Is my wife cheating?

Mike

There is no reason for her to be spending the night if you are not with her

Jacuzzi Lover

Why is she spending the night. Yes, I would be worried.

Joe

spending the night
doesn't sound good at all

$D*Da*Spoild*1$

Oh Hell No, she is spending the Night! Uhhmm there is defenetly something wrong with that! Put an end to this! That is messed up! I think a married woman with a family shouldnt sleep anywhere besides her own home or a hotel when on vacation or maybe her own family but it ends right there! You have to do something, ask her to be included!

Someone Else

Adults do not have slumber parties. She's screwing him.

braves2rule

Sounds like shes cheating to me man sorry but id confront her about it

papayosha

Sounds bad. If my wife was sleeping over at a man's house, I would be a little uncomfortable about it. You should confront her.

magic

may be she is ,but u have to make sure she is before saying it

If you are concerned you should talk to your wife. If she is secretive about this I would be suspicious. It might all be innocent, but you will never know unless you calmly talk to her about it.

ford_rebel89

sounds fishy to me... you didn't mention if you've confronted her about it yet. try that. ask her why she needs to stay the night, and why she spends so much time with the guy. talk to the guy's wife. see what she has to say about it all. maybe she knows more than you do, and it could sway either way with what she says. good luck

Flying man

Have you told her why you're concerned and asked directly whether she is developing emotional dependency on the other relationship?

Aurora

If you can't participate in these sleepovers, then something is rotten.

starryeyed

If she's not cheating on you, she's separating from you in a way that's just a sbad.
if she needs some space, she need sthe couch, or a cot, or something.
bt she is abandoning you.
Maybe she is going through this mid-life thing that some women go through, where they need to find themselves, etc.
Maybe she has felt abandoned, lost in all the demands life has placed on her.
But you both need to find out, and restore a bond, or cut it off altogether.
There is still no excuse for abandoning you liek this.
You need to know the real problem, and you need answers.
The kids deserve to see better than this!!!

Lucinda M

Sounds fishy to me. I have never heard of business requiring you to spend the night at your business associates house. If this guy is married also, there maybe be something going on there with his wife like a threesome. I would definitely do some questioning on this to your wife.

greengrass

if i were u i woud be curious to, i suggest u do some investigating. or just ask her, but more than likely if u do ask her she wont tell u the truth, who would admit to that!!! u have every right to wonder. and why is she staying at this person house anyways? if its work related i cant see them working all night unless they r working on something else. hope things work out.

msthinkpositive

As long as you've been with her, you would be the one to tell if somethings going on. It's obvious that you think so, because of this question and she or they will not own up to it, so look for clues that can definitely answer you. Her actions toward you in bed, any of her ways that have really changed that can't be accounted for that you can see. Things that make her act indifferent toward you would give her away if she's cheating. She's full of it, the other spouse must be dense to let another female stay in her house.

Jillary von HÃ¤mstervielâ„¢

omg.... a married woman spending the night away from her hubby under roof of another man.

maybe it is nothing BUT
impropriety is not the issue...

there should always be the ABSENCE of the POTENTIAL for the APPEARANCE of impropriety.

start keeping a journal...
watch her dont let her think youre suspicious...
wire tap your phone
hire an investigator.
sue for divorce and custody

This may not be what you would do... but this is what I would do.
Love is war babe.

The outcome will be that:
-she is an infidel
-she isn't

If she IS, then your options are:
-tell her bye bye and find someone you can trust, and you will get custody of the kids
-tell her you will forgive her if she wants to be forgiven and you two get counseling and live happily ever after

I actually knew a girl who had an emotional affair and was planning to go meet the guy for the weekend.
Her husband had been tracking her internet activities and was reading every keystroke.

He knew what she was planning to do.
He let her lie and go.
When she came back he said Well how was it... we getting divorced or what?
She begged forgiveness and all was well after that.

hairyballsonya

hey man its all up to u. just tell her what u think maybe shes jus haven time if her life or u guyes ned new thinks

littlez

You need to tell her how you feel and ask her is there something going on. Just reading what you wrote, something suspicious is going on. What type of business is going on that she needs to spend the night over his house even if his wife is there. And how would she feel if you where spending the night over some business associate's home. That just something you don't do in a relationship.

veronica c

I would be worried! She is an adult, not a child. There is no reason she should be spending the night at someone elses house without you.....Do they live far away? Whats the reason she is giving you for spending the night anyway?

wwwdardar

First of all WHY IN THE HALL would YOU allow YOUR wife to spend the night? Your marriage is not a strong one. And your wife thinks that's OK? NO its not.There's no way in hall my man would allow me to spend a night at some "business asocitate" or would I bring it up to him. Because as a women, a wife I know that's wrong.Your wife runs over you? Buy her the proper care and feeding of husband and I think you both need to read ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationships by Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger.Please go by it. You'll need it.

Jenny

ask her what is going on...why is she spending nights there??? i dont see any reason...do u ever ask her why???has ur relationship changed??did u do something that might have led the both of u in this direction??? there r a lot of questions that needs to be answered b4 BUT i would be worried if i were u...there is definately something...u dont see smoke without fire dear..so yes there is something not right about this...lets hope for the best!!!

redjetta

Tell her you want to come along the next few times to spend the night also. If it's all innocent, then she'll be OK with it. If she's is doing something naughty, then she won't want you there or she won't go. Then you'll have your answer.

anoldmick

Tell us this, my man: how come you're not accompanying her? Can't you get a relative to come sit the teenagers whilst you and the Mrs. spend the night together at this other family's house? Whyn't ya bring it up to your wife, and listen real carefully to her response...

kute_regina_gal

there is a possibility that something is going on.. but i think that your still young, and you shouldnt worry about it. even if you do end up getting a divorce, there is still a chance for you to find someone new.

snafudotcom

If it doesnt feel right to you, there's most likely something going on. Dont second guess yourself, go with your first instinct .

Fantasy686

Well as I was reading this, I was thinking of "don't jump to conclusions" however when you mentioned "spending the night" that should trigger something right there. She is cheating, I would start questioning her. Like what reasons does she have to spend the night there?

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