It disgusts me how weak and stupid my son is ?

Woop Woop

Your either a TROLL or some obsessed weirdo by the looks of your other questions...

Katie

You do not deserve to have children. Your love for your children should be unconditional. YOU disgust me.

buildypuss

I think that maybe you are the one to be blamed for the way your son is turning out.

Don't mess with the smiley

How about this, your a bad father!
If you were a good one you would accept your son for what he is and be happy with him!
Go lock your self in a room you silly child! I guess you were a bully when you were young!

frank

get over your self.

joediamond11

If he's such an embarrasment why don't you push him infront a lorry and be done with it.

God, who needs enemys with a parent like you.
Get a grip - have you heard how you sound - some parents lose their children to cancer and other nasty things, they would give an arm and leg to have them back.

Disgusting.

Lynn

SOunds like you are the one that needs help. I cant imagine thinking that way about one of my kids!

Wicked Ways

I can see how your son got so stupid, seeing as you only have the brainpower to ask this same stupid question over and over again. You say your kid is stupid? Looks to me like you haven't got the brains God gave to a fu*king walnut. Moron.

Bellavita

Your son has to be good at sports to win your love and attention?

Either this is a wind-up, or you should have been castrated long before ever having children. I sincerely hope it's A.

And do remember that children are a map of their parents!

wummer

Yeah right, you just want to see people's reaction.

Mariah "Mimi" Carey #1

YOU DISGUST ME!! HOW DARE YOU CRITISIZE YOUR OWN SON. HE'S IS PROBABLY BETTER THAN YOU.

Cappy

THe middle school years are crucial times for teens who are searching for their identity and belonging in this world. Your efforts to point out his positive qualities and spend quality time with him doing father/son stuff (fishing, camping, sailing etc) would go a long way towards building him into a man. Judgementalness, sarcasm, criticism and animosity from his father sends the message that he will never amount to anything. Kids have a way of living up to their parents expectations. Change your attitude and he will change his!

erics wifey

you disgust me i'll love your son send him to my house he doesnt need a worthless father like you*

laplandfan

Are you for real?????
Wonder why your Son is the way he is? Could it be he knows you favour his sister and quite obviously have no time for him.
many people would give their right arm to have children!

YOU disgust me for referring to your Son ans "stupid"! He knows how you feel about him. No wonder you have no bond.

You sound more than harsh. You sound cruel. I had a step-Father much like yourself except he also went step further by beating me whenever my Mother was at work or out for no reason other than I was a STEP child, unwanted and he also referred to me as "stupid" and thick. yet I left school with great qualifications.

Your attitude towards your Son will leave lasting damage and he may never forgive you for being the way you are with him. You should love your Son unconditionally irrespective to whether they are highly intelligent or good at sports etc.
You compare him to his sister on a daily basis.

It is you that is Stupid. Stupid for being ashamed of having a Son that you consider is not living up to your expectations.

Have you considered that he could be being like this because he knows he will never live up to your expectations.

I say learn to love the Son you have.

People like you should never ever have kids!

katydid

I'm a teacher and I see parents like you every day. I feel so sorry for your son that he is losing out on the unconditional love that every child should have from their parents.
You may be a successful lawyer (I somehow doubt that though) but you sure don't know squat about raising kids.
Take some time to spend with your son. He needs his father (if you treat him respectfully) and he does have some positive traits. How can you not see that?
So what if your son becomes a janitor? It's honest work. I would rather have a kind son who makes an honest living than a son who is an attorney and doesn't know how to parent his own son.

Crystal LeeAnn

You need an attitude adjustment when it comes to your son. So what if he is not good in sports. Not all kids are. If he is having trouble with school work, help him.

There is something you and he can do together that you can TEACH him to do. Build a model car and then work your way up to a clipper ship. Or, get him into leather crafts. There are other things he can try. Teach him to cook. All kids need to know how to cook and clean so that when they go out into the world, they can take care of them self. He might turn out to be the next great chef. Not all chefs are gay either.

Kids go through stages where they are trying to find their "thing". It took a few losses till my daughter found the alto saxophone. That was in the 6th grade.

You could also change his dress. I mean you are the head of your home, right? You can set the ground rules on that. I did and it works out just great.

Just help him find his "thing" and you will be surprised at how great of a kid he really is. It will help you to open your eyes to see he has more potential than you think.

a tao

I think you have such a particularly bad attitude I question wether it is your son's fault or yours.

Uin

I think the first two answers pretty much sum up everything I wanted to say in a nut shell. You really are pathetic, and don't deserve children.

Lisa Marie

Be a good role model for him. Maybe he learned his disgusting weak behavior from his father.

jess g

You are just one of those who don't deserve to have any children. You are the one ruining this child by comparing and being disgusted in who he is. Stop being so damn ignorant and get some help FOR YOURSELF.

the mikybars are on me

All you should be worried about is weather your son is happy or not, just because he's not going to be a lawyer doesn't make him any less of a person. Also it's snobby thinking being a janitor is beneath you or your family, if he wants to be a janitor instead of a lawyer it's up to him not you. Parental love is unconditional not based upon physical strength or intelligence.

Emma Girl's Mommy

Instead of being such a selfish A**hole maybe you should teach him. Boys develop differently then girls. You sound like the meanest dad ever. You are only giving him a low self esteem. I am saddened by you.

the_emrod

I don't believe you. No father would post a question on here about his son that said that.

kelley.gross

Yes, that is harsh! I can't believe that you as a father are being so critical of your son. The fact that you compare him to your daughter is wrong. They might be twins, but that doesn't mean that they are "identical" in every way. Just because he does not Excel in school or sports does not make him stupid! I am repulsed by the fact that you feel that way about your own child.

You should love your children unconditionally! No limitations and no expectations, that is what makes children become failures..parents like you who treat them like they are nothing better that what you think that they will turn out to be!

Singinganddancing

He will become a janitor if you don't find a way to fix this.

Watch Mr. Holland's Opus. And/or Dead Poet's Society.

We parent the children that we are given, we aren't necessarily given the children that we would most desire to parent. Parenting is a job. When you were first hired out of law school as an associate, were you given exactly what you wanted to do? I'm guessing it's possible that you were not, or that you know other people who were not. But in order to be successful as a lawyer, you have to do what you must. Well, in order to be a successful parent, you have to parent the children that you have. And if you have a child who is very different from you--who perhaps is more like people you don't respect for rather arbitrary reasons (not because of unkindness or lack of character, but for lack of qualities you have defined as necessary, such as assertiveness or coordination), then I think you were given the child you need to grow, and the opportunity to develop into a whole person before you pass on.

Good luck. Your son needs you more than you realize. There is no one else. I have no doubt you can do this. It will be the greatest regret of your life if you do not try.

you are an arsehole how dare you speak about your child like this you don't deserve you sons love. you will die a very sad lonely man and that's all you deserve

a&j"s mom

So he doesnt like sports, find out what he likes and be part of that with him. Instead of making him be part of what you enjoy, you need to join him in what he likes.

mum and teacher

I recommend a good boarding school. That way you can carry on with your dreary judgemental life, perhaps switching your attentions to the rest of your family and friends' failings, and your son can spend time with men and women who want to make his life better and who will inspire him by finding out what he is good at. Every kid is good at something - you have to dig deep sometimes, but it is always there.

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