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KingAndrew
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I feel that your looking to hard at a simple statement and turning the meaning into something that was not said. You husband failed to respond about your hair, which was just a simple little gesture, he simply echoed your statement of,"I thought that was nice". He was confirming that he was listening and just replied back to you. There is no hidden meaning in his statement. So just relax. |
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Rajko
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He was probably only half paying attention to what you were saying. |
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Magic 8 Ball: The Witch is In
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I would think nothing of it. He agreed that Kate is nice. If you wanted him to say something about your hair, then you should have probably said something like "Kate said my hair always looks nice, waht do you think"? Don't sweat what he said. It is silly. |
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tootboody
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i'll tell you a secret, your husband sometimes looks at jessica alba like he thinks shes pretty too.
and i bet you look at brad pitt or johnny depp and think they are pretty too.
i guess what i learned early on in relationships is to not be so dang jealous. |
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JM
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you're being silly. |
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durulz2000
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You're being silly.
YOU said Kate was nice ('...I thought that was') and your husband was just agreeing with you.
And it WAS nice of Kate to say what she did. So what's the problem?
If your husband had said, 'yeah, and she's got gorgeous t!ts as well', then maybe you'd have a point. |
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laur318
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you know he loves you. i would really look over it. he wasnt paying attention to the hair comment...and he wanst dissingf your hair or hitting on your gf.
he totally got caught not listening to what you said about your hair, so he repeated what he did pick up... like he's making up for being an *** & ignoring your 1st statement by agreeing to what he did hear. "Kate is nice" was all that he gained from that conversation. men always tune us out.. they have other things going on, too, and unfortunately we cant get 1000% attention like we sometimes need. |
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llaaddyyjj
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let it go...pick your battles and stop sweating the small stuff. |
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watson182531
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Don't worry about it. Women ask and answer in details. Men often answer the shortest way possible (subliminally of course). You started the sentence with Kate and ended with that you thought her comment was nice. He picked up on that part more than the hair. Unfortunately it was YOUR hair and it would have been better for him to comment about YOU rather than another person - much less another woman. We all find other people attractive (like movie stars) but he married you and with your nice hair I think he'll stick with you :) Relax and kiss your hubby :) |
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Nicky D
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Your over reacting honey, just let it go! |
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B-Man
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hahahaha! it was just a joke probably... cause that's the kind of thing i say as jokes |
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warennie
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Look over it... He was just telling the truth and was responding to what you said in a different context to what you were expecting his response to be. He would have assumed you were making a remark more so about Kate than your hair. So therefor his response is in concern to kate. Even if he does think shes pretty, you shouldnt care. |
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Pantomime
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You're disturbed. You DID say yourself that Kate was nice, didn't you? |
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Щїʼnάķσ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
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You are being silly.
It's not like HE brought up Kate being nice. You did. He was just agreeing with you. |
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Amelia J
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In a perfect world your husband's response would have been to kiss you on your neck and say something like, "I agree 100%". WAKE UP SWEETIE. He is a man and he is not going to always (if ever) respond the way you want him to. |
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skyicedragon
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I'd say keep an eye on him. You have every right to be disturbed. Some times when a man says some thing like that they are thinking some thing else to go along with that comment that they know they cannot say without getting beat up by the wife. |
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SImply ME
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look over it |
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xox_Edward_xox
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I wouldn't get too overexcited but you might wanna look over it because it sounds like there may be something going on.BUT he might have just been agreeing with you because you are friends with Kate and he didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you that he doesn't think she's nice.You never know.And,if you see him looking at Kate in a way that looks like he's checking her out, look at him until he looks back at you so that he will know you saw him check her out.Good Luck |
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Dave101
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Men or at least I can look at another woman and appreciate something about her ie looks, personality etc. and have no desire to do anything else. Now if he is checking out her behind or cleavage that might be a sign that it could be more than just appreciation, but even than isn't a sure fire sigh he may stray it could just be his norm to be a "girl watcher" you have to know your man. |
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yoyo90
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what kind of shampoo are u using ?just kidding ,of course you are being silly .if u're husband is attracted to kate he would try his best to not show it |
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Matthew J Bell.
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He just said this because Kate gave you a compliment,forget about it,unless you find them in bed together of course. |
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Godless
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Yes, you are silly. Just because he looks doesn't mean he'd touch... |
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love to cook
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I am a very secure person, but my experience has taught me that if something makes me insecure, there is a reason. Don't start trouble but keep an eye out to see what may be happening in your life, or your husband's, that may have made you disturbed by this comment. |
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Get real
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That doesn't mean anything he was just repeating you he probably didn't even hear the whole sentence check it out most men don't really listen to the whole thing most times they just repeat the end so it seems like they are, test this theory and you will see notice he will repeat the end or just say ya a lot but if you ask him to repeat the whole thing he is caught most of the time my hubby knows I do this so he makes sure to listen to me haha, but seriously it's funny because you know men don't care at all that bull we care about hair makeup etc. |
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steve.leddy
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Has he given you any reason to doubt his fidelity? Also, we often fear those things we see in ourselves. |
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Anie
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look over it... |
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sux_2b_ewe
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Good God, quit reading more into this than is necessary. You pretty much complimented Kate and your husband was simply taking your cue and doing likewise. You had ended what you were saying to him speaking of Kate being nice, not about your hair, so he took it that the important topic was Kate being nice. |
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sas177
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I think you should just look over it, I don't see it being an issue. You told him kate was nice, he was just agreeing. Just think if he would've said " Your kate friend isn't very nice, I don't like her" you would be soo upset. So just be glad he respects your friends, but I really think he was just agreeing. Nothing to worry about, he loves you. That's why he married you.
Good Luck! |
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Julie
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It's going to depend on whether or not you're willing to fight over it. Whether he "likes" Kate or not he's going to deny it. The important thing to remember is that he LOVES you. If Kate is your friend he's probably just trying to affirm your choice in friends. If you REALLY in your heart of hearts think something is going on between them (not a silly crush) then confront him but otherwise I would leave it alone. |
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