Is my husband trying to look cool?

Mr. Mustard

He's going through a mid-life crisis. Be gentle to the poor guy, yeesh.

gala ria

there's probably some young hot chick at work telling him how good he looks.

cupidgirl

mid-life crisis

katydint

We get menopause, they get midlife crisis.
Be kind...

eleroth

In my opinion it is odd. It could be a lot of reasons though. May just be in a mid life crisis.

**JUIICY GIIRL**

Sorry...but either he is having a midllife crisis...or he is cheating on you with a younger woman...

kind1

Let the man look good if he wants to, are you not satisfied or happy for him now that he is taking care of himself? You had an issue when he wasn't... So be happy for him if he wants to look good for you. He want to feel good about himself so you should be happy for him!

jonmuszynski

yes

tamrn02

He's probably just starting to feel old and wants a change. Don't we all?? OR someone said something to him about looking "old" and thought he'd make a change. Did you ask him about why? I wouldn't worry!

Steph

He is still young, he should look after himself, this benefits you too.

tealamarie24

Perhaps it's a Mid-life crisis:)

stanleys_2001

no... a sudden interst in vanity can mean just one thing...

Sorry.

Carol

i dont think u should worry. he might feel better about himself than he did before and just wants to show it. thats how i was. i didnt care what i looked like but now i have some of my confidence back and looking good is feeling good. now if he is wearing clothes that are obviously 2 young for him, then hes probably having a mid life crisis. just be happy he isnt buying a hair piece and convertible

Knowitall

get him a corvette!! SWEET!! Thats what im getting for my MLC. But i have been in MLC my whole life

nydp02

He is trying to look good for a younger woman

Theodore S

it's normal...do not worry...just try to keep it inside you ;-)

boredatwork

why is this a bad thing...sounds fine to me

PurplePalooza

I don't know. I'd be suspicious if all of the sudden, he wants to look good. WHO?? is he doing that for? Usually men don't have a MLC until their 50's. Mine should be having one but he's not.

XxxXxxX

maybe he feels outdated. maybe u should do the same thing and you guys can be uh, 'hip' together

2bME

He's wanting to look younger. Keep an eye on him, he's headed for a mid-life crisis, and there might be a younger chick leading him that way.

Boomdeeada!!

There's nothing wrong with trying to look cool!! After all, if he brings in the ca$h, then he kind of- sort of deserves to do what he wants.

Mustard Tree Girl

usually when one changes the way they look or their clothes they are trying to impress someone or look good for someone.

Alister Roy

DOOOOD!

This is really normal. At around this age men, myself included hanker back to their youth. they feel young enough to do what they did then and want to do it again.

Don't be surprised if he buys a mountain bike, wants to do a bungee jump, asks you to go to a rave with him etc...

It is a well known thing. Mid life crisis it is obnoxiously called.

It does not mean he is having it off with a young chick, even if he wanted too.

Sexii Lady.

haha. well if he didnt care before then why does he care now? thats the thing that you should be worried about. Becuz there might be somebody at his work or somebody that he is trying to impress or maybe he is just trying to be cool. But its most likly that he is trying to be cool. cuz your son is 19 and probably hot and cute. so he probably wants to be cool like your son and yeah.... just ask him. if you have been married to him for 20 years then whats the problem? you should just ask him. and tell him to be honnest.

.â™¥.Carter due Nov 23.â™¥.

most likely a mid-life crisis! take him shopping for things his age but still trendy! help him out, after all your gonna need the support when you go through menopause!!

Jarod

As long as he's not looking like an idiot, just roll with it. If he's the one making all the money, your opinions are just that, opinions.

Midlife crisis perhaps?

grneyedgrly

Contrary to what some might think but 45 isn't old. I know some men and women alike who are 45 and still dress with the latest trends. It could be that maybe he is going through the whole "mid life" thing. I'm gonna be 33 this year and I'm catching myself feeling old so I like to keep with what's in style and not just say "who cares I'm getting older". Why would you want to tell him something if he's doing something that makes him feel good about yourself? Now if he was wearing tight leather pants that's a whole other story..lol However, if he's wearing stuff that's CLEARLY for the younger generation I'd say something just so he doesn't look dumb. I just remembered what I had experienced this past weekend. I went to a flea market type place and it's a place to shop, eat and kind of hang out and have a few beers if you want. Well I saw some OLDER women still trying to dress like they were in their twenties, when clearly they were well past 40. So if he's looking dumb in that perspective,,,TELL HIM SOMETHING!

ipod0705

Mid life crisis

Cap'n Chronic

lol. hes doing it obviously because you used to do it for him. lol he finaly got the hang of it. dont try to make it into something bad

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