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Is my husband cheating ?

I am 28wks pregnant and have been married for five months. In August I saw my husbands itemised cell phone bill and there was a number recurring on a daily basis. These were not calls but sms , and these would clock to about 15 a day. This number is an international number and the irony about it is that its the ex-girl friends number. So decided to send through an sms to the number , made it look like a lost sms but had all the detail of how I was hapily married to Sam and how he was really excited to be a dad. That evening my husband threw a tantrum about me sending sms to people and how I should stop snooping around issues that are not any of my business.
This month I saw his bill again and this time there were two recurring numbers, the ex was still there on a daily basis but there was a new local one which was absorbing close to 60% . I sent another stray sms and that night I was told to throw in the towel by my hubby as I was interfering with his personal life . Please help.


    




igotplayedonce
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Your husband is a shameless W_anker. He's worthless and blatant flaming A_S_S-hole.

Old flames are off limits the moment you commit to each other. What's the point of staying in touch? To tell each other how much you still hate her? Of course not!

Yep, leave that pun-k-As_S!


Valerie X
"interfering with his personal life"????
Is he kidding??????? You and that unborn baby ARE his PERSONAL LIFE!!!!

Sounds like you have a real problem on your hands. I feel sorry for you......he is an AZZHOLE!!!


Mean Carleen
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He wants a personal life that includes an ex? You need to re-evaluate your marriage.


Carli's Game
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PACK YOUR **** AND HIS/YOUR MONEY AND TELL HIM YOUR GONNA MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS JUST FINE WITH A DIVORCE.


Rich T
Yes he is cheating, time to kick him out.


Liam B
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Yep most certainly.


Rein
I would leave him. Today, baby or no baby. You really shouldn't let someone come into your life who doesn't take care of the love that you give to them. Love is a precious and gentle thing. It sounds to me like you aren't getting anything but pain. Love doesn't hurt.


redpeach_mi
yeah, he's cheating on you. there is no reason that he would have these numbers on his bill or being pitching such a fit if he wasn't. i found out my hubby was cheating on me by the phone bill too. i was pregnant at the time also. i am very sorry for you.


chimsy
you deserve way better than that cheating skam,


laplandfan
My concern here is WHY is he testing his EX on a daily basis? Seems odd to me.
I would have it out with your husband once and for all and tell him straight that you wont tolerate his cheating. Prior to that I would phone both numbers on his mobile and ask what the hell is going on!

Then I would confiscate his mobile!!!! and smash it to bits .


takenyou2heaven
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SOUNDS LIKE HE IS, THATS WHAT I WAS DOING, I DESERVED TO GET DUMPED, SO DOSE HE UNLESS HE STRAIGHTENS UP, LET HIN KNOW IN ADVANCE, ITS GONA BE HIS LOSS, DONT LET IT GO ON FOR TO LONG,
TELL HIM HOW HES GONA REGRECT WHAT HE'S DOING & THAT YOUR GONA MAKE SURE OF IT!
GOODLUCK!


****
How dare he! I would get rid of him right away. He is not fit to be a father to your child or a husband to you.


emilylouisearcher
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dont put up with it you have your baby to worry about and the end of the day its his loss not yours and your his wife so his personal life is your business hope all goes well x


Mel
Interfering in your husband's personal life??? What kind of crap is that? He is your husband! You ARE his personal life. Honey, you know the writing is on the wall here. You shouldn't be asking Is my husband cheating? That part is obvious. You need to be asking Now what do I do about it? That part is up to you. You know what's going on here, you don't have to ask us.


Chris M
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Personal Life. Honey you and the baby are his LIFE peroid. There should be no, secrets. Don't let him tell you that. Have you just simply called the number. I would. Do it from a payphone or hit *67 before you dial to block your number. Or simply call from HIS phone, sometime when you have access to it. I would want to know. I love the thing about how happy he was to be a Dad. That was good. Keep snooping. You deserve to know.

I check my dh bill online all the time.

best of luck to you....


Lyndsey G
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OMG! You really allow him to talk to you like that??His "personal business"??? You're married - his business IS your business. This guy is clearly not devoted as a true husband should be. You need to do some serious soul searching and ask yourself if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in. I'm telling you now though, you deserve so much better.

If I were you, I would demand marriage counseling, and if he doesn't do a 360 degree turnaround from his current attitude...I'd hit the road!

Good luck, I know this must be so hard esp. w/ a little one on the way. Just remember, life is too short to be unhappy!


jessica g
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he is cheating. alot of men freak out when ther ewife gets pregnant and thinks its the end of the world as they know it. you need to leave him if you want to be happy and raise a happy child. no good will come if you stay. good luck.


Lisa Marie
Im sorry to say but It does sound like he is, take a step back & think about your options.You deserve better than being treated like this especially while you are pregnant.good luck I hope things go well for you x


Lady in Red
It's not too late to get an annulment, but it will be soon. You know the answer to your question. Get an attorney ASAP.


gilly g
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It sounds like he is cheating on you. He also sounds like a bit of a bully. I would not stand for this behavior and his poor excuses. Confront him and don't let him fob you off with excuses. If he admits to cheating, get out of there now.


Tex
He's cheating (you already know that). I know it has got to be the most horrible time for that to happen, too. I still think this is what you should do. Dump him! You will survive! He don't truly care for you. Find some one that does (even if it's your mom or sister!) Don't put up with garbage like that- even if your pregnant! Believe me- I did and it will destroy your sprit and end up making you a very sad person and possibly a bad mother. Get out and just make the itiot pay child support.


Lola
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I'm sorry to say this, but yes, he is cheating!


Twin mummy ***
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with my history of being cheated on (every one i have ever met) i would say pack his bags i kow its hard im a sinle mother of 5 mth old twins but you ll thank yourself in the future ur baby needs stability and if hes cheating hes not up for the role of daddy


eagledreams
This guy does not deserve to have you. How dare he try and turn the blame round onto you for any of this. He is a sad pathetic looser going through life with a cell phone in one hand and his ......in the other. I am so sorry that you should discover this now when pregnant. He is a coward who cannot accept his responsibility to you and still has to be "the man".


bexieboo
tell him to grow up he sounds like a right prat if my hubby said that to me hed get a slap and if he was ringing his ex while i was pregnant hed be picking his clothes up out of the street and looking for a new place to rest his sorry ar se


Me, Too
Interfering with his personal life? Since when doesn't a husband's "personal life" include his wife? This man is cheating and he is furious that you are meddling in his affairs. Plus, he seems to be rather angry and cold-blooded about it, rather than penitent or apologetic.

My advice is to leave him. If he is already cheating after five months of marriage, with a baby on the way, I can't see him being happy with a longterm relationship.


♥Ti Amo♥
honestly your husband is not being 100 % honest with you...weather he is cheating or not you are married and he should not be acting this way to you...if he treats you this way when you are pregnant with his baby I can only imagine how you will be treated once the baby is born!! I would ask hime why he thinks talking to ex through sms is such a priivacy issue.





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