|

aichausa
 |
He wants to be my back door man.
Maybe someday, if he plays his cards right :) |
|

Pam C
|
There is something that I want to do-he doesn't. I don't know why he won't but I would never go elsewhere-that's betraying my marriage vows. |
|

friskymisty01
 |
if a spouse feels uncomfortable in "doing certain" things in the bedroom the other partner should Respect that and NO they shouldn't be "allowed" to go elsewhere for it.......if they feel they need to go elsewhere........then leave the marriage /relationship for good cuz you don't "deserve" to be in one* |
|

special_edd_yay
 |
lets just say there will never EVER be any inserting of fingers in areas that were meant for EXIT ONLY! I don't know why she wants to do it so bad, but it will never happen. Just as she is not hip on swallowing. But neither I nor her would look elsewhere. |
|

Mommymonster
 |
Uh, yeah, but I'm not going to announce them on THIS forum! |
|

travelingirl005
|
Spouse, Married couple.......
be able to go else where?
Why get married.......in the first place.
No...they shouldn't be able to ...
best wishes |
|

Lady K
 |
I would try it for them once, and if i didn't like it I wouldn't do it again. if they go elsewhere it shows a lack of respect.
then again, if they let you, why not go get it somewhere else? |
|

HP
|
Yeah, the back end... I don't know the male facination with this, but (for me anyway) it hurts, so no. no no no.
It is not a big issue at all though, more of an occasional tentative request once in a while. |
|

avwangelbug
|
My husband really wants me to have a threesome. I do not feel comfortable with the thought of having to share my husband with someone else. I married him not anyone else I do not think that I should share him with anyone else. If he was to go elsewhere for it when he came home he would not find me there waiting for him. I would leave him in a heartbeat. |
|

What?
 |
i can pretty much talk my girlfriend into anything. And i'm up for anything as long as it doesn't involve my butt. |
|

ELAINE C
 |
YES! He wants to hang pictures of Harley Davidson motorcycles on the walls...no way. It's tackly. He can go elsewhere, like the garage. |
|

ahg30
|
Hell no.......I would kick his *** if he went elsewhere!!!
(He better be understanding) |
|

saturn man
 |
If your spouse doesn't want to perform certain "acts" then you should just live with it and not seek it somewhere else. |
|

sweetybaby
|
yes, there is.. I am not inclined to say.
he just has to deal with it. If he feels that it is a need, then we shouldn't be together. Elsewhere is not exceptable-end the marriage do not condone cheating. Or feel that you have to do that. If your spouse knew that you didn't do it before you got married then there should be no suprise. |
|

Sandy B
|
Yeah go to sleep! haha |
|

Angel Eve
 |
Noone is EVER allowed to go elsewhere for it. That is ridiculous and unreasonable thinking. If your spouse is unwilling to do something, there is a good reason for it. I know that we are very experimental in the bedroom, but if I ever refused to do something, I trust that he would never go anywhere and neither would I. If you lose trust... The relationship is over. |
|

rach
|
he wants me to dress up as a nurse :| i'd be so embarrased but i would do it for him..........as long as he did stuff for me |
|

Butterfly Girl
 |
hey, we're married, I should be up for almost anything. (but he hasn't mentioned anything) |
|

Da 1 N only
 |
my ex gf. gave me a blow. job and then she wanted to kiss me.. eww ! |
|

copswife
 |
yes......hang the curtians, I am not tall enough and he just keeps not doing it......it has become a running joke now.....I say honey what do you want to do and he says, let's hang the curtians. |
|

Farm bred, grain fed, all natura
|
Yes
I don't like it
No
There are also things I want that she won't do. We're even. |
|

reddevilbloodymary
|
no they should not be allowed to go elsewhere for it....not unless it's agreed on by both parties |
|

CANDY
 |
theirs nothing i wont do for him in that department! but if their was something that i didnt want to do he would respet my wishies, and he wouldnt go anywhere else because he no's whats best for him! lol! no seriously tho, he loves me and would hurt me! as for ur Q: u should talk with ur girl or whatever and ask y and talk about it u both love each other! exsplane it in that way, u shouldnt go out and find it any where else xspecialy if u really really love that person! they will prob. come around it just takes time for ppl to open up in that department sometimes ppl still dont like there body and are insucure about it dont force them to make a disagin about things like that
BUT he wont do it when we'r out and i see a good place and its the right time he always says no! wtf's up with that!!!! |
|

A.Mercer
 |
Yeah, paint the walls. |
|

hubie
 |
your bedroom is the most important room in your home.all taboo,sare forgo ten. denial of some thing you thinking dint like is bad news . reconsider and go along with his fantasying come up with one of your own |
|

sbbbored
 |
no i give my husband all he wants i am his personal **** like he calls me in bed**** |
|

zumi
|
3 Questions in one.
1) No
2) N/A
3) N/A
If you love your spouse, give her the fantasy. What does she wanna do? |
|

Just here.
 |
yep. Cant say though |
|

|
|
|