouldn't you? Baby a man or anybody for that matter can only do to you what you allow them to. And as far as him accusing you of cheating or whatever it's because either he is doing it or done to you my advice to you would be wake up and get real. |
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