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Is my wife right?

My wife wants us to leave the house because my mom is trying to make us stay in separate rooms except on the weekends. Mom says that we should get plenty of sleep for work the next day. I don't want us to leave because mom is helping a lot like ironing my clothes, cleaning the bathroom and making snacks for us when we get home from work.


    




VV
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Are you kidding?

um, ok, in case you're not....

How would you feel about it if it was her father, rather than your mother, who was telling you to sleep in separate beds and your wife wanted to keep that arrangement?

If you really don't mind, you're probably right to still be at home with mom. You have a very understanding wife. Do your best by her.

Good luck!!


frankb1124
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The two of you need to get a life a job and a place of your own.


♥C
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wow...how old are u that ur mom makes u sleep in different rooms??

If ur a grown man u should talk to ur mom...ur married....u have the right to sleep in the same bed as ur wife


missbabygator1983
if you are married you should NOT be still living with your parents


milepost211
If you cannot support a household, why did you get married?

Grow up and take control of your life.

The Rat


snooowbunnnie63
cut the strings already who is more important you mother ironing or sleeping next to your wife......god lord wasnt there are movie like this...oh yeah psyhco!!!!!


loriloriloriloriv
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so who would you rather live with? it sounds like your mommy. maybe your wife should move out and leave you and your mom to yourselves.
maybe your wife knows how to take care of you if you give her 1/2 a chance and get her out of your mothers house.


hogsnotbubbles
YES your wife is right!!!

How dare your mom seperate a married couple!! What a freak!!!


Cliff R
Are you married to your wife or your mother? Tell your mom to mind her own business when it comes to you and your wife. Why should you not sleep with her during the week? Because you have to work. WOW. NO way to have a marriage.
Mother does not always know best. Remember you are a man now and not mommy's little boy. If you don't realize that and stand up to mommy, then I can almost guarantee it that you won't be married very long.
Your wife is 100% right. You are 100% wrong.


Queen
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GROW UP you are married now. Leav eyour mothers house and be with your wife. You did not marry your mother. How can she make you and your wife sleep in different rooms. And how do you allow her to take over your relationship to your wife.


Cassie
If you are old enough to get married and hold down a job, it is time to fly the coop and do your own housework. It's your mom's time to do what she wants. She has raised her family and taken care of them all this time. Its her turn


believe in miracles
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How old are you?! You are married and should have your own house, not living with your mom. I agree with your wife that you need to move out and move on but I do wonder how old you are because you say you don't want to leave because your mom does the ironing, making snacks, etc?! This is pathetic, why would your mom do that for you at your age and why would you allow her to wait on you hand and foot? Be a real man, get your own place and start acting like an adult!~


Julius C
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I didn't know that they let 12 year old children get married.


c504play
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if all that you wanted was a maid stay with your mom,
but if you really love and wanted your wife, run, slam the door and get your own place. mom does not want you to be married


Jane Doe
Your Mom needs to accept the fact that you guys are married and that is what married people do.... they sleep in the same bedroom!! If my Mother-in-law pulled that, we would be sleeping in the closest hotel as well!! :) Good luck to you guys!


Kate
Yes, your wife is right. You two are married and should be allowed to sleep in the same bed. If you aren't ready to do your own ironing and cleaning, you aren't old enough to be married. Taking care of yourselves and spending time together is a big part of that and your Mom is definately butting in to parts or your marraige that are absolutely none of her business.


portugesedancer
i am in no way offending your mother but i think its kind of ridiculous that she wants you to stay in sperate rooms. you two are husband and wife, youre supposed to sleep in the same room. i understand that your mother is helping you out but maybe you just tell her that your staying in the same room as your wife and thats it. she cant punish you.


Chris Z
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Under Moms roof do as Mom says. Your Wife is right MOVE OUT! If you like the care your mother gives you learn to do it your self. Between the two of you, you can manage your lives.


Candy
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Are you for real? You are married and your mom is telling you not to sleep with your wife. What is more important getting your socks washed or having a great marriage? Now that you're married, your wife comes first. I think you better listen to your wife because you could end alone with your mom. Come on, where's your common sense. I think you better start thinking about your marriage and less focus if the bathroom is cleaned or not. And why can't you make your own snacks.


SugarPie
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Therefore, A man shall leave his parents and CLEAVE unto his wife. "SOMEWHERE IN THE BIBLE" - Why are you living with Mom? I'm going to assume she's living with you and not you with her. Hire someone to do youre chores for you if you or your wife can't do it - grow up youre not a kid anymore...mamma shouldn't be doing that...Youre wife prob feels like crap with your mom running your home..not you. Your the king of your home not your mom. Hello...she's wife not girlfriend!! you can both sleep wherever you like (unless your staying over at her house for a couple of days) .....good luck....


jacalynfreeborn
MAMA'S BOY!!!! Yeah, your wife is right. Why is isyou can't sleep in the same bed under her roof but you can under god's?


soul cyster ttc#1
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I agree with your wife... You need to be living on your own!


I Luv NY
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Your Mom does all the cooking and cleaning? Dude! That's your WIFE'S JOB! What did you get married for if you're going to keep your Mom around to do all the work for her? I bet your Mom is going to change your kids' diapers for your wife, too? You're going to end up with a lazy wife if you let her get away with that....


HijoDeDiosMRM
ABSOLUTELY!!!You and your wife need a place of your own.


Celeste
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Firstly, stop being such a momma's boy!
Your mother should not be dictating where you and your wife sleep...or anything else for that matter.
Secondly, you don't want to leave because your mother irons your clothes, cleans and makes you snacks?
If you're old enough to get married, you're old enough to iron your own clothes or take 'em to the dry cleaners, help clean the house and make your own damn snacks!
Good grief! Sounds like you and your mother have issues.


krinkn
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You are married, but your mother makes snacks for you, irons your clothes, cleans your house? When are you going to grow up?

Your wife is right. You need to move out. Today.


ronnny
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Get a real job and a place of your own then just visit your mom on holidays.


MiaMonique
You should divorce your wife and marry your mother. Your wife is better off without you. I'm sure she'll find a real man really soon.


shampton1970
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momas boy grow up and take care of your wife if you love her you will get your own place and have a life with her if you think living with your mom is so good marrie your mom lol move out and take care of your wife or she will leave you my husband made the choice to move out 12 years ago and our life is much better but i did tell him i was going with him or with out him and he picked with so pick with or you will live unhappy with your mom forever





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