Is the relationship worth saving?

Rachel

If you are questioning it and don't think your relationship is worth the trouble, then that would make me think it isn't worth saving. When you are with the right guy; you won't question it, you'll just know it's right.

Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovo

No not really. If you are questioning whether or not its worth it to deal with ALOT of those issues then it doesn't look like its worth saving.

Paulfius

Do it. You need to move on

-doozer-

no

grow up!

Jimmy the handicap H

just dump him and find someone normal.. like me :D

Jonny B

The bare fact that you ask this and the other questions means...NO!!!

Grow up and move on!

Time to say goodbye. It isn't worth all the trouble.

anupam

all relationships, if they are there are worth saving. and all relationship always have lot of issues also, intensity may vary case to case. but your question is not elaborate enough may be this is something only you have to decide, why don't u talk to directly?

Phal D

If you put as much effort into fixing the relationship rather than worrying about if you should end it, you wouldn't need to be asking this question. work on it, love is a beautiful thing, no one said it was going to be easy, but rather that it's going to be worth it.

jemmamomma

All your questions that are in the wrong category you mean. But yes, if you have this much to question, why are you bothering.

cheesedog73

If you both are willing to work on it, then it is wouth it. If only one is working on it. get out.

Why not me

Every relationship has it's ups and downs so don't give up just yet. If you love him, I think the only thing you can do is try. If he still shows that he loves & care about you it can work. But don't live your life unhappy to please someone else (him) if he isn't as committed as you are to making it work.

Jennifer S

Probably not. As hard as it will be to say goodbye, after a few months you'll realise it was the best decision you ever made.

Ryan D

NOPE. If you have to ask total strangers wheater or not a relationship is worth saving, then you should have been out of it a long time ago

Ricardo

Say good-bye. Give your boyfriend a break, a gift, by breaking up with him. He is probably sick of all your issues.

ramblinrose117@yahoo.ca

Well hon! you two are not married and if you have so many issues now then I would say if it's not work before you get married it won't work after is that what you want to get married then have that on your hands too! I think you should take some time and Date other guys as don't get to hung up on a guy you have to work on so hard to have a good relationship it's not going to work you have tried and failed but the best thing you did was not get married so move on now that your heart isn't in fixing him any more do while you still have the nerve to move on with your life.Life is way to short to waste any time fixing boy friends up.The have to come all in one peace with no peaces missing.You'll find that man go look he is out there waiting for you do it now. Good luck there and please don't get into a pattern with finding the same kind you left before.Fine a nice man this time.

Ronald McDonald

nah just go and shoot yourself(jokin!)

crazycrystal8

well i would say that you just have to talk it out with your boyfriend and discuss all the issues you both have. if both of you dont agree then you would no its time to let go...best of luck...

yea..its me

I think you know the answer......if you can take a trip for a few days out of town and do all of the fun things you can think of (without alcohol or other men) and when you come back, you will know for certain when you asks these questions........does he fit you and what you want to achieve at this point in time or does he limit your progress......good lucl

PlainandSimple

Time to say goodbye

Dr. Popular

I have been through the same situation. I wanted to be with him but we were having so many problems together. When we broke up I cried for almost two weeks straight, and was depressed for a couple of months...

But as I began to get over him, I realized how bad he was for me in the first place. When I met my current boyfriend, I realized that the guy I broke up with had been all wrong!!! I hope something similar will happen to you.

Sometimes you love people but they are just not suited to a relationship with you. You have to make the difficult decision to break up, but it's what's best for you and you have to trust that.

If you are having this many problems already then I can't imagine you ever being fully happy with him.

Kickin' Dirt

You should always find another boyfriend before moving on. You wouldn't quit your job without having another one lined up right?

E&L

The first year of a relationship is usually the 'honeymoon' period. Just wait until stress factors such as children, jobs, mortgage payment etc. work into your relationship. If a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship after a year can not be set straight, then any real life 'issues' will only tear you apart. Sorry, but it's time to get real of where this is heading.

IntrigueMe

It's tough, and you obviously love him, and sometimes it's easier to put up with the crap than to say goodbye, but is this really what you want to do for the rest of your life? You know what's going to end up happening? You're going to think it's worth the trouble and you're going to be 100% committed, and then one day he's going to come home and say that he's leaving because he can't handle it. Then you're going to be mad and hurt because he didn't think it was worth as much as you did. Be selfish for a while, think of yourself, and cut your losses.

...maybe tell him to tick you off, it's always easier for me when I'm mad :) Good luck, be strong.

baileynanakathy

only you can know. are you happy most of the time or does he make you feel bad? go with your instincts. you can be alone. sometimes it is better that way.

strawberryice_lb

I know its hard but I've been through the same thing. I was with my boyfriend for 6 1/2 years and I had to end it. We were having soooo much problems. I believe you have already answered your own question. If you have to think about it this much then you might need some time apart. If it was meant to be then you guys will get back together. And you will know by then :)

Good Luck!

Toots

The fact that you ask this, means you already really have your answer. Sometimes, you can love someone but just be able to be around them...relationships should have more UPS than downs...if you are struggling to "make it work" then you most likely need to move on...
Being with the right person (and I should know...I've been married three times...and have finally found my soulmate!)..
is wonderful...and filled with more joy than sorrow...more laughter than tears...if you are experiencing the opposite, it is time to move on...
Do you want to look back in 10-15 years and find that you are in the SAME spot you are now?

Princess

You have only been together for a year and you're already having numerous problems. I honestly think you had better move on; you are wasting your precious time and effort on a relationship that is destined for failure. What good is a relationship if it doesn't improve the quality of your life or bring out the best in you?

poppy

say goodbye
and if it was meant to be
you'll meet again when you've both managed to grow up a b it and just learn about love

Heatherrrrrrrr

When to leave...

If you don't feel at ease with the other person. If you are trying to change them or they are trying to change you. If you are fighting over tiny things all the time. If you have sad times more than happy times. When you can't really be yourself.

All are signs to walk away.

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