Is your wife aloud to take a vacation by herself?

tonto83338

YEAH!!! The more important question though is why does she want to?

Philip

Hell I wish she would.

KingAndrew

My wife can be loud on occasions, but as far as a vacation she would be allowed to go by herself if she wished. I know she has been wanting to go visit J.J., something about playing with her cats.

Redneck_Momma

I'm "allowed" to do whatever I want. I am a grown adult.

Jc J

she does.... on business... or so she says.. lol

Lucy

I am ALLOWED to, yes.

Do I want to? No.

I tell it like it is

Why would she need permission to make a decision for herself?Trust is the key here, unless she is going to a Venezuelan stud farm .

Sexy Simone

HELL TO THE YEAH!!!!!
What is wrong with some ME time?

Blade_III

She's allowed to do whatever she wants. I'm not her father.

blueberry

aloud? why do i have 2 dads and i'm7 years old?

SSG D

Yes if that is what she wants, needs, or desires then I don't mine, but she better come home happier or in a least a better place in her head.

Sandy Ego

I believe you meant to say "allowed" (i.e., "permitted").

"Aloud" means "with the speaking voice" (as in "reading aloud").

foxxmay2001

Yes, make sure that she will be back to you SAFETY after a vacation.

Monsieur Rick

When I was married, I once suggested this idea, but then realized what a stupid idea it was. We vacationed to places of wonder, beauty and enchantment. For that I will be forever grateful.

hasjewels

It will probably do some good for your relationship if she gets some me time. She will come back refreshed and loving you all the more.

rohak1212

Yes, in fact she has done so several times.

Sunshine

I do every year! It is the only time I truly get to myself.

Jyoti P

Yes!
She needs a break
why do u not trust her?

smiley

yes most definitely, they need time to come to terms with their emotions as well as get over any doubts .Space and distance makes the heart grow fonder.
woman in general need space and hate to be taken for granted, so be happy for her and let her go with love and not resentment that she is not going with you..make the best of th time not spent together and dnt doubt her love for you, respect her and her decisions..

efwisocap

Damn I wish I was able to my sisters went to vegas and my hubby said no that who would watch the kids ;(

Redhead Mom

My husband and i will take a few weekend trips separately a few times a yr with our friends.

Him and a few of his buddies will go on fishing/hunting trips.

Me and a few of my girlfriends will take weekend trips to different places.

A few times a yr we will take vacations as a family.

I think its a good idea to get some "me" time once in awhile.

Magic 8 Ball (Call me BILF)

I go visit my friends without my husband. As if he'd want to go with me to see all of them. Well, I do have one who lives in Hawaii, so he'd be game for that, but the others, no thanks as per him. He pushes me out the door and tells me to have fun.

Guytheterrible

Yes. She has taken the kids on multi week things without me but she's never gone by herself. Depending on where she'd go I'd either be fine with it or concerned. She's...how can I say this...not the best when it comes to being logical and avoiding doing incredibly stupid things.

amin

My wife is a human like me. She was not born with me and she will not die with me or be burried together. Her rights ought to be respected! if she wants to make a trip alone then you ought to do like wise. Marriage based on suspicioun is an empty marriage and can break even the strongest bonds!! hope this helps...

dennis C

my wife goes to jamaca twice a year. she met some poor school kid there that she sends money to so he can eat luch and by school cloths. she like to check up on his school work when she is there.

NONAME

she goes with her mom sometimes, if that is what you mean. i go on fishing trips by myself. we trust each other

Ang ~princess on the way~

I don't see anything wrong with people going on little vacations separate. If it was with a bunch of my single crazy girl friends, then yes my husband would have a problem with it. But some of the woman in my family go away to Laughlin every May for a weekend and he never has a problem with it. He goes on the "guys" fishing trip every year too, at the same time we go in May. But if it were with his single friends, then I would have a problem about that. I guess it just depends on who your going with.

weisenheimer

I wish she would...preferably to a third world country where there is much fighting and women are treated poorly.

finding my mind

wish i could =(

Kelly

I'm aloud to go but none of my friends have the cash to go. And hubby is taking one with his friends this summer. I think it's totally healthy.

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