Is my husband unreasonable or is it me? Need outside answers?

jc q

unreasonable and not so pretty confident about himself .. or maybe jealous ?...:-)

cynthia ?

your husband needs to trust you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ian F

Yeah, he is being unreasonable.

What you should be asking yourself is why he feels so insecure in your relationship that he thinks you might be cheating??

Jane Marple

If it really happened that way then he's the one unreasonable.

Margie

Is this really the whole story??

It sounds unreasonable as it is.... but it also sounds like there might be more to the situation or your husband's distrust.

I think he is being very unreasonable. Just because your married does not mean you cant speak to anyone even if you are alone with them. Tell him to ask his sister, she was there so she can tell that nothing went wrong. Good Luck

firstythirsty

Yes, he's being unreasonable, plain and simple.

Anna Mae

He's being unreasonable. Where's the trust?

righteous pearl

marriage is suppose to based on love first then trust. Your husband is being totally unreasonable. Your right he's wrong.

lil_miss_impatient

He is being unreasonable. Why should you a grown adult have to leave the table because there are males at the table at that moment. I think your husband might be being a little bit childish. That would be like saying you had to leave the grocery store because there was another man in the freezer section.

Magaroni

How would you feel if the tables were turned? Assuming all you know is that you're on the phone and he's sitting somewhere with 2 other girls.

Vix

Its just silly to think you should leave the table, just because there is an equal number of men and women for a moment. I would think that his sister could confirm the number of people there. This is really a trust issue. So sit down and ask him why he doesn't trust you, instead of focusing on that particular night.

Good luck

F. Perdurabo

He's being unreasonable at a level that I am nearly incapable of fathoming. By his actions he is telling you that he doesn't trust you.

FP

Courtney

Your husband is a jealous fool. The real question you should be asking your husband is, "Why don't you trust me?"

s1duri

Does this mean that you told him over the phone who was at the table?
In any case, as long as you were honest with him you did nothing wrong, and he is blowing this out of proportion. There's no rule that says you can't be alone with another man for five minutes (which you weren't doing anyway).

Dew

There was no need for you to leave the Table.You are a Grown woman and should know right from wrong and he should trust you.You did nothing wrong.

Chaplydia Writes @ Living Truth

Invite him to come along...anytime he wants...but he has to get the sitter. That way, he can feel secure knowing that you aren't hiding anything from him. Jealousy, if it is legitimate can be OK, as long as it doesn't go overboard. Keep an eye on that but be open to accountability.

DminiknBonita

Your husband is being ridiculous! Regardless of who was at the table at any given time, as long as you behaved as a married, respectful woman, you have nothing to apologize for. One last piece of advice: don't let your husband make you feel guilty or sorry for what you've done(NOTHING WRONG) - Why? because once you do it once, he'll expect you to do it all the time. And you should NEVER have to apologize when you do NOTHING wrong.

Good luck with your "irrational" husband.

sred

your husband is a jealous man..... next time use your camera-phone and video the whole table. I'd tell him, Listen buddy, I love you and wouldn't think of cheating on you, but I've GOT to have some ME time ONCE in a while, because if I don't, I'm going to go crazy AND TAKE YOU WITH ME!!

back2future

Think about, your hubby loves u too much, he doesn't want to loose u.. let's put u in his view, do u like it????and U r married too. I believe your family is more important than anything else....

Misty D

This is touchy as ur hubby is obviously a jealous man. I think it was innocent but he's not going 2 think so. For him, it's all about appearances and the dynamics. He should trust u being that u told him who was there and havent tried 2 hide anything.

moniquelovescats

I think asking you to not sit at a table with other men, single or not, is unreasonable.

bettercockster1

Sorry to hear you married an idiot! Trust me I'd be the first to tell you if you were in the wrong but I won't even dignify a drawn out answer for this one, your husband is just a stupid man.

Ren

your husband should know you enough to trust you. if he doesnt what kinda relationship is that? girls like to go out and have FUN! we also make FRIENDS! I have alot of guy friends that I meet randemly and my boyfriend is ok with that, and i tend to hug all my friends (boy or girl). hes ok with that. its not like you were kissing the guys or anything so he needs to get the heck over it.

hazeltine4

It seems like he has a reason to be suspicious. Next time, tell him you are going out, but if he wants to stop by later on - after you've had some alone time with the girls, then he should come by for a few drinks later so he can take you home. This should satisfy both of you, and he knows he can trust you.

xzone fan..

your not being unresonable, sounds strange.

Neecee S

He is being unreasonable! Stop and think about it, if it was the other way around would he excuse himself from the table....I don't think so. And if he is so worried about it why don't you invite him out one night with you and your friends. I am a single mom, 2 kids at home and my best friend is married with kids she is a stay at home mom andon occassion we will meet at a bar for a drink and sometimes if we are there kinda late we call her hubby to come and join us so he doesn't feel left out!

Happy1

You deserve the same time out as he. He just has a problem with the notion that you are out having fun. For some reason, guys feel like they are in control of us and are the ones to allow the fun (or disallow). Your an adult woman. He'll get over it.

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