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mimi
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you're accusing him of things and that's not right. accusations become truth if you don't watch it. just wait..relax and find out the truth rather than creating it. |
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Coop
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Yep, sounds pretty strange to me. Maybe she doesn't know YOU exist and he wants to keep it that way. |
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michelle m
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20 years and your just now finding out about his so called best friend. That is complete BS. It's unacceptable! Now it's not even a matter of him cheating it's a matter of respect. He shouldnt be spending an excessive amount of time with any female other than his family, best friend or not. She needs to respect the marriage and understand that it's at a weak point right now. Im through typing, now im mad, Damn! |
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And it took you how long to figure this out? Or were you just in denial? |
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jimmycheong1471
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kindly leave your husband and come to me. i know how to cherish and love you. |
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Dre
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God gave you the gut instinct to tell you when theres something wrong- so use it! Even though it could be the hardest thing you have ever done |
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Judy M
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Your guess is more than likely right.Follow and trust your gut instincts.Hope this helps. |
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Tina M
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SORRY,you already know and now it's time for you to move on with your life i hope the best for you |
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toe me
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i cannot say precisely if he is lying but his shady behavior is suspicious. there might not be a romantic relationship between them. it might be something else. i heard of a case like that before. so be calm and try to find out properly before you do any thing rash. |
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gweneth lynn paltfeir
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of course something strange is going on! talk to him and sound him out |
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Cobra
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Well, there has to be a reason he doesnt want you to meet them or her.tell him your going to go meet them yourself, if he throws a fit and gets very up set,then you know the answer to your question. |
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Yote'
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Has he been spending time with her before your separation or just since? Not surprising that he would feel comfort around a friend of 20 years. After my separation, the first thing I did was to go look up some old friends I had lost touch with.
You and he need to define the goal of your separation. If you are not going to reconcile, then go your separate ways and have it over with.
If you are going to save your marriage, then full disclosure and openness are required by ALL parties involved.
I can't believe all the man bashing on here. Does anyone not realize anymore that it is the woman who sets the tone of a relationship? Men are reactionary, simple creatures. Before my divorce, my ex talked all kinds of crap about me, to the point where strangers are still apoligizing to me two years later for listening to her.
If you are having an acrimonious breakup, maybe he doesn't want to poison this friendship with your venom. |
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anon a
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Yes i think he is cheating on you if he wasn't he shouldn't have a problem introducing the two of you |
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NicoleS
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If he treats you as his wife and he is not cheating, all the more he should be open about it and introduce you to the girl and her family. |
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**Shannen**
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Trust your instincts. If he has been friends with them for 20 years and you didn't know it, then there is probably something going on there.
There are only two reasons he could have for not wanting to introduce you. He is lying and he's involved with her or he is lying and there is something else to it. Either way, he is lying!
You need to divorce him before you invest any more time in his lying behind. You can't trust someone like that and without trust you can have a good marriage!
Good luck, I'm sure there is someone out there who deserves you! |
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hazem02
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♥Reina♥
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Hell yea he is girl u better dump him you deserve better.... |
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nwnativeprincess
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MY EX DID THE EXACT SAME THING TO ME, YES HE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR.... |
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cryllie
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Right....so far he has lied by omission-not telling you about this "friend" for 20 years! People don't hide innocent friendships...
If nothing else he has severely damaged your trust in him by this one aspect alone. I agree he is probably also lying about the level of intimacy they share, and it makes me wonder if he is in fact the natural parent of any of them.
Run, don't walk, to a lawyer and begin protecting yourself financially. Seek counseling from a professional you can feel safe and open with. Don't drag your own children, friends and family into the conflict, remember that words spoken in the first flush of anger will burn into others minds and can leave lasting damage.
Best wishes,
cryllie |
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Nikki
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He probably is. If he has had a close friendship with her for 20 years and you JUST found out, chances are that it's more serious than being "just friends." But didn't you say that you guys separated? Do you mean that you guys got divorced? Because if that's the issue, then he can't be cheating on you because you aren't together anymore.
I hope everything works out. Good luck! ^_^ |
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babe_of_spanish_gladiator69
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If it's true that this girl is just a friend to him, then there's no reason for him to refused when you asked him to introduce them to you. Hmmm...something's fishy going on. |
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Sarah P
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Not to say that he is cheating on you or anything to that affect but is there any way that you can get her name and go from there with it? I mean it shouldn't be hard to track her down as far as where she lives or a phone number or something. If you get her name you could even google her name with the city and state to find her number and then I would call her and ask her point blank. That's what I did. Don't beat around the bush and if you have any doubt in your mind, call him on it and do your own checking!! I will help as best as I can feel free to email me @ sarahphyle@yahoo.com |
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Velociraptor
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Yes, he's hiding something...so sad! |
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bopbo
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That sound shady. If he is not willing to introduce you to her and her family than that is cheating even if it is just emotional, he should be able to share everything with you, you are his wife, that is your place, she is filling. |
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True Blue
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Sounds like it may be time to move on with YOUR life.
Good luck! |
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al
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If you are seperated how can he be cheating on you? |
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xzhou11377
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yeah, sounds like he is lying to you |
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spycee 22
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Well, something does seem not right here. If there is nothing going on why is he refusing to introduce you. I think that this is definitely something worth investigating. If he's not cheating then there is something else to this story and it makes me wonder "What is really going on". I think you definitely have a right to be suspicious. you've given him a chance to come clean and he has decided to leave you in the dark. I definitely think you should further evaluate this issue. |
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deakjone
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yes... he's lying... |
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