Is there here any overweight girl/woman, that is happily married or is happy in her private life?

Jennifer A

I am overweight and married. Couldn't be happier in my marriage. My husband loves me the way I am. When I have asked him if he wants me to lose weight, he tells me that he loves me and if I want to do it for myself then go ahead. You have to be happy with yourself to be happy in life.

Radagast97

My wife is overweight and she is happy. I don't think her weight bothers her much. It doesn't bother me.

blob

What an odd question to ask? I am over weight, and like a lot of ladies who are i am one who chooses to be. I am happily married have been for 13 years to a wonderful good looking guy and we have a son...... Why do you ask such an unusual question? Are you happy sweetie? xx

jasmine

you have to be happy with yourself in order to be happy in life.

mikeodonagh

I am sure there is, my wife is overweight and is a very happy person, what makes her sad are the people that thinks she is sad because she is overweight

Teresa

Absolutely!!! I have been married for 11/2 yr. and I am very happy. I weighed 200lbs when my husband proposed, and through our 1yr. engagement I gained 30 extra lbs. although I wasn't thrilled with it, my husband was so supportive. He didn't lie and Say " O. honey, you're so thin!!", but he said that weight doesn't matter so much as long as he knows I'm taking care of myself by eating appropriately and exercising. taking interest in how I dress and present myself is also important. I haven't lost the weight I gained 2 yrs ago, but I've gained a whole lot of self esteem. The man I love loves me no matter what! God Bless!!

sian p

Depends what you mean by overweight - I am currently a UK size 16 and am losing weight at the moment (a stone so far) it's because I am unhappy with the way I look, not because I am unhappy with anything else in my life.

I have been happily married for 10 years and my weight has gone from a size 10 to a size 16 several times over the years but I do have 3 kids, my husband says he prefers the curvier lady but if I do ever get to a size 10 again an he says that, I'll bash him with a rolling pin! Men!

Nena S

I TOTALLY agree with Anna!

"You cannot give what you do not have." IF you are happy with yourself, it will show.

BeccaBoo

I am overweight and very happily married. I am also very comfortable with myself and confident in my every day life. I believe that TV and magazines have posted an unrealistic standard on what women should look like. As long as you are happy with yourself so what the rest of the world thinks.

Disco Stu

My disco lady is overweight. I am not ecstatic about it, but I love her in all ways just the same.

She is happy. She is awesome She is my love and my life.

Yowza!

LISA E

I'm overweight and been married 2 years. My husband fell in love with me when I was overweight and tells me all the time how beautiful I am. I'm very happy!

Crystal T

i am and i found a hot *** skinny white guy to live me and marry me and stiil got guys chasing me and i am 250lbs.

Rich goldie

Honey lets talk about over weight. If you look in the
mirror and like what you see then wither your married or single that's you. Have always looked and said nice looking guy the way I look and if others don't like not my problem.

I V X

either ur overeight or ur jus a shallow person askin this question.....ahhh i dont get why ppl even ask all this...............my dad is fat as a slob yet my mums stayed with him 25 yrs and shes very fit..............does physical appearance matter so much ??? wouldnt u rather be with someone that really loves and respects u or with smoeone whos hotttttt to look at and has no brain or leaves u as soon as some hot guy comes along????? i dont know if im sad or mad at ppl that ask q's like this ! u ppl need to jus grow up !

I'm overweight, (hubby says pleasingly plump) and VERY happy in my relationship. My SO is wonderful...........treats me like a china doll when he's not treating me like a princess.

freedomrings

If you are happy that is all that counts. A lot of men and women seek to lose weight for someone else. It's not worth it. If someone doesn't like me or one me for who and what I am...the heck with them too. There is always someone to love everyone. I have many friends that are happily married and one or the other is overweight. I have a girlfriend that weights almost 400 pounds and she is very happily married. Remember, do it for yourself and no one else.

farra

me!! yes i am overweight,but completely happy in my marriage , now that doest mean i am happy about my weight gain after our first child, but my husband supports me and we are both open and honest about my weight gain, he openly admits he thought i was hot before i gained the weight, but he still tells me that i am beautiful all the time, i know ill lose the weight when i am ready ,and it will make us BOTH happy

SIAN D

My mother is 30Stone and she has always been a very happy go lucky person throughout my childhood her weight never once stopped her from taking us on days out to theme parks and trips to America ,she has also been happily married for the last 40yrs there renewing there wedding vows in may ,she always uses the saying big is beautiful.so stop putting yourself down get out there n have fun n don't worry bout not being a size zero.

ryladie99

Yes, all my friends are heavy and they are happy with their spouses. They are happy in their private lives as well. I am thin and bonny but I am very happy with my private life because, I make myself happy and every things around me are happy as well.

Tweety

I'm overweight, and yet my lover makes me feel like a million bucks !!! He never has any negative comments about my body. When I'm with him, I feel like the most beautiful woman in the world !!! The reasons for this are because he loves me, respects me, pleases me, trusts me, and pleasures me. We put each other on a pedestal, and think highly of each other.

rosser_girl_68

The real question is are you happy? Or are you not overweight and asking for someone else.

shania3949

I am a little overweight. I am happy with my life, but not my weight, so I am working on it.

najuras

over Weight is not a prob for happy married life understanding of both parts. is impt. - najuras

Lancs girl

Yes of course! What a silly question! Self esteem and inner happiness are not found on a dress label! By the BMI rating, I'm obese but I'm in great shape, love my curves and so does my husband!
I take it from your question that you don't think it's possible - if that's how you feel, I'd recommend doing some real soul-searching about why you choose to believe this and what the consequences of such a belief are.

sally w

depending on what you mean by over weight apparently i am in the obese part of the chart although i am a size 16 and 5ft 7 but i am very happily married but i have been suffering an eating disorder for the past 14 years i have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 5 of them so yes if i can be happy then anyone can

!!!Rain!!! !

Happiness doesn't depend with your physical looks. Anyone can be happy in life regardless of her size and weight as long as you've learned to accept yourself since, happiness comes within yourself and it's a choice.

Learn to love yourself no matter how overweight you are and you'll surelly have a happy life. God bless!

alikilee

I am overweight and have been my whole life. Started gaining weight when I was 7. I had a miserable time being teased about my weight but still managed to be in the marching band and have friends. I didn't date much. But I have been married now for almost seven years. My husband loves that I have a little "junk in the trunk". I thought no one would ever find me attractive or want to marry me. It took me a while but I did find happiness in my self. My goal now is not to lose weight but be healthy at whatever size I am.

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