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Jimmy J
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Well, it sounds like it's over. |
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mvp09
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You should leave him...he's obviously hiding something from you...you don't need that so just leave.. |
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purlie
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i think you deserve someone better!! |
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pretty_mommy
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If he has nothing to hide, then he wouldn't be acting this way. He needs to be open with you or you need to break it off. You deserve honesty. |
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Princess
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def check it out personally i dont trust any1 if he has nothing to hide it shouldnt be a problem |
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Sims
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If he's acting like this... bad sign... sorry :(
I would start man shopping for someone who will keep his eyes on the prize and treat you how you want to be treated! If there is nothing to hide then what's the problem??? Go with your instincts they are rarely wrong! |
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N()()B T. PWNZINGTON
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your from england so let me put it in your terms, he is a bloke that is having a jolly good time with other governers. |
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Queequeg
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He sounds shady. If he wants you to trust him then he should trust you to look at his page. He is soo flirting with girls on there and you already know it. So, what now? good luck! |
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c murk
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If he won't let you see his facebook page, then he is iding something. I have an account with myspace and my husband is welcome to look at it anytime he wants, because I have nothing to hide. |
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booboobunny
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he's out of order and playing mind games with you - dump him |
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The Seeker
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Your not being silly at all, he is completely out of line. |
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God Bless America!~
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if he has to get so mad about you wondering, then maybe he cant be trusted after all... |
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blcklabelx
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RAWR |
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷJamieƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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yep hes wrong, but whats new with men. If that were you having messages from other guys, betcha your bottom dollar he'd have a problem with it! |
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lisa r
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well, frankly. there is no winner. you should trust him, and he should allow you to know what he's up too. its a lose-lose situation, this love-game is.
but he shouldn't be angry with you, he should understand where your discomfort with this other girl is coming from, as he has done things untrustworthy (flirted with her) to you with her in the past. so he should be more understanding of your fear, but of course, at the same itme, if you truly do believe that he loves you and you love him, you need to trust him. believe me, i know it's hard. |
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Jake O'Connor
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I think you should stab him...ok, maybe that's a wee bit harsh. |
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Michael D
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The whole "just trust me" thing would have me concerned given that there seems to be a pervasive relationship with some other person online. His ultimatum suggests to me that he is looking for ways to leave your relationship.
I would be cautious; based on your story, it appears he is not happy with his relationnship with you. |
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Hey U, Yeah U..Get over here
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yah sounds to me he's cheating and this girl doesn't know he's with you. Why don't you send her a message? Say something along the lines of "hi, i was wondering are dating______fill in your bf's names" I wouldn't start accusing this girl of being a home recker until you find out what's going on. It could be that she doesn't even know about you and your bf is playing the both of you. if that's the case you can make her aware of whats going on. |
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regan
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woah, cheater alert.
make HIM tell you whats going on and if not YOU will end it.
dont let him walk all over you! |
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Sandy
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I think you already know the answer to this or you wouldn't have a question. Anyone with something to hide cannot be trusted. Stay with him if you want to be at the very LEAST emotionally cheated on for the duration of your relationship.
Otherwise, get out and find someone who respects you enough to be open and honest with you.
Flirty is fun when you're first getting to know someone, but not so much if he can't turn it off once he's with you. Whether he's sure of your future or not, he should focus on you alone romantically while he's with you.
Good luck and God bless. |
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cantina514
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Talk to him about how you feel without having a fight. For most guys(and girls) flirting over the internet is a confidence boost. It may be that he veiws it as harmless, you just need to have a talk with your man. |
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Gummy Bear
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You need to dump him. Any man that tells me to &*^( off is not my man for long. |
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it's me!!
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He's hiding something otherwise he wouldn't be so secretive. |
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brusselsprout
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If he is hiding something then there is something to hide.
Sounds like he is playing the field while you are trying to hold on to a relationship that is empty.
Move on. YOU be the one to end it, not him. Take back the power. |
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Roxy Foxy P J
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Well you got to learn to trust each other and you 2 need to talk! He's just being a guy its a guys thing and he sounds young!If he's just flirting with them then no worry about its all talk! When the action starts then you better worry then!You can do the same to him to see how he likes it! |
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stanlin
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I have always felt that your "gut" feeling is correct, and I think you already know the answer to your question, we've all been through this kind of thing before and a person who is all Honest is all Open. Go with what you feel, you know you're right. And we'll all be hoping for the best for you. Peace, love and laughter... |
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jazzytazz34
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Well you should trust him,but if he wants to break up with you after you look at his face book ,then it's not meant to be anyway . |
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kitty
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First off, he said that if you want to see what he put then you can **** offf (your own words). That is abusive.
Abusive relationships are not safe, not healthy, and not normal. There is nothing normal about being in a relationship where there is even a slight amount of abuse.
End the relationship now and get into counseling to explore this whole experience so next time if you encounter anyone like this guy, you won't even look at him because you will turn away from him the second you perceive he has any violent tendencies.
Using that kind of language is abusive when you are dealing with your girlfriend. It is one thing to use that in a locker room. |
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※※※NaMajdEnMegmondom※※※
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You shoooooould trust your man. Having said that, he needs to show you that he can be trusted and being secretive is not the way to go about it. There's nothing wrong with a little flirtation, everyone likes to have their own ego stroked but if he admitted being wrong about it then he should have cut off contact with her, no??? Threatening to end your relationship over something like this is stupid.
Keep an eye on him, get his password. Exchange passwords as a sign of how open you are with each other. My bf had no problem with that ( I still haven't given him mine heeeeheeeee)
As a response to your details:
WOW your bf really sounds like a loser that likes to toot his own horn....and is still interested in showing just how much of a ladies man he is. RUNNNNNNNNN don't walk. |
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msdixienms
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You don't need him - find someone that will be faithful and honest to you. This guy isn't. |
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