Is this selfish of me to do?

cjmessy

yes, thats selfish

stixy_stixy

I think it shows lack of trust. You should be proud of her, and trust that even though other guys will check her out... she wants you!

Happy Penguin

Yes it is, she is a human being and is entitled to present herself as she sees fit.

If you have jealously issues you need to deal with them.

No one likes a possessive freak.

Confused husband

hard to say. I think if she's pretty, she should dress that way. So what if she's attractive to other men. That's how she got you, right?

GreekButterfly2001

YES!!! I had a boyfriend who never let me wear make-up and I hated it! Not only did it make me feel unattractive but it lowered my self esteem. Let her dress the way she wants, just remember that she is with you and if you continue your behavior you might just lose her.

fondy_bowler07

my bf does the same thing. no other guy can look at me. most of the time it is cute, but sometimes i just want to dress up and look great.

i say keep on doing it, but dont get mad or upset when she does put on those really nice clothes and does her make up. it really is for you.

kitkat

Don't you trust her? You need to lighten up and enjoy your woman and stop worrying, you are going to push her away with this attitude.

Kezza

.....and possessive. So what if she looks good and other men look at her, does that mean she's going to go off with another guy just because of that? If you've got a good relationship then you'll have her all to yourself no matter what she looks like.

jessijo_07

That is very wrong of you to do. You should be more secure in yourself than that. She probably knows whether or not she can do better than you, but she is with you. And it is normal for everyone to window shop in relationships. The important thing is who she runs to when she has had a bad day and needs a shoulder to cry on. Even if she could have a more attractive guy than you you shouldn't assume that she would leave you for one. Most attractive guys are asses and they don't treat women right. At the end of the day it is about the connection your form with someone. You should be more secure in your relationship than that. But honestly, if you told her the truth about what has been going on she might love you more for it. Girls like to be told stuff like, "I want to keep you for myself." It makes them feel good about themselves.

junkman

nah,,,

turtle_lover

yes that is selfish! you should be proud of the way your girlfriend looks, & you should be happy to have her dress nice around you. that makes other ppl think dang, i wish i could have her. but thats totally common. that will end up & happen if you keep up what ur doing though, ur showing lack of trust & not letting her be herself.

jazzfanmd

You should be happy to step out with the prettiest lady out there, and you should always feel that way. If you are too insecure to appreciate that, then maybe you should let her go so that she can find a more confident man. After all, she comes back home with you, doesn't she?

SUN

Definetely selfish! Mu husband never tells me that I m gorgeous when I wear beutiful things and you remind me of him. Very honestly , with no ofence I think that yourselfconfidence is very low. If she cheats she will, she will find a way trust me. But.... what is important that probably she is not happy when you dont give her compliments! :)

SHMILY

Boy are you insecure and controlling let her be who she is.. let them look at her.. no big deal.

mebo

Yes it is selfish and controlling. Why are you so insecure about her being beautiful? You should be glad that guys check her out because they don't have her, you do.

ah-ight

Yep!

Loose50

Yes

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