Is there anything wrong if my husband refers to me as his girlfriend to people wev'e known?

rich2481

no,, that is cute,, he is basically telling people to back off that you are his,,

PiNkY

Absolutely not! He's letting them know that he loves you in that fresh, new way that he did when you guys were just dating!

How sweet - hang on to him!

Bad_Kity

Did these people not attend your wedding? Or does he just do it as like a cute namesake.

me, me, and me

only if he is joking! thats kinda cute..... but its not ok if he is telling girls that!

moonchild

That depends. If people already know that you are married than it is cute, If they don't than it ain't. My husband always refer to me as his wife and he better unless it is around friends and family.

Loh

Guess it's okay if you are okay with it. If it bothers you, ask him his intentions by it, and see if you can talk about it. Otherwise, it might be just a "pet" name for you to lovers.....

cookie

Its quite sweet he means he still sees you as the young sweet thing he first met take it as a compliment

?? yaddajean ??

Yes, You said he is your husband but he calls you his girlfriend, WTF why would he do that. He should be proud to refer to you as his wife. You aren't his girlfriend anymore

highjinx777

Nah...thats kinda sweet actually.

Paul G

a little... either he is afraid of what of people might think or he forgot about your marriage.
that or he feels that he wasn't ready to get married.

ivanjercenov

IF he means it in a romatic way it is very nice...a guy has to continuosly work to keep his girlfriend...be thankful he isn't saying the "ol ball and chain" or the old bag, or old lady, or B#tch.

Ms Della55

Ah yea!!!!!!Duh?????
Why do you let him say that? What do you say?

coneytennis

If you have objected to this phrase, your husband should stop
People know you are married but you may feel slighted
Your husband may think he is paying you a compliment. Insist
that you are not comfortable with it, it is not a harmless joke
or, you may ignore it and say you are not pleased - every time
he says it

That Guy

There's nothing wrong...if you don't mind him banging out old girlfriends and strippers. His friends won't be nearly as ready to taddle if you're merely his gf.

That's awesome, though. If you're into that.

Yes but I guess it also depends on how long you have been married. If you are newly weds then it could just be a force of habit but if you guys have been married awhile then I say you need to put a stop to that. Good Luck

No it is romantic that he still looks at you as the woman he dated and he is trying to keep your marriage fresh...

would you rather he call you his "old lady" or the "old ball and chain"

Gemma

well they know you are maried so it doesnt matter, i would be worried if he referred to you as a friend.

sharon b

no problem - just refer to him as your boyfriend and see how he likes it..... or my little friend

bsbrulez92704

well if they know ur married than it should be a problem. he's trying to keep the spark in the relationship...

The Girl Is A Geek

I think it is nice.

My husband and I have been married for over 15 years and he still introduces me as his "Sweetheart".

I love it.

It certainly beats being called "The Ol' Ball And Chain" or something!

Lin-z

That is just messed up. If youre his wife, that is permanent unlike a girlfriend. Sounds like him saying girlfriend youre not a definate thing.

da' boss

he is a PLAYER
he is mesing with other girls behind your back
Get Checked For STD's

ellen

I think you should talk to him and ask him why he calls you his girlfriend, but if you know the people he's says it to and they know you married it's not that bad. Maybes what he's saying is like you two are best buds, that kind of girlfriend.

mJc

I think it's kind of sweet...

pebbles is magically delicious!

Maybe he thinks of it as being playful... Like even though ur married, it's not bland or anything- it's exciting like when u were dating.

joan g

be very flattered

Alwyn C

I think it's cute to think that he still refers to you as his girlfriend after all that time. Wife and girlfriend all rolled into one. What a lucky man. Just don't forget to use it to your advantage. Lovingly that is.

*Honest Blunt Opinioner*

whats wrong with saying "wife" what's to be ashamed of? youre his WIFE not his girlfriend its a big difference, but if it doesnt bother you then, whats the worry

wilcha

doesn't make sense. i think there's something wrong why dont you ask your husband why is he introducing you as girlfriend and not wife.

JadeyOz

Well I'm guessing if people have you known you both for years then they are fully aware that you are husband and wife right?

I dunno why go through the marriage ceremony to just get the title g/f? seem's weird to me , but I dont know you or how he treat's you , you'd need to put more information in like how it make's you feel to be called his g/f and not his wife or life partner .

Delir G

Tell him "Hello!" and point to your wedding ring

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