Is she right? she is always nagging...?

It's a sure thing

She is right. It's ok to go gamble once a month or once every two months but not a couple times a week. She has every right to keep tabs on you. She is your wife and she is acting like your wife. No, it is not ok to stay away from home over night. You may keep your responsibilities of paying bills and all that, but you also have responsibilities towards your wife that you are not keeping. The two of you should compromise. You wouldn't like it if your wife just up and disappeared and didn't answer her phone while staying out all night.

willn2pleaze

come on man, give us a serious question. you are married, not single and it is not ok for you just to do what you want and not inform her.

euclid_avenue_girl

A married man should be with his wife. Take her with you to spend the night at the casino. Maybe she can watch a show or something. Your really should be with her.

accentedflirt

If you were my husband...I wouldn't be your wife for too long. Your wife might be a nag but she is right. I will not live with such crap...and I am sure her frustration is the reason she has resort to nagging.

A married man should not be staying overnight anywhere without his wife, especially out at some casino. How would you like it if she started spending nights away from home, going to casinos?

That is irresponsible.

smartypants909

So, you want to be married, but not be a family? I would have already kicked you to the curb.

im the boss : )

holy shlt!

if you were MY husband all your shlt would be outside. the doors would be locked. i would HATE you.

she is your wife you even said you like to go out and 'play'? wow. me and my husbasnd do everything together. we have 2 kids and so when we get a sitter we both go have fun.

i bet it would blow her socks off if you invited her to go with you one night, and maybe not to the bar but maybe to a movie or something maybe out to eat?

your behavior is ridiculous, and the fact you wont answer the phone to tell her where you are at shows you are doing something wrong right there

ah-ight

serious answer: gambling is an addiction that can ruin your life the same way alcohol can.

get some help.

Mom of 2

I am with Will. How would you feel if your wife decided not to come home once or twice a week with out letting you know what's going on. If you truly care for your wife your reactions should be First, worried that she may be hurt and second pissed off that she doesn't respect your feeling enough to let you know where she is going to be. In answer to your question - No, a married man or woman has no business having overnight visits unless it is with a family member.

Katie

You should not be spending the night at the casino every week. Going out occasionally is just fine, but overnight to gamble once a week is excessive. PLus you don't tell her where you are. She probably thinks you're cheating

iyamacog

How would you feel if your wife left for overnite trips, and she did not let you know where she is?.........and she does not answer her phone when you call her? How would you feel upon her return? What would you think she was doing? Where do you think she would be? Would you be worried? If none of these questions affect you, then you simply don't care.
If you are not acting like a child, she will not seem to be acting like a mother.
It's actually called CONCERN, for one you love. By the time you walk in the next day, she is probably hysterical with worry, for your lack of consideration. That is not nagging, that's concern. Please give your actions some thought.

Bree

Marriage is a partnership. A major part of the foundation of a healthy marriage is mutual respect. While I don't think that going to a casino for an overnight-er is bad,,, it is very disrespectful of you to leave her hanging. Be careful she may get tired of waiting and never knowing if you will show up.

jem j

this sounds like the wife wrote it, lol. anyways i think in a partnership like marriage you should tell ur partner when you are spending a night away and i do think 2 nights a week is a bit much. u should tell her you dnt like when she mothers you. but a wife would only feel the need to do that if u are acting like a child. i think something simple like telling her ur gonna b out just shows that you respect her.

cocogirl

She is right, and it's not OK for you to stay overnight outside. In a marriage, nighttime is so important because it's when your children all asleep and you both can talk about everything. You can talk about your day, about the kids, about important things that you'd like to discuss without interruption from the kids. You should reconsider to stay home more often and pamper your wife. Have you ever asking yourself if you may be addicted? because I think going out gamble every week is a lot. I don't know how long that you've been married. You should seek for help until your marriage falling apart. Until your wife's patience wear out. Do you love your wife? and do you want this marriage? If yes, then put into action to seek for help.

I had a situation similar to yours. My husband had been gambling for 8 years. He had sent me to hell. He would spend all night playing and came home only when he lost all the money. I went into depression. It hurt so bad, he was never home for me or my child. I wished if there is an angel could get him out of that mental disease. Just pause your life for TWO seconds and analyze, is her pain and suffer and maybe losing your family worth going to the casino? I'm sure that your wife would probably appreciate you telling her where you're going. she must be scared and worried sick.

I don't think that your couple life is great at home, when one person is gambling that much. Go for couple counseling to work on your marriage. I'm sorry that I'm sound like giving you a lesson, but I went through it, lived with it. Good luck for everything.

Angel's Wings

One of these days she's not going to call....she won't care where you are or what you are doing.

She's given you so much rope here and you are still barking about her being a "motherfigure".

What woman wouldn't know her husband isn't dead in ally or ditch.

Wouldn't happen more than once with me, your stuff would be on the curb.

And, maybe if you told her you were going and when to expect, she wouldn't have anything to nag you about!

Incredible.

Chrissy4u

Is this a friend, or a serious girlfriend? I think your not explaining the entire situation. So I cannot fully judge this person. However, if this person is only a friend. Then you should not feel obligated to report to her all the time.

maplesyrup

I had a woman who I was in love with but she was always nagging about everything under the sun.

We aren't together anymore.

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