Is sleeping with married men so wrong?

spelling nazi

First of all, how about if an older single girl answers? I've been there, honey, and believe me, it might look good, but in the end your friend is going to end up with nothing. There's nothing more to say.

adkfoaiefnafedw

Yes it is very tempting but when it is their turn to have a happy marriage they will have to wonder if some young hot thing is going to be replaced by you. Its called karma

mentallyill

What evr works for you, if you can handle the guilt why not...?

I do what I want..

I speak from personal experience, at first it really is fun and exciting and I thought it would never effect me....but a year later it caught up with me and I started to feel extreme guilt and I thought to myself that I am better than this. Once it was over I felt so much better about myself, but I wouldn't take it back. Hope this helps.

Lord Of CSM

It's very nice if you are not a wife ;)

trymeimbritish

Oh god...then you have to try me..lol

Mike

About as wrong a young man sleeping with a married woman even if she buys him neat stuff

General P

so basically she's whoring herself out for nice things? your friend sounds like a real piece of work.

mhmm

It's morally wrong, if that's your question. But if your friend can't seem to break the habit, let her continue. She will soon figure out that it's not worth it.

tabascohotinhere

Totally wrong. I am on the verge of proposing to my gf and I have to say, at no point in the future would any little piece of fluff get in on the act. I'd take more pride in working with her to evolve the relationship through whatever.

Your friend sounds naive or unscrupulous and either way, she'll wake up one day wondering what the hell she's done with the time she's throwing away collecting trinkets. I firmly believe there are lessons you need to learn about relationships before you can commit to one and your friend is not getting any of them right now, and it sounds like neither are you.

But thats only my point of view. Do what you want... if you are looking for someone to sanction your behaviour... so go ahead, do it, knock yourself out. I'm sure it'll be a blast. As long as you are happy, what else matters and you'll be able to tell your kids what its like to fly in 1st class, maybe they'll even fly it themselves one day?

coach mora

im all for it

missree

no if they aren't getting it at home they have to look elsewhere because wanking isn't fun after a while. i've been shagging the same married man for almost 2 years because i don't like the whole commitment rubbish and the fact that i or he can call each other when we need a shag. there's no rows about hey you didn't call me today or whatever just simple, pure fun.

Lydia K

its wrong as if the wife found out she would be hurt but a lot of people are quick to judge when they have not been in this situation themselves!!a female can be promised love and everything from a married man and if they feel insecure and alone then they can accept this as they feel they are someone special and they end up hurt but i think its unfair when people cheat intentionally to get a buzz or whatever but i dont believe people should critisize others when they have never been in the other womans or mans shoes!!

Toto

Is so good to be truth. Is nothing wrong - just beautiful life, and no obligations.

Poppet

When I was single, I dated married men. Why? Because I could. I wasn't betraying anybody. It was for fun, and I knew it wasn't permanent.

Now, I'm married. Do I think differently? No. BUT, I would be furious with my husband if he did have a lady on the side. He made oaths to me concerning fidelity and honesty. Would I be mad at the other woman? No. But that is my personal opinion and how I view the world.

Society would tell you that it is wrong. Why? Because, the other woman is HELPING the married man destroy a family. By family I mean children. In the end, it's the children who will suffer when the infidelity is discovered. Nobody wants to hurt children, and that is why it is wrong.

You gotta wonder who's using who in this relationship.

Chianti Man

Well if she's happy then go for it, enjoy it while she can.

charlie c

if you fancy trying it get in touch x

nitpicker

As the saying goes.....it takes two to tango......People have been committing adultery since forever and people get hurt. Men and women get tempted and enjoy the buzz that can be found in this type of situation. We all know right from wrong and as long as you can live with yourself.....

precede2005

so be with him in the bed,if you like and if he invites you.Forget love-rather fall in chocolate.Will he goggled you?and did you slept right through.Don't be labeled yourself as a call girl!( I am not abusing your credibility).

imphilthe

wrong or right is relative. evidently your friend is all about the money. and oviously the guy its about capturing some youth. of course their is a victim here the wife. and anybody that thinks telling makes things right is wrong. geting a conscious after the fact wont help. society makes laws for a beter society and to keep all this type of activity to a minimum so that inoscent parties wont be hurt. So I will say there is no true answer.

toietmoi

I am not married.
It is wrong, doesn't work and everybody will get hurt including children.

LARGE MARGE

Obviously she can't be happy, because she doesn't have a life of her own. I feel sorry for her. I would rather be home working on my hobbies and visiting my friends having good times to make great memories we can later remember! How can she ever share her good times with her "sugar daddy" when she knows it has to be kept secret. Tell her to GET A LIFE of her own. When the time comes she gets caught, she will regret being so materialistic, living in fantasy land!

Rainbow

Try being on the receiving end. What if the girl found the husband or boyfriend that she really loved and she found out he was sleeping around! It hurts. Has the man got children. Believe me it hurts the children in the end. It causes anger, bitterness and trust flies down the drain.

What you sow you shall also reap! What turns around comes around. Would you like it?

Makemeaspark

Absolutely. It ruins lives and affects many more people than just 2 abusers and the spouse.

You can't build real love on other peoples heartbreak. It's a totally selfish relationship.

reslstancelsfutlle

It is ethically wrong. Period. I'm not married but I just can't see how thinking that anything goes as long as someone "gives you stuff" is a good philosophy.

GANGSTA BOY

yes

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