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christina3661@yahoo.com
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He is cheating !!!!!! |
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Baylin ♥
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Let the marriage go. There is no reason to be together when he can't be honest with you. He shouldn't be hiding things from you.
Don't cheat on him just to get revenge. It will only make things more complicated. |
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Lu Lu ♥
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A person with nothing to hide, hides nothing. Dont put the brakes on her and him put the breaks on you and him. Two wrongs dont make a right. Be the bigger person |
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txharleygirl1
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He is cheating. 2 wrongs don't make a right. You cheating back won't help matters. Divorce him and find someone who really loves you. |
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Imani
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You already have your answer, so what are you seeking, support to give you strength?
I have gone through this, and I divorced him. It hurt, but I started pampering myself, hanging with my girls...got over him...didn't start dating right away, waited a very long time. fastened my Chasity belt and fell in love with myself.
Because if you don't, you will judge every man like it's him.
to add--- AIDS, STD's,HPV has no one target... |
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Mystic
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Don't stoop to his level! Yes he is cheating and you need to leave his a** ASAP! Take him to the bank and get everything you can and find someone who will treat, love and respect you the way you deserve to be! |
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chocolate
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If you don't have kids, the best thing to do is to leave, and look for an honest guy. If you do have kids, then you have to let him understand that you are not going to allow this type of behavior. If he doesn't change, dump him for you and your kids' sake. |
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Pretty Princess
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2 wrongs dont make a right you need to make him choose and stick to your guns....dont let him do u like that |
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Sharlala
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Dont sink to his level. Hold your head up high and let the lil skank have him....he's obviously over you...Sorry.... |
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Htnspyc
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Sorry to tell you your husband is cheating he would not hide his phone ans acts so suspicious if he was not . Let it go doesn't sound as if he is sorry for what he is doing and he protecting this woman and not you. |
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msthinkpositive
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Cheating is wrong on either end, and will cause more harm than help the matter. So, either you let him know that you're no dummy, and put your foot down about the females before it's too late (if it's not already). Let him know that you married him because of his commitment to you, and that this is what you expect. If he has a problem just being with YOU, and want others, to let you know so you can get off the list and lead your life elsewhere. He won't do this without lying, but when you confirm his lies, just go for what makes you happy, other than cheating. |
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Ellie
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Let it go. He is obviously being sneaky and their is no reason to stick around. Some women think,well I need more evidence then this,but the evidence is pretty clear,and it's just an attempt to prove yourself wrong. Do yourself a favor,by you asking,deep down in your heart you know the truth,and your just finding a way to justify your feelings with others opinion,when in the first place,all you need is your own opinion.
If you feel as if you don't want to let go of your marriage,confront him,tell him you know everything,and you want him to admit his wrong doing. You can also tell him you aren't dumb,and won't be made a fool of.
Most women make the common mistake of easily forgiving a guy,but never truly asking the important questions,like,"why?",or even,"how do I know that you won't be doing the same thing?".
You can also demand to see the bill,and his phone, and if he refuses,tell him it proves his guilt. Most men try to guilt women into thinking well 'you are ganging up against me,and don't let it work.'
hope that helps. |
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pinniethewooh
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He's cheating and he's not going to stop until you put the brakes on but hard...I wouldn't cheat though. If he doesn't stop, or continues to make excuses, file for divorce. |
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limendoz
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Whether he is cheating or not; he is hiding things from you AND lying. You obviously don't trust him. Without trust you have no relationship. You might as well make it official.
Don't cheat on him (I assume you already got somebody picked out). Wait until you are divorced or at least permanently separated. |
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Countrybuggyben
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Don't lower yourself to his level.
Don't cheat. That would make you a tart and just as bad as the tarts he's seeing.
Give him the flick and keep everything that you can, the house, the cars, the tv, the life savings even go for his shirts and pants if you can get them then donate them to charity.
Don't drag it out for more than a year, or stop before then if revenge stops being fun. If you drag it out for longer than that you'll wind up being terminally bitter.
Guys (and girls) who cheat don't deserve a thing. They should just be mature and let go!
Leave him girl and go find someone more deserving of your company.
and good luck, any divorce is a painful experience, just get through it and laugh at it afterwards. |
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slick chik
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Give them both what they deserve.....each other. Don't waste your time getting revenge by cheating on him in return....you would eventually regret just letting someone else use you like that. The best thing to do is pack up, move out - or toss his butt out and get on with your life. Someone decent will come into your life when you least expect it. Good Luck! |
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BadAssGirlINWV
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It's time to let the marriage go, get a divorce and move on with your life. You don't deserve to have a man like that. In my opinion i think hes cheating. |
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khanofali
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Marriage is all about trust. If you don't trust him, you don't love him.
There is no reason to stay married to someone you don't love. |
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jude
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don't let him drag u down to his level by cheating on him, as he does u. keep your dignity. yes it appears he is cheating on u, and theres not much u can do as this is who he is, and what he chooses to do. u may stop him for awhile but he will go back to it. just divorce him, and move on, and do well with someone else, that will be your revenge. |
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Baby Rae Rae
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YES ,HONEY,YES.YA DON'T EVEN HAVE 2 THINK ABOUT IT. |
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Taquino3
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Sounds to me like she should be the winner of such a loser. Let him go and find someone who will treat you like the princess you are. |
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paradoxical1
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How old are you? |
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ruth4261
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dont stoop to his level.....two wrongs dont make a right.....dump his cheating butt |
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MiaDiva28
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he may be talking to other women on it and is scared that they might call when you are around. he might be afraid that you will look at his texts also. if he didnt have anything to hide, then he wouldnt have a problem letting you look through it. you are his wife after all. dont cheat, it wont make you feel good in the long run. dont stoop to his level. conserve your dignity and stand up for yourself. |
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telenanher420a
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Don't cheat... that makes it worse. Just end it. |
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Bored&Broken
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I dont know, first I would try my best to work something out, then if that didnt work I guess I'd just get rid of him. |
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~just_jd~
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sounds to me as tho he has something to hide in that cell phone. get it while he is in the shower an investigate all you can , make sure to check the dates as well. do this before you point a guilty finger or ask for divorce. don't bring your self down to a cheaters level , just give it some time...it will all come out in the open sooner or later. |
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smashleyy
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i think get out of the marriage fast you dont deserve a man who does that to you no way. |
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ms_lique
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WHY ARE YOU ASKING US? YOU ALREADY KNOW HE IS. WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? TO CATCH HIM IN THE ACT? LEAVE! |
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aj_lets_go_shopping
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Not necessarily, but in your case, I'd be a little suspicious. |
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