Is my husband having an affair?

Agent319.007

Oh no.

Here's how you confront him. Ask him why was there a condom on his dresser?

Now, check his eyes.

If he looks sideways and looks more to the left and gets argumentive, you better get yourself a marriage counselor. That means he is lying...
absolutely,
positively,
right on the nose cheating on you.

Don't do investigating anymore because it is too much on a strain on you, because then you are at a lost cause.

alandicho

if he doesn't use a condom in you, then he is definitely having an affair.

silver star

OMG, I found a condom in my husbands dresser too - it was strawberry flavor. But it was in the bathroom at the shop!! When I confronted him he said one of the guys kept it there because he couldn't bring it home so his wife doesn't find out. I think we should talk.

Johnny

Well if he doesn't use condoms with you then there's a good possibility he's having an affair.
The only possible explanations he could come up with are:
My friend gave it to me...Hmmm
I got a free sample in the men's room... Hmmm
I was going to make a water balloon...Hmmm
It was cold outside so I put a hat on it...Hmmm

I'd love to hear his explanation.

Andrew1968

there might be a simple answer to it but you right to be suspicious

peterpansdate

OK so i take it that's its not your guys and that no time in like the past 6 months have you guys bought or had any left over in your home? that being said if you have to ask you know the answer all ready this can not be the only thing to make you think he is because if you trust him and really down deep don't believe he is then your first thought would be where did this come from or who gave him this not he is sleeping with someone so when you really search your heart and think about it you know but if you want to act like you don't or need for him to tell you to your face ask him but don't expect a honest answer because 9 times out of ten he is going to lie and some people will say if he was why would he leave it out for you to find it.....why because he wanted you to find it and he wants you to know most people are asking to be caught that's why most people are and then its up to their spouse on how to either deal with it or walk out so think about it and then confront him and go from there! good luck!

SoySrtaBonita

If you think he is having an affair then he probably is. You know deep down what you feel. You are married to him you know him better than anyone else, or at least you should. It's women's intuition- go with it.

luckystar

i would ask him about it, if you dont use them, then you may have
a serious problems.

360

if you guys dont use condoms i would definitely be a little suspicious.

Boris I

was it used if yes probably not cause there may be an explanation
if closed also no their is probably an explanation.

i think you should talk to him about it

Just ask him about the condom.

salemgirl1972

a used one?? or in the wrapper? there could be a million different reasons for one if its in the wrapper.....

go ask him.

Mensa Head

YES A THOUSAND TIMES YES

Santa Barbara

Yes

tiny_lou1965

thats called jumping to conclusions....

ask him..

check his reaction.

as a wife, you will sense if he is..

ROBIN HOOD

NO IM NOT

sweetgranny06

looks like it

Esperenza

Well if you dont use condoms with him then I would say yes you have a problem.

However, I cant imagine a man would be idiot enough to leave it out on his dresser.

YEP!

Boscombe

Probably

zeepogee

Sounds like it, unless you guys are using them. Ask him, don't hide it!

plybygirll

I'm assuming you do not use them, I would be suspicious. My ex huband had an affair. I wouldnt say anything just yet, just watch for other signs (mysterious phone calls, he starts sleeping in another room, lack of intmacy, doesnt kiss you or hug you, wont talk to you on the phone or keeps it real short & starts not saying I love you back over the phone. Good Luck

WWE Champ

It could belong to your son.

Lady Hewitt

I really do not know. Is it open and used or is it a new one that is still in the package? Why dont you ask him and find out for yourself why it is there. He just may tell you why if you ask. If he looks and acts guilty and does not want to say why then yes more then likely he is cheating.

â‚Sun_Is_Shiningâ‚

If you don't use condoms then the answer is probably yes.

Sometimes people leave evidence on purpose because they want to be found out.

You need to confront him. If he gets angry or defensive, or won't look you in the eye, or gives you answers which have little detail in them, it's very likely that he is lying.

Debbie

The wife is always the last to know!!!

just me

if it was used yes , if not no

krislaptop

Never jump to conclusions. I"ve been to concerts and trade shows where they pass out condoms (like samples).

Ask him where it came from. See how you like his answer, and go from there.

joann

yes i think he is sorry

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