Is she cheating on me?

dangel

I think she's cheating on you, no-one writes stuff like that unless they are serious,

'holding you in my mind' ??

she likes this sentence doesn't she?

I think you need to sit her down and just ask her if she's got anything to tell you, don't mention that you have read her email, she'll hit the roof, and you'll lose a major way of seeing what she's doing.

Can you send him an email pretending to be her and see what he replies with? (it's a bit nasty, but if it works....)

Did you go to this reunion she talks about?

It's not a good place to be in, I'd start looking at other things to see what she does with her time, speak to your sister and just casually ask her if her husband is ok or acting strangely, see what she says and take it from there.

Good luck, it sounds like your going to need it :o(

frawlicious

I suggest you print the emails out and take them to your sister and you both can decide what to do. Good luck to you!!

cincywahine

Yeah she is...

Boot the *****.

Chuck T

Time to move on , by the way take your sister down the road with you...

Dan n

Man you should talk this about your wife. I mean it seems to be like she's cheating on you. Tell your sister too.

mrthing

Whether she is or not, sounds like she's thinking about it.

How did you get this email?

If you have doubts about your marriage, you have to talk to your wife about them. If you keep them secret, they are just going to fester, or drive you apart.

Jersey Boy

Confront your wife with the email. It is best to discuss with her directly.

Good luck.

Jersey Style

whoa! jesus looks like we all have problems; I think they should just make marriage illegal. Yeah, you have a problem on your hands. It doesn't sound like she is cheating on you but she definitley wants this guy and something could happen. I am so sorry for you, you have no idea how I really am. You are going to have to confront her and get it all out in the open. Good luck, I'm sorry this is happening to you. WTF is wrong with people! oh and FYI someone answered that YOU should change, you don't need to change, she does, you're not doing anything to deserve this, unless you cheated which it doesn't sound like you did. Screw that, be yourself and confront this issue

Le BigMac

Time to call a lawyer.

Damien H

Tell your sister and confront your wife.

Sorry, but yes it does sounds like she is cheating...Print out the emails and confront them both...If I were you I would kick her to the curb, she can't be trusted.

red top

confront her and keep the letter for you lawyer

I'm Allergic

Yeah that e-mail says it all. Call it quits and get a divorce fast.

Spring

How did you find these emails?
But anyway, she may not be physicaly cheating but she is cheating on you and what makes all the worse is that it is with her sister's husband.

I would say confront her about it with printed out copies of the emails.

Moe_Fugga

yeah she's attatched obviously. talk to her dude. try to figure out whats really goin on and both of you come to a reasonable agreement of what should be done. i'd tell the bish to kick rocks personally...

miserable old git

Hide your record collection somewhere, then call your lawyer

gossip girl

Just confront her and ask her about what's going on. I know it's really hard but it's pretty clear that she's cheating on you. Maybe you should ask your wife's sister for help since there's a chance that her husband may be cheating on her, too.

Grey Person

She wrote that to your sister's husband? Oh my gosh. Okay, Lassie has three suggestions:

1) Ask your wife to tell you, truthfully, what is going on.
2) Take that email to your sister and see what she thinks.
3) Take the email to the husband. Sometimes men can talk less emotionally than women, and maybe he will tell you honestly what is up with your wife, because obviously your wife isn't talking to you. If he tells you that he's having a thing with your wife, you tell him he has 24 hours to inform your sister, and then you're telling her. Then go home, collect your wife's belongings, and have her move out to the side of the road, because that kind of shazbot is NOT going on in your house!

That's Lassie's advice.

Gigi

You have two choices....

1.) Confront her, talk civilly, and go to counseling...

2.) Confront her, talk civilly, and file for divorce...

Think long and hard.

bebop

Print the emails out, dont say a word place them in her hand . Now carefully watch her reaction. That will tell all.
Very sorry and good luck.

Ummm, DUH!

Print out the e-mails and lay them on the kitchen counter top for her to see when she gets home. Don't say a word and watch her squirm and try to get her self out of this one.

Then say, I hope you both are happy. Pick up a bagged you packed earlier and leave her cheat-in butt behind!

Comando

dont go too far, talk to her, but dont be direct, and ask her
ask the other guy what they are up too

Spacey~Stacey's Place

I would sit down with her in a calm manner and ask her if she is developing feelings for someone new. It might not be too late to save your marriage but honesty must come first on both behalves. Good luck!

Suthern R

Sounds like they have held each other before. I would print the emails out and drop them on the table in front of her and ask her to explain them right before I booted her out the front door.

Dani

Time to have a talk with him and with her. In the meantime, start looking for an apartment or... pack her bags for her.

saturn

Three stikes to me! She is out.

is she cheating? well no sh*t sherlock! are you kidding? your wife is a scandolous sneaky conniver! save this email and take it to your lawyer and leave her and dont let her get one penny. you should tell your sister too! what are still doing with this chick. drop her as$

dr. phillian here..

You need to confront her with the email and ask her what is going on. There definitely is something suspicious going on there. It's time to print out that letter and save it in file just in case something bad happens and a divorce settlement is heading your way. Just be prepared for the storm!!!!

boricua_2290

OHH Shitt man can you see??? and this is your sister's husband..OK the first thing you do is talk to your sister and show her this emails.. hey this is like one of those Jerry Springer shows.... Don't put your self trough this, confront this brother in law and your wife immediately and get out of this relationship at once think of your poor sister too does she deserve this??? and to answer your question.. Hell yes she is cheating on you big time.. the worst way too!!! what a looser what a hoe... get out of this marriage at once.. there will be no seconds chances with her I hope.. talk to your sister NOW... SHOW HER THOSE EMAILS..NOW.. DON' T WAIT..GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS.. GOOD LUCK....

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